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Just Cant Move On 1 2
by Guest pain- 14 replies
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ok ill start by saying why is life so hard. im 25 and been working so hard recently with my sikhi and everything in life. i give all my wages to my fam dnt spend much myself, i work my <banned word filter activated> off and im just trying to be good generally. anyway i took amrit 2 years ago. and feel really blessed and luicky. however before i took amrit i used to date a really nice girl. she helped me with my sikhi and was the only person in my life who listened to me. but i just cant get over her. i do ardass for everyday since we split up about 2 and a half years ago. the thing its i just cant get over her. i feel so down. b4 amrit i used to self harm a lot to c…
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Just Curious 1 2
by Guest call me wa u wan- 15 replies
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IS IT COMPULSORY FOR AMRITDHARI WOMEN TO WEAR A DASTAAR????? COZ I'VE MET MANY HU DONT ....BUT THEY ALWAYS AV THERE HEAD COVERED
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Just Rambling
by Guest blank- 0 replies
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Sangat ji, just wished to share few thoughts plaguing a mind that is perhaps engulfed with emotions So sometimes the emotions that make one feel low :D And the next moment one feels oh wow Maharaj is here to take care, get up & get going ਕਿਆ ਗੁਣ ਤੇਰੇ ਸਾਰਿ ਸਮ੍ਹ੍ਹਾਲੀ ਮੋਹਿ ਨਿਰਗੁਨ ਕੇ ਦਾਤਾਰੇ ॥ Ki▫ā guṇ ṯere sār samĥālī mohi nirgun ke ḏāṯāre. ਬੈ ਖਰੀਦੁ ਕਿਆ ਕਰੇ ਚਤੁਰਾਈ ਇਹੁ ਜੀਉ ਪਿੰਡੁ ਸਭੁ ਥਾਰੇ ॥੧॥ Bai kẖarīḏ ki▫ā kare cẖaṯurā▫ī ih jī▫o pind sabẖ thāre. ||1|| ਲਾਲ ਰੰਗੀਲੇ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਮ ਮਨਮੋਹਨ ਤੇਰੇ ਦਰਸਨ ਕਉ ਹਮ ਬਾਰੇ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ Lāl rangīle parīṯam manmohan ṯere ḏarsan ka▫o ham bāre. ||1|| rahā▫o. :-)
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Just Some Writing -- Updated
by Guest bored_writer- 5 replies
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Just felt liking writing something, thought I would put it up for sangat.... Chapter 1: Destiny being Written As the moment of truth draws nearer and nearer, I can't help but look back on how I got here. I have heard it said that we only get what is written in our destiny by Waheguru Ji, no more and no less. And that if we learn to live in his will and be good, he is more merciful on us and we can eventually find a place at his feet. Once at his feet the suffering of rebirth ends. I know that Waheguru Ji's feet is where I want to live and maybe that is why my whole life seems to be leading up to this blessing that I soon will be receiving of Amrit. For me it did not …
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Just Want To Say Thanks
by Guest GuptSingh- 2 replies
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Thank you for being Sikh Sangat. Sometimes it's hard to get sangat in real life for numerous reasons and get tangled in everyday junjaal, but it's a blessing to be able to get Sangat via online medium. Hope the positivity and pyaar stays high. That is all.
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WAHEGUru g anyways I wanst sure if I shud write this cause its like its weird if I do and wrong if I dont I would thank them personally but I dont know who they are so thanks mods shukrana ji for dping what i needed WahHeGuRu bakshis karay
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Just Wondering ...
by Guest _gKaur_- 1 reply
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i just wanted to know how many sikhs are in laurier university or going next year there? and what program you taking?
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Just Wondering.... So I Need Help
by Guest Guest- 2 replies
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I was just wondering something n i thought i wld ask u all if its okay. Basically, i know very little about my religion, now dnt get me wrong i mean, i do knw a fair amount but not as much as i would like to. however one thing always upsets me when i see young sikh people who really dont know anything. I mean i do not look down on them, and i have met many that would like to know, but there is nothing for them. i regularly go to the Gurdwara, n i willl be honest for me it has become a ritual. And i do not want it to be. i want to understand and learn about my history, i was speakin to my friend and she was aying the same as me, how our knowledge is so basic but we would…
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Justifying Abuse
by Guest Singh- 9 replies
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Today I was sat with a group of my friends and we were having breakfast. On the table next to me was this asian guy. He was very arrogant and he was being very loud. He was talking about how he was abusing and tormenting some girl he knows. He was saying things like he had threatened to kill her and that she was crying because she was so scared of what he is going to do with her family. Yet in the conversation he claimed he didnt really know her. One of my friends on my table said that the guy was in his lessons and that he was a muslim. I dont know i think we all know that Muslims have a different way of viewing women but this guy was just obssessed with talking about …
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vjkk vjkf i need help with kaam its really bothering me lately and i hate it is there a certain bani i can do or a shabad that i can read over and over i want kaam not coming to me, not even the though or situation please brothers and sisters help me
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Is .... *edited* Admin note: We do not allow such questions as we have minor members.
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From the age of 16-25, many people find it difficult to control KAAM. How can 1 control this, and what does Maharaj Ji say about controlling Kaam?
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Kaam
by Guest Gupt-Singh- 5 replies
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Hi all. Quick question - how is it possible to get rid of this? I trying doing paath, going out etc but it seems to keep building up over a few days then boom. Its very very hard and i feel its just taking me away from Sikhi now (I'm 18 btw). If anyone can help i would appreciate it.
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Kaam
by Guest ----------- 3 replies
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vjkk vjkf sat sangath jee, i am a 17 yr old male non-amritdhari sikh who is having trouble with kaam. I hope to be amritdhari one day but my problems with kaam are impeding me. I hang out with a chungi sangath. The problem is that sometimes I'll just be hit with feelings of lust so powerfully, I forget evrything and act on impulse. Sangath Jee, I have read many posts on this subject before and have tried controlling these urges but have so far failed. Any advice would be helpful. vjkk vjkf
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Kaam
by Guest manmukh666- 2 replies
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I need help. I have been trying to get away from kaam for 4 years but i just cant. I finally went 82 days without doing anything bad, but i fell once again. then i stopped for another 3 weeks, but fell again. i just dont know how i can stop. when i se something, it just stays in my head and starts building up. i am with sangat almost all day everyday, i read 14 baaniya everyday, everyone who knows me think im a saint, but they dont know that i am so weak. almost everytime i am alone, thousands of bad thoughts come in my head, and i fall for them. i jus cant beat maya. i need help. i even tried doing a chalisa. stayed in my room for 17 days but maya got me today.
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