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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH

why do women put themselves down and stand behind the man in an anand karaj?

why do women not carry kirpans in anand karaj? why is it only the man

you dress up as hindus, and you hide yourselves, and you call yourselves daughters of Guru Gobind Singh

Pritham Baghauti Simrai kai Guru Nanak lai dhiaae

In the beggining i remember Bhagauti, the Lord whos symbol is the sword and then i remember Guru Nanak.

this is from Guru Gobind Singhs baani, Chandi Di Vaar

it is written in the FEMININE, the beggining creative energy with the symbol of sword is the creator, then from this feminine power, the masculine is created - Guru Nanak and then the res of the all male gurus names are repeated.

So women are the creators, women are the leaders, so why are you hiding behind men in Anand Karaj?

Benti to all Singhnia, at your Anand Karaj, hold kirpans and stand in front, let the Singh follow after you.

SATNAAM

i totally agree!! 100%

come on girls!! Kirpan chako, te lahro!!

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lol, here you go... why u wanna change all this.

ok, read this and hope this might help.

when mata gurji ji saw a girl for shri guru gobind singh ji, after doing the rishta pakka, shri guru gobind singh ji with his family and other baraati went to the girl's house (mata sundri ji) and got married.

now, think and ask your when guru ji never changed the mariyada of gursikh marriage (boy goes to girls place, boy leads in the lawa, boy holds the shri sahib etc) why do you want to do so.

the reason why guru ji never changed this, it is a big sign that he wanted all of us to follow how and what he did himself.

hope this helps.

wjkk wjkf

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wjkk wjkf

lol, here you go... why u wanna change all this.

ok, read this and hope this might help.

when mata gurji ji saw a girl for shri guru gobind singh ji, after doing the rishta pakka, shri guru gobind singh ji with his family and other baraati went to the girl's house (mata sundri ji) and got married.

now, think and ask your when guru ji never changed the mariyada of gursikh marriage (boy goes to girls place, boy leads in the lawa, boy holds the shri sahib etc) why do you want to do so.

the reason why guru ji never changed this, it is a big sign that he wanted all of us to follow how and what he did himself.

hope this helps.

wjkk wjkf

wjkk, wjkf

it says nowhere that women are supposed to stand behind the man in Anand Karaj

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The female should hold a kirpan, wear bana, etc in the wedding but the man has to still walk in front because the man represents vaheguru (he isn't really vaheguru but it represents that).

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if the couple is amritdhari, then ofcourse they both will have kirpans, : )

they should both hold kirpans anyway, a man is not superior in any way and should not be the only one to hold a kirpan

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