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  2. Yeah I can and she must be thinking what the hell did I do to be stuck in the middle of this hellish situation. She is theone person that tried to smooth things down but you are total headcase who will not let things lie and calm down. You keep poking and prodding to get your wife upset , then she takes it out on your Mum because you've p'd off so as to not catch any backlash and she needs to blow off steam. You really are a nasty piece , who wants there to be strife to get rid of your dharam paatni and you really have not illustrated once that you are willing to take a tongue lashing to resolve the issues you've created.
  3. kcmidlands

    Here's why I am permanently boycotting this forum ...

    Then expects not to be criticised, if you can't be honest with yourself what do you expect from others.
  4. Ok, she is going back to her peke , not with your blessing that's clear for all to see. Old tradition was girl would go to her peke when she is pregnant with first child because they know her better and she would feel less stressed. The other thing is she's pregnant not dying of a disease, women have done hard labour in fields etc up until the last minute, many women maintain exercising throughout pregnancy unless high blood pressure is an issue. I travelled by plane up until week 27.It is a natural , well planned for state of being. She is shouty, yes, she is spoilt , yes, she manipulates but so do you; I feel sorry for your Mum and Dad not for eitherof you, because they are caught up in both of your dramas . ... But there is no way she can be compared to the charitars , she has not cheated on you, or seduced people so please step off no one is buying that BS you are peddling.
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  6. RajKaregaKhalsa1

    Nishan Sahib, when did we start using the Khanda

    ।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ। । ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ।
  7. You know, after reading this thread (and a few other's you started about your married life and before that) I really have no idea why you got married, i could go on and dissect everything you've said but it's apparent that you really don't care and all you want is attention and for people to feel sorry for your plight. I will say this though, i understand you looking out for your parents, not wanting your wife to cause them grief, we all want that a son's but our parents aren't going to be around forever, when they've gone your going to be stuck with a wife who you've pretty much gone to war with.
  8. Ranjeet01

    Here's why I am permanently boycotting this forum ...

    When I tried to give him some advice, I told him to take accountability for his actions. I got accused of being homophobic. And a whole load of other abuse. If he just wants to air his problems and not want anyone to give any feedback he's better off contacting samaritans. Maybe he is better if going on a LGBT forum. If other gays tell him to sort himself out then he cannot accuse them of being homophobic.
  9. MisterrSingh

    Here's why I am permanently boycotting this forum ...

    As for Ajeet, I'm not one to kick a man when he's down. I still maintain he's a decent guy who's made some poor decisions when faced with the unenviable issues in his life pertaining to his sexuality and related matters. Regardless of the belief that homosexuality is attributable to nature or nurture, the fact is that he IS gay, and I can only imagine the struggle of trying to come to terms with it all while trying to also deal with uniquely cultural and family issues impacted by his turbulent mental state. The daily constant battle going on his mind is probably unbearable for most people. Where I diverge from his point of view is with his decision to seek a wife in order to satisfy the expectations of his parents. I would not have brought a woman into the situation (and I certainly wouldn't have borne an innocent child with that woman). Regardless of the pressure from external parties, I'd have been more than ready to labour under the mental anguish of my issues completely alone before I'd ever drag somebody into my conflicted life under duplicitous circumstances. I could never do that no matter how strong the forces acting upon me. Now that he finds himself in a situation where I sense he feels suffocated and pressured into an ever stressful home life, I worry what he may resort to. Someone of a volatile emotional nature - such as effeminate gay men and shortsighted women - resort to desperate yet ill advised acts in the mistaken belief that they will find a solution to their problems. I can only advise that he doesn't increase the karmic burden on his shoulders in any way. I believe he's incapable of toughening up his state of mind because if it was on the cards it would've happened by how or at least the early stages of the process would've been instigated. Latching onto corrupt, decadent and misleading western ideologies is of no purpose to someone in his situation. He'll never find the answers in what passes for internet-fueled liberalism in this day and age. I wish him the best. I hope God blesses him with a solution to his problems.
  10. Well, we could have. I mean, if the close-to-failing jihadi state of Pakistan can have basically nuclear parity with India, we certainly could have had a space program if we hadn't lost the Sikh Raj. Israel does.
  11. MisterrSingh

    Here's why I am permanently boycotting this forum ...

