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@lost, sorry but your first post confused me, bit long and no full stops. But seems like everywhere you go you are seeing things relating to sex that you should not.

I have to say i dont think you have a problem, maybe observing as you are younger and do not have a busy life. But i have to agree with you that what you are seeing is part of kalyug. This world has changed, i have noticed it too. Its like everybody seems only to talk about sex more than years before. Married unmarried its happening everywhere. I also have been shocked at people i talk to, the way they have started to talk, also have affairs and lots of nonsense stuff going on.

Sounds like you from India, not sure, but if you are i too am hearing more stories from there, like its some sort of craze there.

I blame the internet and technology for this increased interest in people. You have to keep away from the wrong stuff, you seem to have a clear mind of what you want to do in your life and respect that waiting until you are married will be more rewarding. This is great thinking and shows how disciplined you are.

This issue in my opinion without offending anybody seems to be inbred in peoples thoughts more in India. I see students coming from there and see the difference in their thoughts and those born here towards opposite genders where they are male or female.

People will disagree with me on what i am saying, but i have to say also agree about the pind situation. Maybe they think its cool or what i dont know.

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i m 21 not that young ,i dont think think sex is wrong if it happens between married couple but cheating ,betrayal is something i cant justify ,the person who says its a human nature and ok will be saying all this because he is himself one of them @hsisingh you too seem to do such thing and what you mean immuture in the way i see ,i see whats the truth :nono: ,anyway no i m not sexual repressed and i just think that its just completely wrong to cheat your wife ,or husband , and i never said world is bad place ,but it just irritates me like we are talking with others and all they have to include is this sex ,dont they have anything better to say ,i sometimes have a thought of doing it in mind but i dont act on it ,

yeah i m trying to focus on my life now and trying to accept the world the way it is , at the end of the day it is my life and i should just make it good :cool2:

and yeah i think i m a oberver and i better be stop doing it and start to enjoy my own life

p.s. i m from haryana

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I liked everyones answer except hsisingh ,anyway its his thinking ,thank you everyone I thought you would not understand me , but yeah all this answers are great

Once again thanks for the great answers :)

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