Probs With Dastaar

[Laadli Fauj]

yeah bhenji, it's all you own chardi kala

Khalsa soe jo KARE NIT JANG

this battle is in the head

keep your head high, for you are wearing your father's crown, and no one can touch you, b/c they simply CAN'T

nvm bhenji, i read ur posts again

ur one of the most chardi kala singhnis i know

ur an inspiration to all dastaradhari sikhs

thx a lot

[kaur135]

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

thank u a lot.

u r right, it's a battle in the head. what i learned is that only waheguru will help u, only he is your support.

now i remember when i took the decision to wear dastaar in school, i knew it would be hard, i knew that i wll have to face problems. but i hab to choose , if i want to be a sikh or not. and if u wanna be a sikh, u have to be brave, u are never afraid of facing problems. u have to be strong. and in this battle u become strong.

the funny thing is that when one problem is solved, another appears.

now my parenst are okay, the people say that i am just doing dhakawa.

chal koi naaa

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

[Laadli Fauj]

dhakawa?

[Laadli Fauj]

ohhhhhhhhh

dakhava, gotcha

show them some real dakhava and buy a navy blue chola, tie a dastar bunga, and get a 12 inch taksali kirpan, along with a 3 foot talvaar to go with it

and read chandi di vaar everyday, real loud in the morning, to tick them off

[Singhstah]

print out a HUGE picture of mai bhago (maata bhag kaur ji) and stick it where all your family can see it. If they ask you about it, tell them about how Guroo Gobind Singh Ji Mahraj tied her dastaar on her with his own hands, and made her his bodyguaurd.

and about the other people saying you are just showing off, if you feel in the mod, I'd say give em a big talking to about Guroo Mahraj, dastaars and bibia,

OR

just ignore it and rememebr two of my favourite tukhs

Teree Bhagat na Shoddou Paave Log Hase

I will not leave devotion to you, even if people laugh.

listen for strength http://www.rajkaregakhalsa.net/audio/Kirta...a%20Chhodon.mp3

And

Je koi nind kare har jan ki, apna gun na gavave

Even if someone slanders the Lord's slave, they do not give up their own goodness.

actually just keep the shabads in mind whether you do or dont give em a good talking to lol

[varindersingh]

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji i fateh

i have a really big problem. some girls started to wear dastaar. we asked our parets what they think and they said that they do'nt accept our decision. it will craete a lot of probs in school and in finding a job etc. But we trust waheguru and started goping with dastaar to school. No one had probs in school, people were surprised when they saw us but no one really bullied my sisters or me. where we live are not much sikhs, and i think we are the firts sikh girls who tie dastaar in school.

we all feel very good with our dastaar. now we are happy how we are. we really feel like we are sikhs.

but our parents.....

they don't support us. they always discuss with us and discourage us. we all are very dissapointed. we don't know if it was right to start tying dastaar. my parents say, that i will never find ajob, people will discriminate me, people will hate me. i should accept that i live in a foreign country, wit a different culture. i should be like them. they always say : jaisa des waisa pes.

but what with my gurus??? is sikhi a fake? doesn't it fit with this time?

i ask my parents what they think about the shaheeds, they sacrified their lives for the guru, they never gave up, and we...we gave up when we get problems with our parents or in school.

my parents say that i should stop tying my dastaar or my "pagg" as they always say, what should i do??? they are very angry with me because i said i will never stop tying my dastaar. they said they will send me to india. one of my sisters was beaten by her father. i was really shocked. now i am really confused....is it all a test? or is it reality, i mean should we stop tying dastaar? perhaps is sikhi not for us.....

please help us

sorry for my bad english

wjkk wjkf

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa,

Waheguru Ji ki fateh....

My dear Sister,

If you love dastar then do not stop wearing it...

Guru Ji says "Satgur Sikh ki kare pratpat"

Also Guru Ji said "Bahan jina ki pakdie, Sir deje bahen na shodie" and if you are sikh then Guru ji is with you alwways and he has promisd u that he will protect u...

I changed few monthes back...

I love my family very much but when I changed from "Kumar" to "Singh" at that every one in my family oppesed me. No one was talking to me even I am the only son but still no one... But my Gur sikh sister over here always helped me...

but after few monthes every thing become normal...

So don't worry because "Man kyon baerag kare, Satgur mera pura"

Pura guru is "Akal purkh"

So Akal purakh is always with you my dear Sister...

I think bani is the main power for us...

So take support of bani only...

Bhul chuk maaf Karni...

Waheguru ji ka khalsa...

Waheguru ji ki fateh