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admin: "Ultimately the best thing to do is to ask older gursikhs for advice, not youth on a forum."

I would just like to say that i disagree with that opinion. I personally have learned so much from "youth" on this forum. just like gender, caste, creed etc have no special status in sikhi, age doesn't either. this is our bharam.

"SIKHISM & THE SIKH GURUS

A few details regarding the Sikh Gurus are given below:

Name Age Age at Guruship No. of Children Name of town founded Contribution

Guru Nanak 70 38 2 Kartarpur The founder

Guru Angad 48 35 3 Khadur Panjabi Grammar, health

Guru Amardas 95 73 4 Goindwal Seva

Guru Ramdas 47 40 3 Amritsar Kirtan & katha

Guru Arjan 43 18 1 Taran Taran Adi Granth, Harimandir Sahib

Guru Hargobind 49 11 6 Kiratpur Miri & Piri

Guru Harrai 31 14 2 xxxxx Zoos & Hospitals

Guru Harkrishen 8 5 x xxxxx Schools, education

Guru Tegh Bahadur 54 43 1 Anandpur Jiwanmukt, living for others

Guru Gobind Singh 42 9 4 Paonta Sahib Amrit, Sacrifice "

http://www.allaboutsikhs.com/introduction/...sikh-gurus.html

of the ten guru sahibaans, who were the continued jot of guru nanak sahib, 5 were 18 years old or younger.

so where do we get this notion that physical age = wisdom? not from the gurus. not from gurmat. this is old desi mentality, when elders tell young people, "tenu ki pata tu ta haje niaana ah..."

kids are closer to god than most of us. in fact, our whole lives, we try to be kids again. kids see the world as excting and new, and as adults, many of us wish we could see the world through a kid's eyes again, as gurbaani illustrates through so many metaphors.

not all old people have wisdom. giaan, is ageless, genderless, casteless.

i agree with the moderators that certain topics are discussed over and over again, but this particular line bugged me. it fails to grasp the wisdom in youth, the potential in the youth.

don't underestimate the inspirational and wise youth. as a sikh you should know how wise some youths can be, example guru sahib, shote sahibzaade etc etc. don't think the likes of the shote sahibzaade don't exist anymore, because if they don't, that means sikhi is a mere legend and not a living eternal truth.

fateh!

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No you didnt read properly. If there are problems concerning INTIMATE RELATIONS about your PARTNER, then you should ask olders who have experience with marriage etc, and can advise best. As youth will not always give the best advice since they havent been married, are not old enoguh etc, to understand these problems. For example the topic in question was about a husband and wife to be and wether the woman had had previous intimate relations. Im sorry but i think he would get a better answer from someone who has had the same experience. is married, have come across such problems.

I would never say, that you shouldnt get advice from the youth, i for one respect the youth alot, im just saying that certain topics deserve consideration.

If you have anymore concerns, feel free to pm me.

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