In theory we may consider them equal but are they treated so?
Punjab has one of the worst levels of female foetocide in India. Gianis are all men, in the west the Katha and Kirtan are all done on the men's side of the gurdwara, the committee members are all men. There has never been a female chief minister in Punjab or the head of a political party.
Having some historical female warriors like Mai Bhago, Joan of Arc, Boudica does not tell you anything about the attributes of the wider female population of a group. Sikh women in India are very feminine. It is in the west where women and men are seen as more equals and that is where Sikh women have picked up some masculine behaviours such as focusing on their careers and getting married later.