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So I was given a chance by Guru ji to retake amrit and I told the punj pyare that I made many mistakes and told them about all the bajjer kurhits I had done and I told them one of them was this, one of them was this, and so on but I forgot to tell them that I made these mistakes more than once would that mean I would have to go back and tell them that all over again or as they regave me amrit again would I be forgiven as they made me retake the whole amrit again so pls let me know at least 5 singhs answer like punj pyare

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Waheguru Ji ka khalsa waheguru Ji ki fateh. As you have already received amrit you can do one extra japji sahib path (more if you want to) and clarify in your ardas that you forgot to mention the number of times.

Please only take the above advice if four other Amritdhaari singhs are in agreement.

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Waheguru Ji ka khalsa waheguru Ji ki fateh. As you have already received amrit you can do one extra japji sahib path (more if you want to) and clarify in your ardas that you forgot to mention the number of times.

Please only take the above advice if four other Amritdhaari singhs are in agreement.

I agree with him too.

To me it seems like a small mistake, so do Ardaas from your heart

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Look, I used to mess uo All the time. now I'm. at a point where I don't care if I'm stampeded om by the entire world, I've made up my mind that I will Not Mess Up.

This life is a test, we get tested on how. we react to different situations.

e.g I live with a bunch of primitive apes. I get tested everyday on my reactions to them. But the reality is that we shouldn't care if life is a test. we should just be good because it's the right thing to do. We Always have a choice and it is our decision how we react, no one else's.

We can either choose to react badly to our Dukh or Sukh or accept it as hukam, as the result of our own deeds and deserved to us.

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Respectfully, it is not a small mistake. I too thought it was a small mistake and not worth mentioning all of it, so I paid a very heavy price. I regret my decision. Answer from 5 Amritdhari singhs seems logical. But you must also consider the fact these 5 (who will validate and answer your query) should have lots of Bani Khazana. Decades ago, when you went to Singhs for Amrit, before the Amrit Ceremony begins, you were introduced to 5 Pyare, and you could discuss all the things in details, because during ceremony, depending upon the sangat, it is not always conceivable to hear all the confessions. Anyways, you can go to 5 Pyares now and tell them every single thing, and ask for "Shuhdayee". Technically, after any mistake, you must go for Shudayee and it is Panj Pyare who decides what you should do (like do 5 or 25 Jauji Sahib paath, or physical Sewa or Kraah Prashad). Don't be afraid, whatever sewa they ask you to do, you do it, it is better here rather than adding all to your Pralabdh.

Also, if you discuss Amrit Shakaoun di Maryada, decades ago, Panj Pyares were thoroughly tested and they all had "Akali" shaktis. It is their Akali shakti which helps you in keeping your eyes open during "amrit chittay". Most of times, we get corrupted (umm. not sure if it is exact word) during the ceremony itself, we close eyes. Well, this is a very deep topic, you must consult Panj Pyare.

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