    To summarise: "I see the various deficencies in myself that are raised during the discussions that people like Misterrsingh contribute to, but I'm so heavily in denial and afraid of the process of change and improvement I'd be forced to undergo that I'd rather pretend the people raising these issues are misinformed and ignorant than confront those issues in myself and become a better person. I'm also envious of people like Misterrsingh but I can't bring myself to admit such a thing because it would reveal various insecurities about my intellect and limited understanding of the world around me."
  12. alex090

    Health Is Wealth

    Since breakfast is the first meal after 8 hours, it is very important. Studies have also shown that what you need for breakfast will affect what you eat during the day. Those who eat breakfast are significantly less exposed to obesity and diabetes than other people. The point is that do not forget the breakfast, do not even leave one day (without exception), because this promise alone will have a great impact on your health. You will not see this effect by eating donuts or a large cookie. The key to choosing a food is energy and tonic, and this is what we will refer to in this article: Consume food as much as your body needs. For most people, the full breakfast includes 3 components: cereals and carbohydrates, dairy or calcium foods, and the fruit section, which totals 3 parts to 300 calories. The protein section (like meat) is not obligatory, but it is acceptable, provided that you do not mix it with fat and calories. Below is a few combinations of these three sections: * Fill-in casseroles (a mixture of cereals), plenty of strawberries and low-fat milk * A mixture of cereals, an apple, a glass of cold milk * A slice of fatless yogurt mixed with freshly squeezed yogurt, along with a whole piece of bread wheat bread Frozen whole fruit * A piece of whole-grain bread made with crude cheese or jam, with a peach and a cup of yogurt * Chopped eggs, a piece of whole-grain bread, fresh fruit salad and a small pound of low-fat milk * A low fat meal, one Tale boy and a cup of low-fat milk * Take a bowl of sweet brown rice as a substitute for cereals. Brown rice is rich in energy, vitamins and fiber. Cook rice the night before. Then in the morning add it with a spoonful of honey, a handful of raisins, a few cuts of apple and a little cinnamon. If you do not want to eat rice, you can use any other cooking grain (such as barley, buckwheat, millet, etc.). * Drink a smoothie glass. You can take a piece of strawberries and a banana with a piece of ours and a glass of ice crushed in a mixer and enjoy a healthy and rich antioxidant breakfast and get a decent amount of calcium. Now you can reduce the number of fruits in the meal plan. * You can bring the main meal to breakfast. So you can put tuna fish instead of butter or raw cheese on a toast. Tuna fish is a good source of omega-3 fatty acids and energy proteins. For diversity and health, you can do the same with smoked fish, salmon or trout. * Take a mixture of cereals at home, because the commercial packages available in the shops are sugar and fat. To do this, mix 2 tablespoons of grilled barley with a cup of dried fruit, a little bit of other seeds and some brown sugar, and heat for 3 to 5 minutes. Load and hold extra for the next use in a sealed glass. It will be very enjoyable for you. A bowl of Cornflakes can provide 25 to 30 grams of fiber per day. Researchers have shown that people who start eating cereal and cold milk in the morning get more fiber and calcium and less fat. Other studies suggest that people who consume 2 bowls of cereal, their fat content is reduced by up to 10%. Enjoy apple cubes with peanut butter. The protein and fat found in peanut butter cause vitality to start a good day. Apple also provides fiber that protects against certain cancers and heart disease. * At Sandwich breakfast you can also eat. Take a piece of whole-grain bread and apply cheese on it. Then put a tomato ring and then a slice of egg on it. * Breakfast cereals can be mixed with bananas, and in addition to having delicious breakfast, the benefits of potassium in bananas are also fully utilized. Mix your own grains with soy milk. Soya is also beneficial for heart health, as well as estrogen properties. If soy milk is enriched with calcium, you will benefit from having stronger bones. * An interesting idea: Alan Anger, a researcher and nutritionist, has strange but interesting ideas for making breakfast varied. Mix 1 cup of peanut butter, one fourth of a slice of lean nourish, 3 pints of Flex Corn and 2 tablespoons of honey. Now, remove the material and make 10 small balls (bullets). Cover it with a freezer bag and place it inside the refrigerator. In the morning, eat 2 of these balls with a glass of nonfat milk. A few points to remember * Eating half the grapefruit is recommended twice a week. Grapefruit is rich in folic acid and greatly reduces the risk of stroke. However, if you are taking medication, be cautious about eating grapefruit, as it may be possible to interfere with those medications that are processed in the liver, so if you are taking medication, ask your doctor for advice on how to eat grapefruit. * Do not forget to drink a cup of green tea with breakfast. Green tea, in addition to having beneficial effects on heart health, causes weight loss. The results of studies have shown that green tea boosts burning calories and fat. * Include vitamins in your breakfast. Nutritionists believe that the body needs vitamins for better digestibility and absorption of minerals. * Sprinkle a small amount of flaxseed on cereals, yogurt, juice or nectar. In addition to fish, linseed is a good source of omega-3 fatty acids. * Create variety. Who says these breakfasts are duplicated? You can make new mixes with the changes in the type of fruit, cereals, yogurt or milk, and enjoy it.
  13. Big_Tera

