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Actually it was only mentioned 3 times :D and no I did not count :wub:

Why do you think there is a tendency for fighting to start and poisoning minds etc when living with in-laws? I agree, but i dont understand why this seems to be a trend? Is it the mothers-in-laws? I was talking bout Literal poisoning :wub: I think the Fighting starts because of control, simple as, before marriage the mother had control over her son but after marriage the wife wants to control her hubby and take her thoughts and views into consideration more than the Mother. Then the issue of control over the house comes, before the Mother had to it but now the wife wants it, arguements can spark over the littlest issue such as what Sabji to cook and then escalates. And lastly Mother-in-laws sometimes feel its within thier rights to control the wifey as they do their own daughters i.e going out, do the dishes when I say etc...for a girl who was previous independent, this may be hard to stomauch. Solution? Compromise needs to be met! otherwise unhappiness will ensue.

I soo agree even on Bandi-Shorr Divas Park Ave Gurdwara was just full of people Metha teking and then off they go but at Havelock Street they actually had Dhadis and people were sitting instead of just doing the obligatory metha! I was discussing this issue just recently with fellow sangat and we felt that Park Ave is just used as a Nice Gurdwara to get married in and do Akand Paths when others are full, Havelock Road is actually where the sangat and atmosphere is. They should have built it in Uxbridge, i tell ya man there is need of a Gurdwara.

I plan to become a house husband balancing my career and family cos I find that Im generally a better at household tasks and looking after kids compared to girls who cut edges and then moan quite alot about how hard life is :wub: ...only thing she will have to do is cook the roti cos mine look like the map of UK and I'll do the Sabji's cos I like to put alot of Mirch Masala in my cooking which girls generally once again moan about! As for its not in our culture?...loads of people have swapped roles these days, back in the day it might have been Faux Pas but I dont think people really care anymore; unless you guys live in lickle pinds lol O and I think it is vital to get a place of your own away from in laws cos thats when fighting and poisoning each other starts unless inlaws are old, why not keep both inlaws in one house and live together?! :D

IMO it seems the candidate has be highly qualified and yet the wage doesnt support this unless whoever is going for it is making seva for panth No1 concern :WW: hmm out of Interest I wonder what qualifications are needed?! :wub:

I admit I get paranoid about what local sangat thinks of me! I admit I eat too many nuts/food generally. :wub: I admit I spend too much money. I admit I am Lazy. I admit Im not a good Sikh. :wub: I admit I cant read bani or get up for Amritvela sometimes. I admit I am talkative on internet but a silent in person. I admit people think Im weird but I dont care! :wub: I admit I have no close Sikh Friends because then they become sangat and I put em on a pedestal! I admit I love cats! I admit I could happily live my life without getting married.

A newly wed girl was being welcomed at the husband's home in a traditional manner. She was asked to give a little speech. She addressed as follows: "My dear family members, I thank you for welcoming me in my new home and family", she said. Firstly, with my presence I would not want to create any inconveniences. I mean that I don't want you all to change your way of life, your routine." "What do you mean my child?" asked the Head of the family. What I mean dad is: Those who used to wash dishes must carry on washing them. Those who used to do the laundry must carry on doing it. Those who cooked shouldn't stop on my account. Those who used to clean should clean. Yarrr Girl Power!!! :wub: She should say to her hubby its vital for them to get a place of thier own with or without him!

:wub: If only I had as much Gyan in Pacman as Ju! :WW: You're here? Who's here? :wub: Lagda Pagal hogaya!

:wub: If only I had as much Gyan in Pacman as Ju! :WW:

I think after reading the sikh responses to the joke and the context a Hindu person says it... its ment to mean that a Sikh some how become's psychotic/thinks himself as inviciable. So a Hindu would say it when he thinks the Sikh is about to blow a gasket?! Correct me if Im wrong!

Their like siblings, their bored and have nothing better to do! so they argue for the sake of arguing to win cheap points! O and those defintions are soooo wrong, Im not Amritdhari but I understand and realise the importance of Kakkar for a SIKH and am working towards becoming Amritdhari. So where do I fit in those responses?

Madan Singh Madanjeet Singh Madanjit Singh Madankirpal Singh Madanpal Singh Mahaan Singh Mahindar Singh Major Singh? lol Makhan Singh Mana Singh Manat Singh Manavinder Singh -- Lord of Humaniity! Manbir Singh Mandeep/Mandip Singh -- Light of sages Maninder Singh -- Lord of Mind. Mangal Singh -- Fortunate. Maninderjeet/jit Singh Maninderpal Singh Mankaran Singh -- Strong willed. MANSUKH SINGH -- Happy one, awwwww! lol Mastveer Singh. Mensa Singh. Mohanbir Singh Mohandayal Singh Mohan Singh -- Beautiful.. K i got bored now! lol

OMG I didnt know there was sooo Many fellow Harry Potter Fans on SS. I went Tescos at 11pm and stood in aline sooo many people were crying :wub: with excitement, but yer when the trolley came out everyone started screaming and the poor kids got pushed out the way by older people but it was all good cos they said only 3 books per person so I think everyone got their books, well I did...Im already half-way through! Its COOL! :wub:

