I Kissed A Girl

[.- Prabhjot Singh -.]

Bundha Veer Jeo, you summed it up brilliantly, thank yous!!

On that note, I request Admins to please close this thread.

[Guest Sharam Kar]

I think we need a reality check here. Are we saying that once you take amrit that one does not make mistakes ? That we are 100% rehat vaan all the time ? That would surely make use quite amazing Gursikhs. Unfortunately very few are of this avasta. We all make mistakes, all of us, bar none. We are all - bhoolan haar. We are human so we make mistakes, all the time, many times a day, that is who we are, we cannot avoid it. I don't think anyone takes amrit lightly, but even after amrit we make mistakes. We need to do ardaas ask forgiveness and move forward. If however the mistake is major then pesh is required. But for something like this just do ardaas, don't do it again and move on.We ourselves put off potential amritdharies with these draconian attitudes, Sikhi is not like this, there is forgiveness and understanding when a person makes a mistake, not finger pointing and condemning.which of us here can say that they are purer then pure ?????

that is all well and true, if in fact the mistakes where trivial. I am aware that no one is perfect, we are all subject to mistakes. In conceeding this however i must say that this is not a trivial matter. You dont accidently kiss a girl. What i am trying to say is that sort of scenario is avoidable, if one uses a hint of common sense.

"We ourselves put off potential amritdharies with these draconian attitudes"- in a sense this is a good thing, if this was true only people who maharaj has done kirpa too will shakh amrit, rather then singhs who are not ready. Being not ready leads to such mistakes in my opinion. You don't have to be versed in the whole sggsj to know that this is a mistake. i stick by my original point, amrit is being taken as if its a game.

may i remind you that in the original sanchaar Dhan Dhan guru gobind singh ji maharaj wanted people to surrender their heads if this is not in one form draconian then what is?? nowadays people cant even apply common sense to everyday situations, yet they feel fit to shakh amrit.