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Im getting bullied and joked about by other Sikhs for being overly hairy, I am a western nation citizen so not only do I have to put up with Out of Sikh circles but inside aswell...when I was a teenager it affected me badly I got brutally bullied at school and Gurdwara that ment I didnt willingly go to either.

I never gave up my sikh saroop because I thought I owed it to Shaheed Bhai Taru Singh Ji and other Gursikhs who went through worse torture...even so it got so bad I attempted sucide several times.

In the past 4/5 years my white and non-sikh Close friends have helped me get more confidence in myself to a point where I didnt care what people thought in Public places...but the problem is as I get closer to Sikhism, Sangat and go GurGhar I find that I am over-whelming getting mocked and stared at again. I dont blame some people. sometimes they cant help but look and stare cos I am different but comments made by people like "He's so hairy you can only see Vaal" (Im not that hairy) but still its bringing me down and I dont want to get to a low point again where I dont want to go out.

My non-Sikh white friends say I should give up on Sikhi as it is clear that the Sikh saroop I am keeping is irregular even for Sikhs and that I should maybe just trim/electrosis/laser hair remove parts that people find so offencive...and for the first time in my life this course of action has come into my thinking. What does the sangat think I should do?

I know its wrong but I am at a low point!

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bhajji u know the sroop of guru gobind singh jee .... its not like that shown in pics .... its in our granths .... they have heaviest beard among all sikhs .... dhuni toon thale jandi see ohna di darhi .... and a son will always look like his father ....

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Gurfetah Paaji!

I am so sorry to hear that your facing so much rubbish from so called 'sikhs' regarding your God given Kesh. I know its easier said then done but I would'nt worry about what they think or say to you.

Your are the son of Guru Gobind Singh Maharaj! You are walking his footsteps. And in the words of Guru Sahib "Rehat pyari mujhko - Sikh pyara Nahen" (meaning I am in love with the character/discipline of the Sikh, I am not in love with the so called 'Sikh'). Also "Rehni rahe soi Sikh mera, oh sahib mein uska chara" (meaning one who keeps the commands is my Sikh. In that case, he is my master and I am his desciple). Vaheguroooo!

You are right that not only do we owe it to Guruji for keeping our Kesh but also to all the Shaheeds who sacrificed their lives for each one of us to be able to freely keep our Kesh.

I admire your love for Guruji for keeping your Kesh even though you have had so much grief. I know you will carry on and inspire more people to become Guru Sahib's Sikhs. May Guruji give you the power to ignore these fools. Gur merah sang sada hai nal. :D

Khalsa mero roop hai khaas!

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Gurufateh!

Veer Ji - i dont really know WHAT to say - all i can say is ignore them and i think its pethetic that our OWN disrespect each other - the two Bhen Ji'an have given gud advise above...

But u know what this is the first ive heard of this - i thought ONLY Kuri'an had to listen to comments about their appearance..... :D

Dont worry Veer Ji - FORGET THEM! EVERYONE has hard times - cowards are those that run out - soldiers are those that walk out :TH: I admire you for still walking thru it!!

WITH U IN SPIRIT!!! :D

Gurufateh!

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Gurufateh!

Veer Ji - i dont really know WHAT to say - all i can say is ignore them and i think its pethetic that our OWN disrespect each other - the two Bhen Ji'an have given gud advise above...

But u know what this is the first ive heard of this - i thought ONLY Kuri'an had to listen to comments about their appearance..... :D

Dont worry Veer Ji - FORGET THEM! EVERYONE has hard times - cowards are those that run out - soldiers are those that walk out :TH: I admire you for still walking thru it!!

WITH U IN SPIRIT!!! :D

Gurufateh!

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Guest _Navneet Kaur_

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hey bhajji, pathetic people will always criticise you whateva you do.Some people in the past have tried to really put me down and it does hurt! but at the end of the day its ure life and for you sikhi is more important.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :e: grin.gif :TH: :nihungsmile:

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^^Its not funny.

Who are we to call it BAD, we all should think b4 we type anythg. to ask how bad is it, is itself an absurd question. There are better ways of sayin thgs. Does it matter in wht he is hairy ?

stop being so immature

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