Your Real Name (please give if you don't mind)- Biscuit ( ) Amritdhari Sikh (X) Unshorn hair ( ) Do 5 baniyaan da Paath (X) Been to Shri Harminder Sahib ( ) Been to Shri Hemkunt Sahib ( ) Do sewa in gurudwara sahib ( ) age under 17 (X) age 18-22 ( ) age 23-26 ( ) age 27-40 ( ) age over 41 ( ) Smoked a cigar (X) ever touched a cigar (X) Drank so much you threw up ( ) Crashed a friend's car (or a family members) ( ) Stolen a car (X) ever slapped someone (X) someone slapped you ( ) can do gatka ( ) do kirtan ( ) Play table ( ) leran kirtan and tabla (X) Pure Veggy...I wouldnt say Pure, cos sometimes I dont realise...bloody eggs in everything. ( ) eat non-veg ( ) Been in love ( ) Been dumped ( ) Shoplifted candy ( ) Been laid off/fired ( ) Quit your job ( ) Been in a fist fight ( ) if girl- Wear keski? (X) if boy- Wear Dumalla ( ) Snuck out of your parent's house (X) Had feelings for someone who didn't have them back ( ) Been arrested ( ) Gone on a blind date (X) fancied ya boss/teacher (X) Lied to a friend (X) Skipped school ( ) Seen someone die in person. ( ) Been to Canada ( ) Been to Mexico (X) Been on a plane (X) Been lost (X) Been on the opposite side of the country ( ) Gone to Washington, DC ( ) Swam in the ocean (X) felt like dying (X) Cried yourself to sleep (X) Played cops and robbers (X) Recently colored with crayons (X) Sang karaoke (X) Paid for a meal with only coins (X) Done something you told yourself you wouldn't do (X) Made prank phone calls ( ) Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose ( ) Caught a snowflake on your tongue (x) Danced in the rain ( ) Written a letter to Santa Claus ( ) Been kissed under the mistletoe ( ) Watched the sun rise with someone you care about ( ) Blown soap bubbles *What is your favorite drink?- Water *Tattoos?- NONE *Body piercing? NONE *How much do you love your job?- not got one *What day is it? Wednesday *home? Is nice *fav. color? Blue and yellow * if amritdhari- *fav. vacation spot? india *favourite time of year? winter *Ever been to Africa ? NO *Europe? yes *CD in the player at the moment? empty, I put my CD's back in the covers Thank you! :wub: *Xmas eve or New Years eve? xmas eve *Ever steal any traffic signs? NO *Fantasy person? eh? *Ever been in a car accident? YES *Chips or mash? chips *Salad dressing? non egg one :wub: *Favorite brand of body soap? Imperial *Toothpaste? Colgate Total *Furthest place you will send this message? AUSTRALIA *Who will respond the fastest? dunno know *ever been to India?- YES *in touch with your school friends?- YES *how long you take for shower?- about 20 mins. *mostly speak?- english, punjabi *can speak?- PUNJABI - ENGLISH - Hindi - FRENCH - (little bit) Gujarati *wear glasses? supposed to *you are funny or serious?- both *working in professional job? no *dance at wedding parties? YES *fav food?- okra *drive?- no *education level with title?- well got my a'levels *you are...? MALE * how long is your turban (boys only)- 5 metres * how long is your keski (girls only)- * can do this dance?- wat dance? *ethinic background?- punjabi. *religion?- Sikh.

Ah-Ho!

so thier bribing Hindus to convert? so say the course lasts 3 years, and they become Sikh for first year and become exempt from fee's then become Hindu in 2nd Year, gotta pay fees then but in third year become sikh again...thats two years without fees. :wub: And how they gonna monitor Students? They only gotta look Sikh, but how they gonna change mentalities? Are SGPC creating Hindus that look like Sikhs?...Theres already plenty of them running around in punjab.

I took Helium recently to sound like a Chipmunk, but little did I realise that taking loads... it intoxicates people. O well...had a giggle :wub:

wots with the term "paki" aint u guys got no respect? :wub: Paki means Pure...its a compliment. :wub:

I love Punjabi_Link and i mean it. Why i said "same old crap" was because this has been discussed before and the only problem with Punjabi_Link is that he calls himself a JATT :wub: . We all know jatts a arrogant lil creatures :wub: . You alwayyys gotta upstage me havent you :wub: :wub:

the whole world doesn't revolve around you well thanks for showing me YET AGAIN, what maturity level is your thinking at :awesome what you call a "double standard" is only in your head, or maybe perhaps in the 1% of sikhs around you. trust me, there are others that treat men and women equally, OMG a shocker for you i guess the more you post, the more i realize why singhs dont like you, and i dont blame em man I like Punjabi_Link :wub: :T: You cant blame him for criticising you and B4ND4 Ji...you two always in same threads, I bet you work together or something considering both have ample time to post from work...Bechara calling his comments "Same old Crap"...be nice!

Rajeev Masand: You apparently learnt some traditional form of martial arts for this film. Priyanka Chopra: Yes, it is called Gatka. It is a Sikh form of martial art, which is fought with swords. The defence mechanism of this form is very rooted. Though I can’t talk about it much at this point of time. But it looks quite spectacular. http://www.ibnlive.com/news/i-have-not-reg...ne/43457-8.html Bollywood seems to be recently fancinated with Sikhi to promote itself, though I wonder in what light Gatka will be shown? Sikh or Hindu? or no reference to either!?...Rare.

http://www.tribuneindia.com/2007/20070716/main4.htm :wub:

http://sify.com/news/fullstory.php?id=1449...p;vsv=SHGTslot7 I guess there's gonna be Single Parent Families and Step-Parents Galour over there aswell.

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/poli...icle2080551.ece Local Labour Leaders call Gurcharan Singh supporters Khalistani Nutters, and are glad about his defection to the Tories! :wub:

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