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Hi Sometimes I really want to masturbrate but I am an amritdhari sikh.I'm 12 and I know this is kaam and wrong.And i agree with it but I feel that my body is taking over.I have watched internet pornography in that past and the first time was due to peer pressure and after i cried

for hours.I feel that I can't approach my parents either. What should I do and how can I restrain myself from further sins.

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waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fateh.hey brother i am 17 male,and i too started to masturbate when i was of 13 years.now listen carefully,stop as soon as you can,because it ruined my life.if you don't stop then many things can happen to you,like problem of wet dreams,tiredness,shyness,anxeity and many other problems.read Gurbani,Do ardas and try to divert your attention to other things like sikhi,sports,study and good friends.Good luck:)

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Dear younger brother, I would suggest you simply keep yourself busy with sports. At mere 12 years of age your hormones are not going to help the situation. Keeping yourself busy with things is the easiest and one of the most effective ways of dealing with such issues. :)

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I'm going to close this thread as it has been discussed plenty of times on the forum. Please do a search and you will find plenty of advice.

Here is link of a recent topic on the subject.

http://www.sikhsanga...lowed-in-sikhi/

Also consider taking on a hobby which forces you to be creative. Things like painting, writing, music will be good substitutes. Remember that the energy that is causing these issues for you is the same energy that is utilized during creative activities. Instead of letting it go to waste, channel it to more productive things. Do not ever try to block it, it is impossible to do so for 99.9% of humans. You may be able to block it for a short period of time but then it will morph into something even more destructive than it is now. So best to channel it toward productive things.

Just so there is no confusion left, when you feel the urge do something creative. That is the best way to deal with these things. Since you are young I'm assuming you do exercise on a regular basis. If you do not then take up running.

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