Words Of Wisdom

[harsharan000]

 

RELATIONS AND RELATIONS ...

MANY RELATIONS CAN NOT BE EVALUATED

IN TERMS OF MONEY OR GAINS

BECAUSE SOME INVESTMENTS

NEVER MAKE A PROFIT

BUT STILL

THEY MAKE US RICH.

 

 

THAT IS WHAT YOU CALL GOD´S WILL

AS MUCH AS YOU WANT

TO PLAN YOUR LIFE

IT HAS A WAY OF SURPRISING YOU

WITH UNEXPECTED THINGS

THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPIER

THAN YOU ORIGINALLY PLANNED

[harsharan000]

 

Killer speech by Zimbabwe President Robert Mugabe:

 

"Racism will never end as long as white cars are still using black tyres.

Racism will never end if people still use black to symbolise bad luck and white for peace.

Racism will never end if people still wear white clothes to weddings and black clothes to funerals.

Racism will never end as long as those who don't pay their bills are blacklisted not white listed.

Even when playing snooker, you haven't won until you've sunk the black ball, and the white ball must remain on the table! ......

But I don't care .......... as long as I'm still using white toilet paper to wipe my black ASSS,  I'm happy."

[harsharan000]

 

TRUTH

TRUTH IS LIKE SURGERY

IT HURTS

BUT IT HEALS

ON THE OTHER SIDE

A LIE

IS LIKE A PAINKILLER

IT GIVES INSTANT RELIEF

BUT HAS SIDE EFFECTS

FOREVER

[harsharan000]

 

NEVER BE A PRISONER

OF YOUR PAST

IT WAS A LESSON TO LEARN

NOT

A LIFE SENTENCE.

 

 

 

DEVELOPE AN ATTITUDE

OF GRATITUDE,

AND GIVE THANKS FOR EVERYTHING

THAT HAPPENS TO YOU

KNOWING THAT EVERY STEP FORWARD

IS A STEP

TOWARD ACHIEVEING

SOMETHING BIGGER AND BETTER

THAN

YOUR CURRENT SITUATION

 

 

 

HOW MUCH TIME &

ENERGY WE WASTE IN

ASKING PEOPLE TO CHANGE

WAITING FOR THEM TO CHANGE.

UPSET, BECAUSE THEY DO NOT CHANGE?

INVEST A LITTLE TIME

AND ENERGY

IN TEACHING YOUR OWN MIND,

TO RELEASE THE EXPECTATIONS

 

[harsharan000]

 

 

[singhbj singh]

Jarur pade... ???????????

एक महिला रोज gurudware जाती थी ! एक दिन उस महिला ने Gyani से कहा अब मैं gurudware नही आया करूँगी !

इस पर gyani ने पूछा -- क्यों ?

तब महिला बोली -- मैं देखती हूँ लोग gurudware परिसर में अपने फोन से अपने व्यापार की बात करते हैं ! कुछ ने तो gurudware को ही गपशप करने का स्थान चुन रखा है ! कुछ पाठ कम पाखंड,दिखावा ज्यादा करते हैं !

इस पर gyani जी कुछ देर तक चुप रहे फिर कहा -- सही है ! परंतु अपना अंतिम निर्णय लेने से पहले क्या आप मेरे कहने से कुछ कर सकती हैं !

महिला बोली -आप बताइए क्या करना है ?

Gyani जी ने कहा -- एक गिलास पानी भर लीजिए और 2 बार gurudware परिसर के अंदर परिक्रमा लगाइए । शर्त ये है कि गिलास का पानी गिरना नहीं चाहिये !

महिला बोली -- मैं ऐसा कर सकती हूँ !

फिर थोड़ी ही देर में उस महिला ने ऐसा ही कर दिखाया !

उसके बाद gurudware के Gyani जी ने महिला से 3 सवाल पूछे -
1.क्या आपने किसी को फोन पर बात करते देखा !
2.क्या आपने किसी को gurudware में गपशप करते देखा !
3.क्या किसी को पाखंड करते देखा !

