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my chacha is having his wedding next month and he is amritdharee and everone wants him to wear a kalgi but i've heard that only Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj is the only one allowed to wear one or something like that

please help sangat ji

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Only Satguru Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj, the king of kings and the saint of saints wears a kalgi...

IMPORTANT NOTICE FOR ALL SIKHS

WEARING THE KALGI (PLUME) ON THE TURBAN ON WEDDINGS - by Manvir Singh Khalsa

Wearing a Kalgi (a plume) on one’s turban signifies that the person is a royal person, a king and a person with great responsibility and respect.

Unfortunately in recent years people have been following the practice of putting a Kalgi on the groom’s turban on the wedding day, which is ceremoniously removed in the Diwaan Hall in the Gurdwara Sahib by the groom’s sisters.

Is wearing a Kalgi in accordance to Gurmat, the Guru’s way? Could you wear a Kalgi on your turban and walk inside the Golden Temple and not be stopped by fellow Sikhs or sewadaars?

Is wearing a Kalgi in the house of Guru Gobind Singh Ji, our King who we call ‘Kalgiaa(n)vala’ (the one who wear’s the plume) not a great act of disrespect?

If the groom is a king like Guru Gobind Singh ji, then by all means wear a Kalgi on the turban.

If the groom can carry us across to Waheguru like Guru Gobind Singh Ji, then by all means wear a Kalgi on the turban.

If the groom can do the same things which Guru Gobind Singh Ji done, which makes him worthy of being called ‘the one with Kalgi’ then by all means wear a Kalgi on the turban.

We must address this issue and educate ourselves.

We must understand that people and not the Gurus start these practices.

We must take action to stop any form of disrespect to the Guru Granth Sahib Ji, the living speaking soul of the Ten Gurus. 

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Yeh you can wear a Kalgi, but you have to remove it before Guru Sahib.

Hope it helped.

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i get the feeling te response u made is in relation to ur screen name? did u read the post before??

no shouldnt wear a kalgi. If he is amritdhari then whats wrong with wearing a Chand Tora? And dhumala shastar? Why the need to wear the plume only Guru Gobind Singh ji has the right to wear?

He should himself know that...

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