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between 1-3 yrs is no big deal. i personally wouldn't be comfortable marrying anyone if there is a 10 year or so age gap. just think about it, when you graduated high school or were in college, your spouse was just in elementary. it would feel like marrying your baby sisters friend in a way. imagine being around the age of 18 to 20, would you be comfortable looking at someone 10 years younger in the way you look at your spouse. just my point of view.

Thats why you do not get married till you are 30 :p

i want my wife to be 10 years older then me...shetti gaddi char ju gi...and i'll be a happy single again :)

Thats what you think, what about the 20 years of life she is going to take off you. :D

Don't forget the many years worth of your hard earned money she is going to take from you as well!

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Love goes out with wind when husband is older or wife is older after initial years of marriage and raising children....when one is young things work out fine due to demands of life.but as one ages the compatibility reduces....because the physical and emotional requirement of the younger partner does not diminish as much as of...and this is understood by the other fairly well especially when the older partner is unable to fulfill these...BELIEVE ME IT IS PAINFUL...THE LIFE SEEMS TO HAVE COME TO AN END...OTHER OPTION IS TO DIVORCE LATER IN LIFE AND LOOK FOR SOMEONE CLOSER TO ONES AGE...any suggestions and solutions to this situations.....

If husband is older than 5 years he is suspicious and controlling...if wife talks and laughs with some other guys...SAME IS WITH WIFE EVEN IF SHE IS TWO YEARS OLDER...she becomes bossy and controlling treats husband with disrespect, doubts his judgment because she is older she knows better...these are in way cover up for inability to keep up with the physical demands of younger husband...who has responsibility of earning for the family

but at same time treated like a dog...no ego...no respect....no manliness....

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Expert Opinion sir, thats wrong. If the girls older, doesnt mean she will be bossy. It depends on the girl. I know many women who are bossy and are younger. Maybe you have had some bad experiences, thats all.

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Expert Opinion sir, thats wrong. If the girls older, doesnt mean she will be bossy. It depends on the girl. I know many women who are bossy and are younger. Maybe you have had some bad experiences, thats all.
I agree with this, girls generally tend to be bossy, younger or older does not seem to matter! In my experience, for some reason, girls seems to think they know A LOT more than guys :umm: In reality, one can not generalize, there are girls who are a lot more mature and wise than guys around their age and there are also guys who are much more mature and wise than girls around their age.

I also agree with expertopinion that a big age difference will become more pronounced as the couple get older. It's best to keep the difference minimal.

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