Bhenjia Do You Agree With The Arranged Wedding?

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Arranged marriage is always the best, you just cant go wrong with it. Love marriage is fine as long as if your not in a relationship,physically touched the singh or singhni, that is fine. Because after anand karaj u are able to do anything. If you want to gte in touch you can email me..jasmeetsinghkhalsa@hotmail.co.uk

[Guest pristine]

Arranged Marriages can go wrong, especially if one party is not completely honest, families and parents don't always know their children as well as they think they do, and our community is guilty of thinking that if someone gets married their bad behaviours will be fixed by the marriage. Its the individuals poor partner that has to put up with the bad behaviour afterwards, as marriage does not 'fix' people.

Parents will generally do what is best for their children and don't usually intentionally put their kids in a bad situation, but other people will and do lie. If you don't bother get to know your partner before you get married, prepare yourself for all and any eventuality afterwards. Only fools rush in blind.

As one of previous posters wrote, is it in Gurbani anywhere that sanjog are prewritten? Is it possible that for some it is not written at all that they will marry?