Amritdhari Peoples Can'T Do Love Marriage

[Guest --gupt--]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa!Waheguru ji ki fateh!

Sadha sangat ik gursikh love marriage ni kar sakada logo ko bhana chahiya gal karan vaste kayi logo ko amrit ni chakna rehanda toha woha amritdhari ya guru da pyare di galti ginan da..................kya gursikh love marriage ni kar sakada?

kya is sa galat impression padega amritdhari ya gursikh da society vicha?

kya galat prachar hoga eda?

[TuhiNirankar]

asa jor nahee!

kaljugs fire has surrounded us from everyside,, the cultural influences of western countries, theres no sharam, everyone has a celllphone, ppl have the shonk to make khalara of these love marriages, and ppl that have love marriages HAvE DIVorces, the love will fade,,

[MansWisdom]

Marriage is for children, you think you are in love with someone but it is actually your soul that is crying for waheguru's love! But the deception of maya and kaam is unforgiving. BE CAREFUL!

Kaam is very strong these days and 1 way to help you from falling is to practice this technique I learnt. Basically never look at a woman and vice vera always look down etc. To avoid dodgy thoughts as if you don't see them then it really helps. Try it

[Guest gupt]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa!Waheguru ji ki fateh!

Thanks for u'r replies but if parents doesn't allow a girl to become amritdhari then if by luck she meet a guy on net who is amritdhari and who also likes the girl thoughts about sikhi and the girl knows that the boy want a amritdhari girl who wear keski or who can wear keski so what is bad in this love marriage????????

BUL CHUK MAFA!

[Guest Guest]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

I think Amritdhari guys & girls born to Amritdhari parents should not even consider love marriage.

However it is parent's responsibility to marry off kids at young age to avoid any problems.

Personally, it is ok for a girl or boy to find a life partner on their own if they have crossed bench mark i.e 25 years of age.

(This suggestion is only for INDEPENDANT people.)

Gupt ji,

In life Software Engineers are more sort out people, compared to Hardware Engineers.

What's the point of fancy hardware if software is corrupt !

Only narrow minded people judge a person by their dress-up.

Good Character should be the first priority.

Have you thought how many girls & boys are available for friendship & marriage online.

So how can you be sure that the guy is only chatting or interested in you ?

Real Gursikhs will never do this so be careful.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

[jaswinder singh]

Lets be realistic on some points :-

1 If boy and the girl have compatible ideas and views about the life style

the marriage is advisable

2 Being Amritdhari , we are supposed to ge marriage solemnised before the

SGGS in the presence of Sangat

3 In indian culture marriage is start of relations between the families

not just bride and the groom

4 We always say that ours is Universal Religion , hence when ppl from different

cultures embrace our faith, they are supposed to bring traces of their parent culture

5 in any faith , for devout follower the married life is kick started by invoking

blessing from the God , in our faith it is Anand karaj

6 Love in itself is not bad , but lust practised in name of love is which we should

refrain from

in light of the above points we should decide our course of action when we

meet or come across a person we think can be our compatible life partner ,

In nutshell , an amritdhari is supposed to start married life by invoking blessings of SGGS

THROUGH Anand Karaj , rest of the thing are of minor importance , if we have

met the life partner before the marriage (what i think the query is about) ther is nothing

bad , till we have the same view about spending life in the light of Gurmat

fateh