महिला बोली -- नहीं मैंने कुछ भी नहीं देखा  !

फिर Gyani जी बोले ---  जब आप परिक्रमा लगा रही थीं तो आपका पूरा ध्यान गिलास पर था कि इसमें से पानी न गिर जाए इसलिए आपको कुछ दिखाई नहीं दिया, अब जब भी आप Gurudware आयें तो अपना ध्यान सिर्फ़ परम पिता परमात्मा वाहेगुर में ही लगाना फिर आपको कुछ दिखाई नहीं देगा ! सिर्फ वाहेगुर ही सर्वत्र दिखाई देगें ... !!  .....    ......... Bolo Ji Waheguru

[harsharan000]

 

 

 

 

[harsharan000]

Those who selfishly love themselves, cannot love others

 

From diary of Sayed Jaffrey -- the famous   bollywood character actor ---

I was 19 when I married to Mehrunima who was 17. As I grew up, I was very fascinated by the british culture in colonial India. I learnt to speak English fluently, wear suits with grace and developed impeccable etiquettes.

But Mehrunima grew up to be my complete opposite - homely, a typical housewife. All my advices and admonishments couldn't change her basic personality - an obedient wife, a doting mother and a good homemaker. But she was not what I wanted. More I tried to change her, more we drifted apart.

Gradually she metamorphosed from a cheerful affectionate young girl into a quiet insecure woman. Meanwhile I started getting attracted to a co-actor of mine who was all what I wanted in my wife.

After 10 years of marriage, l divorced Mehrunima, left my home and married my co- actor. I had ensured financial security of Mehrunima and my kids. For about 6-7 months everything went well. Then I started realising, my new wife was not caring and affectionate. She was only concerned about her beauty, ambitions, her wants and desires. Sometimes I missed Mehrunima's caring touch and concern for my welfare.

Life moved on. I and my new wife were 2 persons living in a house, not one soul living in a home. I never went back to find out what happened to Mehrunima and my kids.

After about 6 -7 years of my second marriage, I came across an article on a Madhur Jaffrey, an upcoming famous chef who recently launched a book of her own recipes.

The moment I looked at the picture of the smart elegant lady, I was stunned. It was Mehrunima. But how could it be ???

She had remarried and changed her maiden name too.I was shooting abroad at that time. She lived in US now.

I caught the next flight to US. I inquired  about her whereabouts and went to meet her. She refused to see me.  My daughter who was 14 and son who was 12,  told her they wanted to talk to me one last time.

Her new husband was by her side. He was also my children's legal father now.

To this date, I cannot forget what my children told me.They told me that their new father knows the meaning of true love.

He accepted Mehrunima as she was, and never tried to change her into what he himself was, because he loves her more than he loves  himself. He let her evolve at her own pace and never tried to force  his wishes on her. He accepted and enjoyed her person as it was.

And she has bloomed into a confident, loving, affectionate, self reliant lady today under her second husband's selfless love and acceptance.

Where as my selfishness, demands, and unacceptance of her persona, had crushed her and then in my selfishness I had discarded her.

I Never Loved Her. I Had Always Loved myself.

 

[harsharan000]

 

Light these 5 lamps and carry their positivity wherever you go.

While we all light up our houses, do spend some time to light a few lamps inside you; sit in silence with your eyes closed.

*Light the 1st lamp inside you and let it burn away any anger and jealousy that you have for any one; see it melt away.

*Light the 2nd lamp and let it burn away unwanted greed and desires. Feel happy and contented with what you have been blessed with.

*Light the 3rd lamp and let it fade away all insecurities that you may have in your mind related to anything material or financial; just believe that God has given you life and He will surely give you enough to survive.

*Light the 4th lamp and carry that lamp to each part of your body; let it burn away all your diseased cells or any disease in making. Feel healthy as this lamp travels to each part of your body and illuminates each of your organs.

*The 5th lamp is a miniature of the Sun, nothing but the divine light. Light it and let it fill you with warmth and love. Feel one with the Divine. Let the love and warmth filled inside you radiate out of you.

