Bhain ji
Just remeber a handful of fools do not represent everyone , we care about you ... I know some of what you are feeling but remember Waheguru ji loves you and will always find a way for you. I hope you are not in pain physically along with everything else .
have you been to the doctor as they can prescribe hormones to rebalance your chemistry to reduce the cysts and the androgen production which will prevent further thickening of hairs in a non female way ? You can drink peppermint tea daily also to help with this as it reduces dht naturally . Pcos is really horrible disease which can make girls infertile which is just like the nail in the coffin after all the harsh and nasty behaviour you've gone through . There are loads of girls suffering like you , and its increasing every day I cannot believe that even amritdhari bibian are being so horrid to you , but , given that they've probably never had to deal with your challenges they have no empathy . Sorry for their shallowness .
I'm suffering from endo so have my challenges too PM me and I' d be happy to talk to you privately .