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How come Sikhs tend to be stricter on Sikh males when it comes to Sikhi than they're to Sikh females?

I have noticed in a lot of Sikh families that males wear turbans while the females cut their hair, do their eyebrows, shave their legs etc.... but yet, Sikhs don't mind seeing their women doing such thing. How come it isn't an issue when a female cuts her hair, but it isn't okay for a Sikh male to do the same?

Then people wonder why many Sikh girls are losing their touch when comes to sikhi and converting to other religions.

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Another Question: Since we are talking about double standards in this thread, I like to ask is why are Sikh women not allowed to do kirtan and seva (I think) in Harimandir Sahib?

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depends on which families are you around thats all.

Have you ever heard of Keshdhari female before?

The point I am trying to make is that there is double standard in the Sikh community. What I mention in my last post is a common thing you can find in a lot of Sikh (Keshdhari) families unless if they're all amritdhari or monay.

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JUST being kesadhari dont make you sikh

The Definition of Sikh :

Article I

Any human being who faithfully believes in

i. One Immortal Being,

ii. Ten Gurus, from Guru Nanak Sahib to Guru Gobind Singh Sahib,

iii. The Guru Granth Sahib,

iv. The utterances and teachings of the ten Gurus and

v. the baptism bequeathed by the tenth Guru, and who does not owe allegiance to any other religion, is a Sikh

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as Papi said it all depends on what families you have been around. That being said i would like to know if you are a Sikh ? I hope you won't mind me asking that from you.

Define what a Sikh is first? LOL

Were you born in a Sikh family ? Question ain't that hard brother.

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as Papi said it all depends on what families you have been around. That being said i would like to know if you are a Sikh ? I hope you won't mind me asking that from you.

Define what a Sikh is first? LOL

Were you born in a Sikh family ? Question ain't that hard brother.

You know that you can't be born as a Sikh. rolleyes.gif

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JUST being kesadhari dont make you sikh

The Definition of Sikh :

Article I

Any human being who faithfully believes in

i. One Immortal Being,

ii. Ten Gurus, from Guru Nanak Sahib to Guru Gobind Singh Sahib,

iii. The Guru Granth Sahib,

iv. The utterances and teachings of the ten Gurus and

v. the baptism bequeathed by the tenth Guru, and who does not owe allegiance to any other religion, is a Sikh

LOL @ Rehat Maryada

There is so many different rehits out there, homie. Besides, I am sure Keshdhari believe in all the Sikh gurus and don't own allegiance to any other religion.

Anyway, let's not get off-topic here.

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