    Here's why I am permanently boycotting this forum ...

    Although I dont agree with all your posts and topics. You have said some good things. Just like other posters on here. . People calling you all these names are self projecting. Ie its what they think of themselves so lumber these thoughts and comments onto other people Theres alot of people on here that like to jump on bandwagons and like to gang up on people. Its very childish and silly. Many are like sheep. Who will go with the crowd. To summarise Many over exaggerate comments and come out with false statements based on wrongly looking at the situation in hand without taking a balanced view. Many are not trained to give advice here so are better off not saying nothing at all. I have seen many instances such mistersingh and others spouting oral diareah when having no idea what they are is taking about and should really be banned from the gupt section for being a liability and cauing unwanted distress. For giving out unbelievable and wrong advice based on their warped mind about issues they know nothing about. While making all kinds of foolish assumptions about the advice seekers. It goes by the saying. If you have nothing good to say then dont say nothing at all.
  14. Akalifauj

    Here's why I am permanently boycotting this forum ...

    This guy doesn't live in india or is not married. He is gay and is here to gain sympathy for the gay community who are pushed to get married. He made up the story of his marriage to a girl to gain sympathy. He knows gullible people are on this site and views this site. So hes trying his very best to mislead people . Hes throwing a fit because his lies did not work on anyone. Now like a typical gay person he will bad mouth everyone and leave. Sikhi will not change for those who cut hair and neither will it change for gay or any other sexual orientation.
  15. You have to be kidding. I downloaded Sun Tzu's art of war pdf and read it one day back from office to home. Didn't make sense to mefor he most part. You can't really utilize it in personal matters , its just for war sake !!
  16. She's still going to her peke ! her parents harass us for this very same reason. Despite us telling not to move in pregnancy, she still wants to travel and adamant. AS I SAID , YOU DO NOT KNOW MY WIFE !! HER CHALITARS WOULD PUT CHARITROPAKHYAN TO SHAME !
  17. Too much support for daughter-in-laws even when they have been known to create issues. General low IQ of "sikhs" on this forum even on other topics because of which they are short-sighted. DO NOT automatically assume girls are victims and boys and mother-in-laws are the villains. Many of you will also have a daughter in law some day . then we will see This forum is a waste of time , and even on other sensible topics I have contributed a lot positively. But now its not worth it . Keep up the feline sympathy up. See where this takes you all , certainly not sovereign khalistan I guess lol PS : How I have been vilified and demonized in the last thread, going to the extent of calling me a sociopath and narcissist . The people on this forum likes to conjure up things that don't exist, you all are crazy over conspiracy theories and see them where they don't exist, Story is simple : I am gay and married a woman and felt guilty for it , I married her not because I had a deliberate intention to destroy another person's life but because I had no other option, and I always felt I would give her best treatment because of the guilt i felt , however she soon showed her colors as well . Thats the only story. You can conjure up the rest.
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  19. Well he made sure to drive a wedge between her and her folks, remember he was complaining that she was still communicating with her mum and sister. This is exactly how an abusive partner sets up the situation so that his wife ends up isolated. The other obvious power move olayed was selecting a girl from a very poor background , so there is no going back to bheke.
