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Help Please
by Guest embarrased pappi- 6 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ki fateh I have a embarassing problem, i used to be a mona and kept my kesh and dhari for over a year now and with guru ji's kirpa have now took amrit, the probelm is when I was a mona i used to do a lot of bad things including mastrabating, but i have not done this now since i kept my kesh so it has been just over a year since i last did it, but for the last few months i have been getting wet dreams and it is really embarassing, since last month i have atleast 2 if not 3 a week and everytime it happens i cant even look at myself in the mirror thinking what a disgrace i am that i should not call my self a singh because a true singh doesnt d…
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Views of only Amritdharis are required here. It would be good if 5 Singhs could reply. If someone takes out a bank loan, do they have to give a tenth as Dasvand? What would be Gurmat? (for an Amritdhari)
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Butterfly Effect
by Guest gupt- 6 replies
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About a month back I found out about something that happened with some people we know. I don't want to write too specifically as its someone's private business but there is a very important thing to learn which I think we should all bear in mind. There was a couple out shopping and some stranger insulted the wife while in a shop, eventually it lead to a very heated confrontation between the husband and the stranger. Because the confrontation was so heated the wife started shouting at her husband to get out of it and walk out the shop with her. Once this confrontation was over the husband and wife themselves got into a very heated argument (about the confrontation) - lo…
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Humilation Or Not.
by Guest someone- 6 replies
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This happened to me on Saturday. I normally do sangat and do my share of sewa. I went to an asa kee war keertan. I thought the people that usually do asa kee war would show up late as usuall. I started in the intention that the Granthi at that Gurdwara wants the Asa Kee War finished by 8:00am. I thought if I start at least it will help the kirtanias save time rather than go overtime. So I started it was 6:30am no one showed up. I kept going for the respect of Guru Jee. It was 7:00am no body showed up. I asked Granthi Singh is anybody coming he said no. I asked him do we have any tabla player from the ragi jatha he said they are sleeping. I though I did a good deed after 2…
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An Apology From An American
by Guest Todd- 6 replies
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My apologies if I've posted this in the wrong place. I wanted to apologize and offer my condolences for what happened in Milwaukee this weekend, I am grief stricken and horrified. The kindness and profound insight I have always encountered when interacting with Sikh people has always inspired me and moved me.
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Most Secure Dastar Style
by Guest Rsingh- 6 replies
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WJJK, WJKF I am planning on joining the NYPD soon, and I need to know what the best option for dastar style is. I'm worried that the "normal" style that everyone wears will not be secure enough, and might come off during chases and the like. I'd rather not wear a large dhamala either. Any suggestions for a compact, yet secure style? Thanks
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Job
by Guest tutifruti- 6 replies
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WJKKWJKF Right il get to the point ernm iv got a telephone interview tomaro and i am preety nervous so i wondering if any of the sikh sangat members help me. the interview is with hsbc as a customer service
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Rubbing nose?
by Guest Thinker- 6 replies
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Gurfateh ji, This is going to sound super strange but I went to the Gurdwara and when some people do matha tekh they rub their nose? Is there a reason for this or any significance? Thanks
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Sulh
by Guest Amardeep- 6 replies
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Can you please advise which caste surname Sulh belongs to?
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keys to this on the vaja?
by Guest wantolearn- 6 replies
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hello everyone... im a 14 yr old girl and im not allowed to make forum memberships so this section is a godsend ) could someone please tell me what the keys on the vaja are to this simran: i really want to learn it on the vaja but i have no teacher anyone please??? thanks
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Mistake or paap
by Guest simran345- 6 replies
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I feel real bad for what I have done, I said some harsh things to somebody who I felt was taking advantage of me. It hurt me so much, that I ended up saying things I should not have, but honest to god, I did not say from my heart, and apologised so many times after realising I should have. I am a very sincere person, but the thing is I am also very sensitive after I was diagnosed with a health condition, which neuroligicaly affects me, so I get very angry without realising what I am saying, I dont really have much of a life, no friends and get stressed with my condition and having to hear people say hurtful things which they deny after. I would never hurt anybody as I b…
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Boxing
by Guest Singh- 6 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh i wanted to start building my neck muscles and i saw this thing that boxers use called a weighted head harness, http://i.ebayimg.com/00/s/NTcwWDU4Ng==/$(KGrHqVHJEYFBlQzFRi(BQlnYyLc2g~~60_1.JPG ^^^^^^^^ like this 1 ^^^^^^^^ I just wanted to know if that would be allowed because it could count as a hat which i know your not supposed to wear. but i was palnning to tie a little dastar and then put the head harness on. any advice would be helpfull Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fateh
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SSA Saareya nu ...... Can anybody help me out with some ways to control anger and increase patience.......... Please let me know if some lines from Gurbani or some path can help me out with..... Thanks
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wat to do
by Guest guptfemale- 6 replies
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i have just started my menstrual cycle and not sure wat to do. sorry its a silly question but really dont know any women to ask. the plan was to go gurdwara today for maharaj jis birthday, is it still ok to go as obviously gurbani will be read? confused, any penjis plz advise.
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Punjabi Tutor
by Guest Punjabi- 6 replies
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Could someone give me the contact details for a Punjabi tutor here in the West Midlands - willing to pay all costs regardless of how much it'll cost me.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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