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Sikh Girl with a Muslim convert sikh Guy
by Guest wishfulthinker- 5 replies
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Is it wrong for a sikh girl to be with a guy who's born into a muslim family but converts to Sikhism. Is it wrong for the 2 to be together in a serious relationship? The guy basically didn't believe in his muslim ways and converted to Sikhism, all his friends are Sikhi and he does everything a muslim shouldn't. advise please
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I got into Hankar Please Help Suicidal Thoughts :( 1 2
by Guest HonorTheSangat- 11 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Gurmukh Pyareo I need help. I am a 16 yeah old Amritdhaari and I was going great with my simran seva reciting Gurbani etc. I was going great until me and my friends at school were playing this game as a joke"who can guess what the person was thinking game". when we were playing it was all fun and games until my friend said me to read theirs, IDK HOW but i guesed everybodys answers or thoughts It was crazy, everybody or that little group was shocked and i told them to keep everything a secret, knowing that i may lose my avasta or IF I EVEN had a anything. (IT MIGHT OF BEEN just some lucky guesses) Then those friends came to me…
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Confessions of a Toronto Nice Guy 1 2
by Guest Regrets- 15 replies
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Dear Sangat ji, One thing I have realized is the whole world is obsessed with sex, posters on this forum are obsessed by the fact that they are addicted to pornography or are obsessed with kaam or maybe they have had sexual relationships already. I was always interested in getting married when I was younger, in fact as a young man, I was hoping that I would be married off when I was 24, it never happend. I never decided to have sex even at that early stage, because I believed in the notion of waiting till marriage. I think these these days, no one does, and the fallacy of expecting your wife to be a virgin is worthless as well. I waited, I still didnt' decide to have se…
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weird feelings 1 2
by Guest weird feelings- 16 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh. This has been happening for ages now. i'll be happy one minute then suddenly it just hits on me and i feel extremeley down. I tr yand try to look happy and i think of happy things, but then i just give up and am back to my normal self. almost depressed. I just start missing people suddenly, not anyone, but gursikhs that i've met, like really good raagis and chardikala people, then i dont know i just cry and listen to kirtan all night. I'm an amritdhari girl, in high school starting collenge next year but i don't even want to. I mean, what if you die tomorrow then what is studying going to help me. I know these are negative thou…
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VAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA VAHEGURU JI KI FATEH! Let us all post any bachans,memories, meetings or other details relating to the Great Khalsa Sant Baba Thakur Singh Ji Khalsa bhindrabwale.
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Hi. I'm starting to doubt the existence of God. Mainly because I don't know what it is. I mean religion is built around this notion that if your life is crap deal with it, God made you like this accept it. Why? I asked people and they say everything happens according to his will. So, if he wants someone to drink alcohol or cut their hair they will do it. Why should that soul be punished? Poor people and disabled people, are they disabled because God is punishing them? I thought God was a being that forgives. People are dying, people killed because of their faith. Its just wrong why would God do that? Why make it so hard for his children? I want to believe, I really do. P…
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ashamed
by Guest ashamed person- 8 replies
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i had some exams two weeks ago and I revised for them pretty well but for some reason during the exam my mind went blank and I panicked and I know I have failed those exams which were crucial to me passing the course. i was feeling pretty down and then one of my mate goes to me apply for mitigating circusmtances and say you were not well to the doctor and he will give you a note which will give you a chance to redo your exams. Now I did not want to do this as I used to be a mona do a lot of bad things but five years ago I started keeping my kesh and took amrit, and a true singh does not lie, 100% truth, but I will be telling such a big lie jus to cover myself, I booked a…
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Results from Higher School Certificate - someone help
by Guest lost- 4 replies
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I got my results from my Higher School Certificate today.... they are horrible. I was expecting somewhere in the mid 90's, but all my marks are in the high 70's to low 80's. I honestly dont understand, I worked really hard for this. I didn't do too great in the external exams, but this is rock bottom! I believe I am a decent Sikh, I have never really committed a kurehat, I do my paath and simran daily. I have yet to chakk amrit, but I try to follow the path of a Gursikh on a daily basis. I got an ardaas done at the Gurudwara for my results, did 201 jaaps of Chaupee sahib and numerous other paaths and ardaas. I know that I shouldnt have expected much, but I seeked the…
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Has anyone taken the train from Amritsar to Hazoor Sahib lately?
by Guest Singhneeeeee- 4 replies
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I am going to India, but i heard that the train no longer has a pantry (where they cook and serve food on the train). Can anyone confirm this? Is there food available on the train? Thanks
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Help with Confidence 1 2
by Guest Confidence man- 11 replies
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Is there a Shabad or a practice of some kind which i can do to increase my confidence? Right now im at work and i hardly speak or voice my opinions because of this, and this leads into paranoia as I think that people at work are against me. Does anyone have any advice on how to tackle this please Thanks
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Money problems 1 2 3
by Guest Kaur- 21 replies
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Dear Sangat Jee This may be trivial but is there any shabad or jaap we can recite to help bring prosperity? With the current economic climate we're struggling to support family and manage household bills. Thanks in advance.
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Help me, problem with job/interests...?
by Guest Idontknow- 9 replies
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SSA Sangat ji... I am still going to school making my A levels.... In the last. Recently I have many toughts about my future.. I dont really know what I want to be!! I mean I have no real interests... I just play some games on computer, and search trough Sikhi (Sikh videoes, kathas all stuff about Sikhi)after I come home from school... then I watch some youtube videos.. and the day is over.. On weeknds I go jobbing... Almost every day is the same! My grades are average/good .. I don´t study at all .. I just pay attention to the lessen.. and get my grades.. I am the kind of person who never learns or very rarely learns for tests and stuff.. And if I have to hand out hom…
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Nehkalank Avtar 1 2
by Guest Singh- 17 replies
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We often recite the dohra after ardas and say these lines: 'Danka Bajey Fateh Ka Nehkalank Avtar' Can anyone explain this?
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AKJ Simran Tune
by Guest naam- 1 reply
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I have been listening to Bhai Sahib bhai Jeevan singh ji's kirtan from the Detroit Michigan smagam 1993, I cant stop listening to it, the simran is really nice and I like it so much i would like 2 know what keys are played to the simran? I know its pretty simple, but i cannot seem to find the right keys.... its at 6:45 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-ouI-4Vz1ghttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-ouI-4Vz1g thanks.
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Age gap between man and women
by Guest Lkaur- 2 replies
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I have an issue this man is potential the one the issue is there is a 7-8 year gap! Is this acceptable ?? I'm scared what people will say.
Last reply by Raaj.Karega.Khalsa,