Why Are Amritdharis Encouraging Me To Trim/Shave My Armpits?

[SarabjeetS]

Personally don't like women who wear sleeveless shirts.

Only LOOSE females wear such clothes.

And what kind of Amritdhari parents allow such a public display of skin.

I can understand that you are 20 and seeking attention but this sort of behaviour will attract all the wrong sort of people.

Trust me you don't want that.

Women should dress modestly especially those who Truly follow Sikhism.

Just asking , are modesty levels different for men and women in sikhism ? Its ok if a sikh guy tries to wear sleeveless , but for a girl , its not so ok ! why ?

[Guest corps]

Personally don't like women who wear sleeveless shirts.

Only LOOSE females wear such clothes.

And what kind of Amritdhari parents allow such a public display of skin.

I can understand that you are 20 and seeking attention but this sort of behaviour will attract all the wrong sort of people.

Trust me you don't want that.

Women should dress modestly especially those who Truly follow Sikhism.

women do not need to change, it is men such as yourself who should stop judging women on their appearance(in all aspects) and doing nindya like this.

And if women should not wear sleevless tops, either should men. Women may view men as dressing provocatively (wearing sleevless tops) aswell. The view could be put forward that men showing their arms and muscles could be trying to entice women(same argument men have about women wearing sleevless tops)

It all really depends on how much you let your lustful mind run wild. I dont mind either men or women dressing as the lust inside myself can be controlled by adhering to gurbani as can nindya and jealousy(which can also lead us to do nindya). What others do and the way they dress is none of my business, I only try to judge by deeds, not appearance.

[Guest Guest]

Mr confusedaswat ji,

It's weird you are a guy coz hair removal topics are generally started by girls.

Anyway my reply is same

Personally don't like PEOPLE who wear sleeveless shirts.

Only LOOSE PEOPLE wear such clothes.

And what kind of Amritdhari parents allow such a public display of skin.

I can understand that you are 20 and seeking attention but this sort of behaviour will attract all the wrong sort of girls and Sissy guys.

Trust me you don't want that.

Men, women & people belonging to third gender should all dress modestly, especially those who Truly follow Sikhism.