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  1. The filthy rat worshippers term is usually used by muslims to describe hindus and even sikhs. Is this Rambo person really sikh?
  2. I have been seeing a lot of similar videos on Facebook over the past year or so. What would Guru Nanak Dev ji do in this situation, I think he would start a discourse, not start bullying or beating the sadhu!
  3. The problem is, people from the sikh community, both in the west and in India, make negative comments towards turban wearers. Comments that are either hateful, discriminatory, or take the mickey out of turbans. This happens in many families. Now, let's say when goray in UK discriminate against the turbans, then we protest (like in the 70s/80s), or take them to court for racism (Racially aggravated crime), or sue an employer (turban discrimination) etc But what heck is our community doing when so many members of the sikh community are doing similar things??? I mean, the only time I hear any
  4. Some of us come from very traditional families, so it is just not worth the beats to do this. Besides, people also have this hyper-construct of Singhs behaving perfectly, and going outside punjabi women, even going out of caste for some of us, can look like a guy that goes after women ie kanjar instead of someone genuinely looking for marriage and grihasta jeevan (Grihast, but autocorrect puts an "a" in the end so I'm going to use this spelling). Anyway if Singhs do this, then just be ready to lay down the fact in front of relatives that sikh girls are disrespecting Singhs and turbans, so it
  5. Since I joined this forum I have grown more mature and understanding of relationships. Firstly I am going to answer the title of this thread, regarding dating. To begin with, I think we should also understand things like puberty, hormones as well as peer pressure from media and society, and over-sexualisation from media. Also understand that in the western perspective, the dating terms girlfriend and boyfriend actually describe being partners, similar to what a husband and wife is. I have pondered, contemplated and understood some things: One thing is that, historically and world-wide, peop
  6. No people would not get angry as I have discussed in this thread here that some gurdwaras promote matrimonial services for people that actually hate turbaned sikhs: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/62606-disrespect-to-turban-at-gurdwara-matrimonials-from-sikh-females/
  7. So I see the problem isn't improving is it? I actually started a thread in the Beadbi section to discuss how gurdwaras are actually helping to increase these problems. I am uploading what a list looks like in this thread here: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/62606-disrespect-to-turban-at-gurdwara-matrimonials-from-sikh-females/ The list shows the state of things in 2011, I have no idea if things are worse or better now, it should appear on my latest post once the moderators approve it.
  8. I just saw someone start a similar thread here: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/75142-girls-views-on-guys-with-turbans I said I would upload a list of the problem, this list is from Singh Sabha Havelock Southall from 2011. You will see on the very first page that there are 2 women that are actually over 40 that dislike/hate turbans! You will see girls with mixed preferences, but bare in mind the ages of them as well. Obviously some of them may change their preferences as they get old and desperate, but look there are two 40 year olds that still hate turbans, so who knows? I haven'
  9. For amritdharis isn't having a muslim woman a bujjar kurahit? I do know that Maharaja Ranjit Singh was married to tawaifs, but he wasn't proper amritdhari was he?
  10. Maybe Guru jis weren't limited by maryada of specific jathebandis? just saying!
  11. Are you questioning the akal takht maryada? Is there no difference between having a mantar read on your food and having sarblohi degh done on it?
  12. Yep, good replies, to the jathebandi syndrome =D
  13. To be honest I would do a Professional IT course if I were you. I have done IT up to MSc level, it hasn't netted me a job, professional IT courses are more employable than degrees, trust me! The first course that you should start with is Comptia A+ , I would say its the foundation to an IT career.
  14. Not this again, why are people willing to do internet prachar but not willing to show up and have a chat about it? nindo nindo...
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