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How Often Do You Feel Worried And Insecure About Your Future ?


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I think most students are uncertain about their career, and some like me have been working for 5+ years and are still uncertain :rolleyes2: The best thing you can do to have a good career is find a good mentor who can guide you through your career. Talk to career counselors at your college or university, they should be able to point you to the right direction.

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it's in your karam. i used to worry a ton until i said to Guru ji that everythign is yours, tan man tan sab tis kaa. all my worries and problems are yours too. its up to you to resolve them. keep making efforts and he will resolve them somehow.

If u accept its in your karam , how can u make efforts

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I think most students are uncertain about their career, and some like me have been working for 5+ years and are still uncertain :rolleyes2: The best thing you can do to have a good career is find a good mentor who can guide you through your career. Talk to career counselors at your college or university, they should be able to point you to the right direction.

U are generalizing . If your are facing problems because you are uncertain about ur career , u cant conclude that everyone has the same issue. What about those who are certain about what they want to do , yet are deprived of opportunities . Yes , Uncertainty about career can be 1 of the issues but not what more than 50% face . If someone is uncertain about his career , his problems, in fact , have not even started yet . Cos once one decides about which industry he wants to enter , he needs to upgrade his skills to match the particular industry requirement . This means he needs to clear the competition and get admission into a specialized professional college . Then he needs to compete with other job seekers and get the desired job . The problems have not even BEGUN .

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"darling"? Seriously? :blink2:

Well, you will be back in school pretty soon, no? In any case, whether in school or not, everyone benefits from a good mentor.

darling - an affectionate or familiar term of address , nothing sexual !

I now know loves and crushes only exists in head and are an utter waste of time and energy ..

And why would I be in school ? I would be in college .. ( I guess you are referring to college as school ).

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