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Movement During Smran And Kirtan 1 2 3
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WJKK WJKF I see alot of people mainly the youth moving and head-banging alot during Simran and Kirtan and i was wondering if its wrong or right? can the Sangat answer this for me please? WJKK WJKF
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Stage Fright (help)! 1 2
by Guest gursikh girl- 11 replies
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Hello Sangat ji, I need help. I can't talk in front of groups (like doing presentations or when all the attention is on me) like at school and stuff Im always so nervous and jittery and I have to stop and take a deep breath and swallow and I get nervous when theres all these gorey around me who are all smarter and I feel like Ill look stupider than them I know im amritdhari daughter of guru gobind singh ji but I still get so scared and nervous it's like I can't be spontaneous and just hold my head up and be strong and talk in front of ppl If im talking about sikhi then i can tal kto anyone with so much pride but any school presentation i get so so so scared and nervous…
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What Doez He Want? 1 2
by Guest ~confused~- 19 replies
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ive bin seein this guy n he doesnt gve me any signs hes interested. i know he is. but sometimes i think we r jus friendz, nuthin else. weve bin together for a yr now. had ups n downs. i want more now, n i dunno if he does. he is bsy all da time with his fam n friendz. my folks r pressurin me to get married. i wanna marry him. how do i go bout tellin him?
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Wearin A Kachera If Ur Nt Amritdhari
by Guest *- 9 replies
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wjkk wjkf cn a non amritdhari wear a kachera if they dnt wear the kirpan like most sikhs wera a kara,kesh but jus wunderin cn u wear the kachera as its nt reeli common...
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Recordings 4rm Leeds Rensbai 2003
by Guest **- 0 replies
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any1 no wher i cn get them 4rm
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Im having a tough time finding my Amritdhari Singhni. Its hard enough finding someone who you are compatible with i.e. age, education, family background, height etc etc But what I have noticed a lot is you get asked the question as to what kind of sikh are you? which jatha do you belong to? It seems that the panth is divided even more esp amongst the youth.. Ive noticed that the youth only want to get married to someone within their own jathebandi due to the differences on opinion on things which differentiate the jathebandis as otherwise this may cause problems later in life. It really hurts me..... We are getting more and more divided instead of united and becomi…
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Wahegurooo Amazing Feeling Sangat Jio.
by Guest - in chardii kalaaa~!- 7 replies
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Waheguroo kauu sangat ji!!!!! How do i even begin to explain what i feel at the preasent moment. I feel as if my body has been penetrated, and been taken over. Guru ji, is holding me and talk to me, his child. As i was just telling another bhenji she replied with " Dont want to get ur hopes up, but you usually get those types of feelings right before you take amrit"- to that, i thought, no becuase i feel like there are a few more tests to go for me ( and yes, im a non-amritdhari), but it was like guru jis way of telling me im almost there.. jus hold on. Oh woww!! I jus feel amazing right now. The t.e.a.r.s falling down from my eyes, are not tears of pain, but t.e.a.r.s o…
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Khoob Tere Pagree Mitee Thayree Bol
by Guest _learner_- 4 replies
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my spellings reeli bad bt duz any1 of the audio keertan of dis shabd pweeeeez
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vjkk vjkf, i need help from the sangat! I need some pictures based around amrit sanchar: 1. A picture of someone kneeling down (wen u receive anything, like amrit) 2. Panj pyareh in different poses, situations. (excluding the typical and common picture of all 5 standing up next to each other) 3. pics of amrit being prepared. 4. pics of the batta, the khanda, one of the panj pyarehs hand stiring the amrit, etc. Note: i do realise that amrit sanchars are in a gupt location, so i do understand if they are rare to find!
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Does It Matter
by Guest we- 2 replies
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In the end Does it realyl matter who you marry... If you marry a good amritdhari person who is close to God, do the details really matter, like looks, background, family, the amount of seva she or he does, how involved she or he is in panthic matters, how big their name is how well known they are, do any of these things even matter in the end? Isn't it just like, whoever you marry has God in them anyways and we are just getting married to the light inside of that person so it doesn't realy matter who the person is? Why are some people so selective like I want taht singhnee I want this singhnee, or I want class A singh and if he doesn't fit in that category 100% then it …
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Tribute Video
by Guest pardeep- 6 replies
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sant baba takhur singh ji - tribute
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A good friend once told me that in the paath whenever it says "mehla 1/2/3 etc" it refers to a particular Guru in order and hence its scribed by that Guru. So here's my question, in Kirtan Sohila ... there is Mehela 1, 4, and 5. How comes its a collaboration of the 3 Guru's? Who made that decision? I'm just curious ...
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Sikhi In A Nutshell? 1 2
by Guest **- 12 replies
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hw wud u describe sikhi in a few words..for e.g...if sum1 gora asked u wt sikhi was?........ help please...
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Simran
by Guest me- 7 replies
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Vaahiguroo Jee Kaa Khalsaa Vaahiguroo Jee Kee Fatheh!! Sangat Jee, with Guroo Jees kirpaa, i've started to wake up to do simran b4 my nitnem....but my sister is in the room nex to mine sleepin n gets mad bcuz it wakes her up...i kno i cud jus do it VERY quietly (thas the only way she dusnt hear me) but i enjoy it sooo much more wen i do it loud bcuz its easier to concentrate n thas all u hear. What do u reccomend i do? thankss!! Bhull Chaak Maph Vaahiguroo Jee Kaa Khalsaa Vaahiguroo Jee Kee Fatheh!!
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Difference Between Kaam And Prem 1 2
by Guest daas- 10 replies
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What is difference between Kaam and Prem. If you love some one from your heart without thinking about his/her physical condition..and you marry to that person is it a Kaam? or it's a Prem. So how come love marrige is aginast Gurmat. Guru Sahib himself teaches us to do "prem", prem with akal purakh. So if we haven't learned to "prem" (love) with ourselves how can we love God. Guru Gobind Singh sahib, "Jin Prem kiyo tin hi prabh payo" by loving God, you are marrying Him abd being one with Him. So it's our spirtual marrige with Waheguru akal purakh through Love (prem) not Kaam. And this way while living in this world, our worldy marrige done with love (prem) not kaa…
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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