Singh1989

SSA. Well done n best of luck. Now, you'll encounter a couple of jealous Sikhs (I speak the truth) who will find ways to defame you / channel. If you were Hindu / Muslim then you would've encountered encouragement, bunds of it! Saade lokha t haii aa kam. Criticism max encouragement 0. Anyways, good luck you have my support

Just a question, know like humans who fall into Chaurasi lakh joon after death? Does it mean they'll be reborn THAT many times (so each animal/ creature) OR does it mean into a few of them BUT can b any from life form of 8.4 species??

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By meditation on Naam during Amritvela (b4 6am wherever in world you live). Literally even 5 minutes will do, after 5 Baanis. The effects of this will last long hours in day. Then after Rehraas Sahib, 5 more mins of meditation to refuel.

See? These rappers/ culturist start a trend on Radio, TV n Youtube. Selected media?? Where millions of eyes n ears will stare at them. Now, why isn't a Sikh on such media? OH WAIT! Sorry they are. And wha do apne do?? "Ho ho! Hai hai! That person in Sikh garb is defaming us look at them going against Sikhi!" (even though they aren't). If a Sikh stands in politics? "Hai hai! Ki kare jandha??" We apne appear to be jealous more n happy less. If a Sikh starts doing Katha in Baana n on youtube? Less views?? PEHLA KARKE T DEKHLO! Who knows? Maybe that individual too will get followers, admirers n next day college, kids may turn up in Baana.

Rich parents. Do you take your young kids out for weekends away, fairs n cruise ships? Do you show them the world whilst learning about them/ their progress? If not, what are you doing? Middle Class parents - ever take your kids to local parks, picnics, museums whilst teaching them about the world n encouraging them in their choices? If not, what are you doing? Poor parents - ever take your kids library, parks and town whilst showing, teaching, encouraging and learning about them? If not... WHAT ARE YOU DOING!? I'll tell you what yer doing... Wasting time, not expressing an interest in their life, relying on "Somebody else's job. I just expect them to be well behaved..." One day the same kids will turn around n see how much support n encouragement YOU gave them. Where were you in their life as kids?? They will wonder. From experience let me yell you, simply by showing them money ain't good enough. They need support n guidance from YOU! Not teachers. Not peers. YOU! Go out on a journey one time. Take your kids to any trip at all. You'd be surprised how little aapne you get to see over non aapne, in Western countries, when it comes to such trip/ activity. Heck! It surprising to see just aapne on day trips! Why is it surprising? Shouldn't be, but we made it as we do not take out the kids, apart from Gurudwara n town. Then we expect them to "know everything" without saying anything to them? Parents! You want your kids to succeed? You want them to make right choices? You want them to look up to you once they're 18+? THEY WILL. You pay attention today they'll pay attention to you tomorrow. With guidance, support and encouragement they will go far, all the while being emotionally happy n healthy.

First, however the "Guru's" are painted they're just paintings (imagined by artist). NO ONE knows wha Gurus really looked like let alone skin, hair n eyes colour. I too noticed this. Probably more to do with ancestors n lineage. Different caste, different skins.

Even if you move on the pain/ thoughts n memories will be there. You could open another Biz I suppose.

Yes why not? Come on! Times change. There no hukam against it... Unfortunately, also no hukam against sex in public. BELIEVE ME! With humans one things lead to another; if this is ok, that is ok too! Attitude. So let all be on the safe side n go with it is wrong for couples to even hug one another, in public!

No. I believe it was 4th or 5th Guru who told his wife t take off all jewellery from here on in. He accompanied it with a Shabd, now present in SGGS. Guru Sahib will look at you n say... "I told my wife this. She isn't above the Shabd... What are you doing??" Why do I wear a ring when out/ on occassions?? IDK... o-o I maybe should stop... (ahem).

BHAAJI! I a million% agree with u! My fiance's Non Amrit, I made it clear to her it'll b her choice for Amrit paan or not. Nobody will force her before / after. It is a huge shame Amrit to b cause of divorce/ separation. End o the day if he / she refrain's from 4 major sins at all times, y not? We just want our spouse t be baptised too for sake of society (same with heights)! Look at Goris. Loads o couples with mis-match heights. NOW! Good luck with search n hope u find the one. And if you go around meeting non baptised, b sure to relay your feelings that Amrit mustn't be forced but she must not b kurethi/ in line with Sikhi, along with other requests u may have. Kno my aunts n uncles in Mumbai? All aunts are Amritdhaari n Nitnemi. But the uncles? Moneh n Shraabi. It appears India / Mumbai are more chilled out than foreigners.

Although things are terrible Sikhi's certainly not dying.

I suppose. Trump acts racist n it's gotten him far. End o the day his honesty has done the trick. But open racism will inspire others to be open about it. Walking through a crowd of racist, would the different person prefer hearing honest remarks or walk by not knowing? It'll be interesting to see wha the next President brings to the table. What if? Obama was a secret racist/ sexist guy who hates immigrants? We prefer such guys, right? As they keep it hidden?? Not sum1 honest like Trump? Oh well... End of the day being quiet benefits everyone.

No.

Any views, shabds or Sakhi/ stories?

Ah! Two things have taken place. You both had a pending karma that has finally ended! Or you have postponed to be with the mental man until next time... (next time means next life). If God willing the pending karma's ended this life!

Yes. My understanding, reason this is frowned upon, there is a possibility that you n potential spouse's Great Great Great... Granddad (Nana Ji) was the same (same lineage). Yes our Father is Guru Gobind Singh Ji and no, it doesn't mean marry cousins (there needs to be a line). Heck! Two Sikh/ Punjabi couples with complete different surname but their Forefather could've been Genghis Khan or Captain Blackbeard!! Who's to know? How can it b proven? It appears we take too much pride in using our surname than using Singh/ Kaur, full stop.

See? I didn't read anyone's comments and I can imagine the replies "Go for a Sikh guy." "Find a Nitnemi dude..." Yes do go for someone who don't consume alc. During meetings BEFORE marriage put forward your demands that sumone who don't touch alc and wha they can do for you in a relationship. OH! N you'll find plenty of kind hearted, gentlemen moneh/ atheist... Equally you'll find plenty of krodhi, abusive n tight arsed Amritdharis. If you truly are a Sikh then make sure the guy don't even touch alc and has Sikhi ideologies. Whomever it may be.

I use comb/ kanga... Basically, a Kanga in shape of a large comb. Kanga don't create static to kesh, like plastic does.

So if I hate you I can beat you up with a danda instead o telling how you can improve?? SWEET! Hopefully the dandas will tell how you can improve on yourself...

All to do with diet and exercise.

Ah! A critical thinker!

Write down wha you read, according to Baba Takhur Singh Ji. Then it'll become easier. You may have Q's "What about the writing? Must I treat it like Gutka Sahib...?" Sort of just make sure your written Gurbani's always on a higher spot (table) and in wardrobe but where your feet won't point at night time.

Not at all

In my eyes, if it's ok for Sikh n Non Sikh around SGGS t marry, it is also ok for same sex to marry around SGGS. Hence I vote NO! You may not think it but this is exactly how the world loves to operate "If this is ok that is also ok..." Attitude.