indian values ??

[sevak]

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehhh

being respectful to our parents and also to indian values..

respecting parents must..but indian values ...kis hadh tak ??????????

[Guest rsingh]

being respectful to indian values, NO

being respectful to Parents and sikhi values...... YES

[sevak]

y NO to rsingh veerji ?

reason i m asking is not because i m against ur answer..cuz i want to know..cuz i feel m i the only who is against india values..what are some examples of indian values u would give ?

[Guest rsingh]

reason I say No indian Values and Yes Sikh values is cause i consider my self as sikh first then Panjabi never indian. I do not agree with values of indian society as they reflect hinduism and conflict with sikhi.

specifics if u want can besatya, when a wife commits suercide when her husband dies.

I hope u get what i mean. Please tell me if i have miss understood.

[sevak]

most likely i m talking about indina values..in terms of .. asking from parents can i do this and can i do that...when parents say no w/o even giving it a thought..sade parivar ch eh kam nahi hunda...us gurughar na ja..i mean indian society thingi u know..i dunno i m confused...lolll

[Guest mehtab]

You are asking the wrong question bhenji. Your question should have been "What comes first, Sikhi or parents?" And the answer is clear : SIKHI

[Jaspaul Singh]

I have similar experiences wit my parents. I guess most of us do also. My grandma always comes to me, and like, puht tu mera naal gal hi nai karda, she meaning as in all da time. She i regredably dont wanna say this... shes in her last years and never know when guru ji will call her, i love her too much, but i tell her do bani over anything rite now. She is amritdhari, but she also likes watching tv, socializing. Im like ok thats fine, but do more paath, and simran. She reads a lot of bani though. We have pouthia sahib of SGGS at our house, and once she like, i was waiting for you to come to me to ask me how you are and socialize rite, while she reading bani !!! IM like :wub: ... bebe ji u should be reading and understanding bani not thinking about OTHER stuff while reading.

Same thing kinda wit my parents. My dad wanted to me to burn him a copy of old punjabi songs, one wit all these descriptive terms of 'salia' (wifes sister), and your wife etc... some of you mite know these songs, if you dont PLEASE dont listen to them. I happily was gonna burn it for him, but i also said, "Dad why do you listen to this, its soo 'bukwaas' !!" He thought im saying something else wit dat, so he got mad at me for saying that. He even was at that point where he was reli mad and hinted that ok i dont say anything about the keertan u listen to.

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Everyone from a non-gursikh family gets all this. I get them al the time. That is why i want to hold gatherings wit gursikhs, raensbais to invite gursikhs, i need that company of gursikhs, cuz i dont have it in my own family anywhere sorry to say. But i STILL love my family, not to the point where i get too attached to them. I wanna explain to them but i dont know how, maybe i should learn some tuks, but they always like i dnt spend a lot of time wit them.......

[sevak]

same in my case..my parents lilke eh teri umar nahi..and i m like okay..u r 43 and 53..why don't u do it..they are like..we have other things to do..which are more importan than this..and plus we want to enjoy our life..i m like okay..but don't tell me what to do..as i don't tell you guyz..always like u don't have job this and that u can't go to gurughar..or can't friends[gursikhs] cuz we don't like them..i m like..u don't but i do..and whenever i ask for gurughar..i get teda muh...and marji eh...and then when i go i feel bad..and i get to listen too much stuff from them..then i think m i doing right by going to gurughar even though they made teda muh..this and that u know..waheguru

[Karen Kaur]

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hmm well indian values ehh but some values are not to great and dont relate to sikhi at all well listenin to ur parents which say things about goin on to the rite path might be right but listenin to parents who take u off the path i wouldnt do

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[Gurjeet_Kaur]

Vaheguroo jee ka khalsa Vaheguroo jee kee fateh!!!

My mom always used to try to make me wear all these flashy sparkly suits to weddings and stuff :wub:

so i wear the plainest suit i can find :wub: ... and then she gets all :D "But mommm, asee gurdwarey chaley aa.."