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How and what is the best way to help yourself have more self control over the things u do?

I keep making and doing the same things again and again when I know I shouldnt. How can I keep myself on the right path and learn to be more patient?

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We really cant control ourselves maya's illusion to strong we belive God to be Far way

Dear veer/bhanji do Ardas to Maharaj with the utmost humility from a true heart sayingGuru Sahib these eyes these hands they are yours i give them to you, please dont let me misuse them, help me so that i dont comit this karam over over again

MEri Sangat poch soch din raatee||

Mera Karam kutiltha janam kubhaatee||

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How and what is the best way to help yourself have more self control over the things u do?

I keep making and doing the same things again and again when I know I shouldnt. How can I keep myself on the right path and learn to be more patient?

Are you strong in your rehit. Don't make the mistake thinking you can control anything. Waheguru controls everything. When ever you do paath. Don't think you did it. That's where we make a mistake. It is by Guru ji's kirpa that we get to sing his praises. Thank Waheguru everytime Waheguru made you do paath. Thank him when you just do ardas. He blesses us and we can do paath. Without his blessing we moorakhs cann't do anything. You can't get rid of ego, greed, attachment, anger, or lust. The only way to live in the five virtues is by the Lord's mercy. When you just say Waheguru once, thank him for that blessing. When you're hungiry for the Lord let that desire consume your pain.

AASAA, FIRST MEHL: In that pool, people have made their homes, but the water there is as hot as fire! In the swamp of emotional attachment, their feet cannot move. I have seen them drowning there. || 1 || In your mind, you do not remember the One Lord-you fool! You have forgotten the Lord; your virtues shall wither away. || 1 || Pause || ang 12

When we do paath we gain virtues, but only some realize by saying I did paath, I am still in that swamp attached to maya. We see it as I did paath, I can control the five theives. That hint of ego is there and we drown like stones. And the virtues that we did have are gone.

You hear a Gursikh speaking he'll/she'll say it's by Guru Sahib kirpa I can accomplish anything. It's by Guru Sahibs kirpa in the future I will keep his praise in the heart. They have realized I can't do anything and the most important realization is that IT'S THE LORDS PLAY.

He pulls our strings and attaches us to maya or to himself as he wishes. Keep one thing in mind thank him when he let's you sing his praise or listen to it and when maya comes before you then ask for his mercy to bless you with his praise. NEVER EvER THINK YOU WERE ABLE TO SING HIS PRAISE.

I have repeated myself in this post, but it's done to stress the importance that it's all him, all him!!!!!!!

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Guru fateh!

In ardaas ask god to help u,to give u chance to do sewa & patha regurally.

Read nice article & stories of guru ji.

Keep u'r self away from bad sangat(bad serials,movies,articles,pics,friends etc).

Believe in guru ji.Never leave hope.

When u will see movies like "mann jeeta jagjeet","Lalaan di quarbani","sardari","Shaheed baba deep singh ji" the nice thought will have great impact on u'r mind & whenever u do wrong to will get fear of god.

Always fear from god & do ardaas to guru ji for help control u'r self.Always remember "Everything happens by his will".

Always think that if u'r doing wrong u have to pay for it & life is very percious u should not waste it like these.

"IK IK SAAS AMOLAK JAYE HATHA NA AHAVE LAKHI"

Follow guru ji's rehat.Remember god is very close to us,god is much closer to us then our own hand.

Best of luck.

Bul chuk mafa!

Guru fateh!

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