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Self harm is a sin in Sikhi, unless harm comes to you because you are doing good for somebody else.

Sikh history is all about holy saint soldiers, and the Gurus themselves, deliberately putting themselves in the way of harm, to protect others.

They did it for a purpose, the good of humanity, and for good over evil.

If you are a Sikh, and you want to learn how to die, then die through the shabad. If you recite enough bani your ego will die and then you will not feel any pain and realise that we are all gonna go one day. It's best to use this human body and life to worship your creator. That's why you were blessed with it.

If you are not ready to progess in Sikhi get some counselling. Your Doctor can help. Don't go through this alone. Get help from any reputable and registered official body. Don't let anybody exploit your currently vulnerability!!!

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Yep, it's a sin. Who exactly are we to believe we have the right to damage god's creation? We are nothing! I witnessed 3 singh's drown a few years back, it should only make you stronger in your Sikhi, the realisation of death should strike you hard and help you to know that we do not have much time left in this life, we cannot afford to waste it... But self harm is no excuse for anything whatsoever, it gains nothing at all and loses so so much...

ismrhu ismrhu swis swis mq iblm kryh ]

simarahu simarahu saas saas math bilam karaeh ||

Meditate, meditate in remembrance with each and every breath - do not delay!

Coif pRpMcu pRB isau rchu qij kUVy nyh ]2]

shhodd prapa(n)ch prabh sio rachahu thaj koorrae naeh ||2||

Renounce worldly affairs, and merge yourself into God; forsake false loves. ||2||

Vaaheguroo!

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If you are a Sikh, and you want to learn how to die, then die through the shabad. If you recite enough bani your ego will die and then you will not feel any pain

wow!

If you are not ready to progess in Sikhi get some counselling. Your Doctor can help. Don't go through this alone. Get help from any reputable and registered official body. Don't let anybody exploit your currently vulnerability!!!

and well put

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To the original poster..I was not going to post but thought i would give my 2 cent worth..

Self harm is wrong in sikhi -correct but it's difficult once you enter that circle (talking from past experience)..

I can really relate to you having lost close friends and family who were at a young age but as hard as it is turn the loss of a loved on into a positive thing..start doing more paat for example when you feel like self harming begin moolmantar jaap or simran..it does work wonders if you do it from your heart..

Please don't self harm it is very very hard to get out of it and the marks it can leave on you are not worth it (talkin from experience)..also I would suggest if your not amrithari then start preparing yourself for amrith because giving your body,mind & soul to Guru je will really really help you and you'll see things in a very different way..even sad things such as death will become a positive thing to you..

Sorry for the long rant but hope it helps :)

Keep strong

Guru kirpa

Vjkk vjkf

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