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I really need some advice... :sad2: :sad2: :sad2:

I took amrit time ago however moved away from the panth (cut hair drank & other stuff) and returned to my manmukh ways but soon fixed up and have now come back with gurus kirpa.

the only thing is i took pesh from panj pyare init and they lyk asked me if i drank and cut hair etc i sed i did (because i did)but, with 100% honesty i never heard there next question properly and i think the way it was said was have u had relations with a married woman etc... so i answered no it was all so confusing lyk. But then when i think back to the tym i actually had relations in that period with 2 different girls on different occasions and we werent in lyk a relationship but they werent married either... should i go back and take pesh again im thinking? Im really worried i dont know how to say to the pyare they so amazing and chardikala init and are like talking to guru ji direct aswell... has anyone else taken pesh for this kinda thing? what kind of punishment will i get....i just want to be guru jis son again fully.... :sad2: :sad2: :sad2: :sad2: :sad2: :sad2: :sad2:

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Don't worry you are fine; you've already been peshed now. Even though the punj pyare did not know everything guru ji knows as he is antarjami. Work on your lifestyle now innit. Safe

Chill out now; don't mess about as it'll muck up your gursikhi jeevan. It is not wise to keep going pesh again and again. Man up and be ready this time and you won't spend your time worrying about your mistakes.

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DUDE!!! do go back to pesh at least you can get it off yuor chest... you know i have a friend who recvently went out to a nightclub and you know she saw singhs there with a dumallah and fukll beard who were drinking and stuff!!! when she told me i was lyke WHAT?!?!?!? and this girl isnt even sikh, she is hindu.... even she was anoyed...these stupid singhs were doing everything they shoudnt have been doing.... my point is if youre going to be a part of khalsa, have love from your heart, dont think that wearing a dumallah and having a beard will make you a singh... it all comes down to love for guru ji... singh if you really want to be guru jis son.. make a promise and DONT go back on it... take amrit or go to pesh and do it from the heart and nowhere else...

PS: on another note i hope those singhs really get a beating from Gurur Ji

Fateh!

go to pesh... apologize.. pray ...move on with Guru Ji

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