  20. I'd say the same to you actually. I tell you what the big problem is. People like you are (to put it kindly) 'risk-averse'. The advantage of people who aren't (who usually get into trouble when young because of this characteristic and not really understanding it) is that they don't suffer from the cowardly paralysis that inflicts people like yourself. And some of us who haven't been hiding under their mother's skirts all their lives, know exactly what type of people originally stepped up to the grooming/conversion issue. It was giddarhs singing the tired old song that you are singing right now that actually caused the groomers to get more and more emboldened. So emasculated people like yourself, with your fear driven lifestyles, are actually a BIG part of the problem itself. The enemy within. You do more to help groomers than people within who try and address this. So why don't you take responsibility for your own cowardly, unmanly, unSinghlike characteristics first, and admit how inactive people like yourself are exactly what paedo-groomers rely on, to operate with relative impunity. If SIkhs can't protect their own community (partly because of obfuscating cowards like yourself), what do you expect them to do about other communities also on the receiving end? This is even more of an issue, when the whites who've jumped on the issue are riddled with far-right, blatantly neo-nazi opportunists. The white community brought this one on themselves to a degree too, because it's their own police force, social services and successive governments and media that turned a blind eye to it all. Now we know how rampant paedophilia has been in the higher echelons of their society - it's probably a long standing, unspoken of, open secret type of cultural issue going on. That explains why these grooming nonces have been given such a free ride for so long. The whitey in power way of hiding this truth is to pretend this was all because poor old whites were too scared to be openly called racist by calling it out - which is the biggest bunch of BS ever - because if that was true, Sikhs highlighting and trying to combat this issue gave them the perfect opportunity to deal with this without this so called 'stigma'. But no, they consciously made the decision to protect the groomers for decades, again and again and again. PS - Theoretically if someone on any forum did do anything about this, they'd be pretty much deranged to post it all over the web (where we know whitey and their apparatus monitors) and incriminate themselves. Are you that clueless as well as cowardly? Thankfully many people in our community have seen through the pusillanimous 'arguments' of people like yourself and know what the score is out there. You should try and catch up. If the coward cap fits, wear it. Own it. Are you even a Sikh btw??? Or some sneaky whitey?? Try answering please.
  21. You know what though. Raw talk: Some of you guys out there. Just imagine that you had some decent daughter/niece that was married and then you heard the bloke was going on like this. That could cause serious problems. I'm surprised no one's come around to slap this gay guy around for how he's behaving??
  22. dallysingh101

    media brainwashing

    So basically, you don't really know what you are talking about and have a habit of making sweeping statements that have more holes in them than swiss cheese......
  23. RajKaregaKhalsa1

    What do you do when losing faith ?

    ।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ। I would start with an Ardas from the heart - e.g. Guru ji, I've failed, please help me out of the darkness - and take a hukamnama (online if you want). Remember the Mahapurakhs, their Jeevan, the miracles. Remember the price that Bhai Taru Singh was ready to give for his Kesh. To be scalped alive and bleed for over 20 days while still reading Japji Sahib and in Anand. Why did he go and do that instead of living a worldly life? Puzzled Bhaji, it's because Guru Sahib is the full truth. These 2 videos will help, quite inspirational. ।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ।।
  24. jkvlondon

    Which countries can Sikhi look to expand in?

    Majority are not allowed to express their spirituality that's 80% of folks , because of manuwaadi .
  25. jkvlondon

    Which countries can Sikhi look to expand in?

    The older generation may have had direct experience of sikhs during Burma war and second world war
  26. India, majority of the people there already believe in reincarnation, karma, aatma, omnipresent god, devotional music (bhajans) They just need to be introduced to guru ji.
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