Jump to content

Urmm ...help?


Guest _someone_
 Share

Recommended Posts

Guest _someone_

fatehji

i work in this place.....and normally about a week or so they have have some groups coming to do a talk on sexually transmitted diseases....now, i realllllyyy feel very uncomfortable and it doesnt apply to me......so i dont know what to do...tell the tutor that i do not want ot participate in this group activtiy/ talk .....theres a chance of people thinking im a snob or something....alot of goreh in the classroom.....but i reallly dont feel comfprtable i feel like crying/screaming!!! :D ......is that just me being immature?

sorry to start of this kind of topic but hope i could get some views?

fatehji

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest no-one :)

i think it's always good to be educated about this stuff, even if it doesn't directly apply to you. you never know, your knowledge might one day save someone else, or help them.

personally i've never had any problems talking about this kind of stuff to the rest of my peers and colleagues. but i do know people who have severe problems with it being mentioned. in my experience it got to a stage where 17/18 yr old sikh youth didn't know where kids came from, and i had to tell them.

thesedays there are so many diseases which need to be highlighted and sorted out... i think it's always good to have an open discussion about them. being a singhni has never stopped me, and it's let me teach other people who aren't comfortable about it being discussed in schools/colleges.

i don't think it's you being immature, because i know a lot of people with the same problem. i think it's our culture which has this stuff hushed up, even if it's purely educational.

jus some thoughts - perhaps someone else could advise on what to do in your situation.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

normally .. u can talk to ur employer about this kinda stuff.. if u dun feel comfortable about something usually they tell everyone to approach them if this is the case.. like something that goes against ur beliefs etx.. but this is a personal thing .. all we can say its good to sit through it cuz its a educational experience (which would be my response too) but if u reli cant .. u should talk to ur employer and im sure something can be reached ..

Link to comment
Share on other sites

If you are getting paid for it to learn why not man, Its' always good to be a well rounded person and have knowledge about everything.

Now, if you don't feel comfortable, just like my homie Jaspaul said talk to you employer and something can be done. You have every right to tell him/her your concerns or worries about the job and/or the environment surronding it! :TH:

GOOOOOOOD LUCKKKKKKKKKKK!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
 Share

  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt


  • Topics

  • Posts

    • Net pay after taxes. If you don't agree, think about this: If you were a trader and started off in China with silk that cost 100 rupees and came to India, and you had to pay total 800 rupees taxes at every small kingdom along the way, and then sold your goods for 1000 rupees, you'd have 100 rupees left, right? If your daswandh is on the gross, that's 100 rupees, meaning you have nothing left. Obviously, you owe only 10% of 100, not 10% of 1000. No, it's 10% before bills and other expenses. These expenses are not your expenses to earn money. They are consumption. If you are a business owner, you take out all expenses, including rent, shop electricity, cost of goods sold, advertising, and government taxes. Whatever is left is your profit and you owe 10% of that.  If you are an employee, you are also entitled to deduct the cost of earning money. That would be government taxes. Everything else is consumption.    
    • No, bro, it's simply not true that no one talks about Simran. Where did you hear that? Swingdon? The entire Sikh world talks about doing Simran, whether it's Maskeen ji, Giani Pinderpal Singh, Giani Kulwant Singh Jawaddi, or Sants. So what are you talking about? Agreed. Agreed. Well, if every bani were exactly the same, then why would Guru ji even write anything after writing Japji Sahib? We should all enjoy all the banis. No, Gurbani tells you to do Simran, but it's not just "the manual". Gurbani itself also has cleansing powers. I'm not saying not to do Simran. Do it. But Gurbani is not merely "the manual". Reading and singing Gurbani is spiritually helpful: ਪ੍ਰਭ ਬਾਣੀ ਸਬਦੁ ਸੁਭਾਖਿਆ ॥  ਗਾਵਹੁ ਸੁਣਹੁ ਪੜਹੁ ਨਿਤ ਭਾਈ ਗੁਰ ਪੂਰੈ ਤੂ ਰਾਖਿਆ ॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ The Lord's Bani and the words are the best utterances. Ever sing hear and recite them, O brother and the Perfect Guru shall save thee. Pause. p611 Here Guru ji shows the importance of both Bani and Naam: ਆਇਓ ਸੁਨਨ ਪੜਨ ਕਉ ਬਾਣੀ ॥ ਨਾਮੁ ਵਿਸਾਰਿ ਲਗਹਿ ਅਨ ਲਾਲਚਿ ਬਿਰਥਾ ਜਨਮੁ ਪਰਾਣੀ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ The mortal has come to hear and utter Bani. Forgetting the Name thou attached thyself to other desires. Vain is thy life, O mortal. Pause. p1219 Are there any house manuals that say to read and sing the house manual?
    • All of these are suppositions, bro. Linguists know that, generally, all the social classes of a physical area speak the same language, though some classes may use more advanced vocabulary. I'm talking about the syntax. That is, unless the King is an invader, which Porus was not. When you say Punjabi wasn't very evolved, what do you mean? The syntax must have been roughly the same. As for vocabulary, do you really think Punjabis at the time did nothing more than grunt to express their thoughts? That they had no shades of meaning? Such as hot/cold, red/yellow/blue, angry/sweet/loving/sad, etc? Why must we always have an inferiority complex?
    • I still think about that incident now and then, just haven't heard any developments regarding what happened, just like so many other things that have happened in Panjab!
    • There was a young Singh from abroad who went to Anandpur Sahib Hola and got into a fight with some Punjabis who were playing loud non-religious music. He had bana and a weapon or two. There were more of them than him.  He ended up losing his life. Don't be like that. Not worth it to fight manmukhs. @californiasardar1 ਮੂਰਖੈ ਨਾਲਿ ਨ ਲੁਝੀਐ ॥੧੯॥ Argue not with a fool. p473
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use