 

Carry this love with you and you will find everyone around you happy and elated too.

 

God bless

[singhbj singh]

On 29/11/2017 at 3:09 PM, singhbj singh said:

Jarur pade... ???????????

एक महिला रोज gurudware जाती थी ! एक दिन उस महिला ने Gyani से कहा अब मैं gurudware नही आया करूँगी !

इस पर gyani ने पूछा -- क्यों ?

तब महिला बोली -- मैं देखती हूँ लोग gurudware परिसर में अपने फोन से अपने व्यापार की बात करते हैं ! कुछ ने तो gurudware को ही गपशप करने का स्थान चुन रखा है ! कुछ पाठ कम पाखंड,दिखावा ज्यादा करते हैं !

इस पर gyani जी कुछ देर तक चुप रहे फिर कहा -- सही है ! परंतु अपना अंतिम निर्णय लेने से पहले क्या आप मेरे कहने से कुछ कर सकती हैं !

महिला बोली -आप बताइए क्या करना है ?

Gyani जी ने कहा -- एक गिलास पानी भर लीजिए और 2 बार gurudware परिसर के अंदर परिक्रमा लगाइए । शर्त ये है कि गिलास का पानी गिरना नहीं चाहिये !

महिला बोली -- मैं ऐसा कर सकती हूँ !

फिर थोड़ी ही देर में उस महिला ने ऐसा ही कर दिखाया !

उसके बाद gurudware के Gyani जी ने महिला से 3 सवाल पूछे -
1.क्या आपने किसी को फोन पर बात करते देखा !
2.क्या आपने किसी को gurudware में गपशप करते देखा !
3.क्या किसी को पाखंड करते देखा !

महिला बोली -- नहीं मैंने कुछ भी नहीं देखा  !

फिर Gyani जी बोले ---  जब आप परिक्रमा लगा रही थीं तो आपका पूरा ध्यान गिलास पर था कि इसमें से पानी न गिर जाए इसलिए आपको कुछ दिखाई नहीं दिया, अब जब भी आप Gurudware आयें तो अपना ध्यान सिर्फ़ परम पिता परमात्मा वाहेगुर में ही लगाना फिर आपको कुछ दिखाई नहीं देगा ! सिर्फ वाहेगुर ही सर्वत्र दिखाई देगें ... !!  .....    ......... Bolo Ji Waheguru

 

ek mahila roj gurudwarai jaatee thee ! ek din us mahila ne gyani se kaha ab main gurudwarai nahee aaya karoongee ! is par gyani ne poochha -- kyon ? tab mahila bolee -- main dekhatee hoon log gurudwarai parisar mein apane phon se apane vyaapaar kee baat karate hain ! kuchh ne to gurudwarai ko hee gapashap karane ka sthaan chun rakha hai ! kuchh paath kam paakhand,dikhaava jyaada karate hain ! is par gyani jee kuchh der tak chup rahe phir kaha -- sahee hai ! parantu apana antim nirnay lene se pahale kya aap mere kahane se kuchh kar sakatee hain ! mahila bolee -aap bataie kya karana hai ? gyani jee ne kaha -- ek gilaas paanee bhar leejie aur 2 baar gurudwarai parisar ke andar parikrama lagaie . shart ye hai ki gilaas ka paanee girna nahin chaahiye ! mahila bolee -- main aisa kar sakatee hoon ! phir thodee hee der mein us mahila ne aisa hee kar dikhaaya ! usake baad gurudwarai ke gyani jee ne mahila se 3 savaal poochhe - 1.kya aapane kisee ko phon par baat karate dekha ! 2.kya aapane kisee ko gurudwarai mein gapashap karte dekha ! 3.kya kisee ko paakhand karate dekha ! mahila bolee -- nahin mainne kuchh bhee nahin dekha ! phir gyani jee bole --- jab aap parikrama laga rahee theen to aapaka poora dhyaan gilaas par tha ki issmein se paanee na gir jae issiliye aapako kuchh dikhaee nahin diya, ab jab bhee aap gurudwara aayen to apana dhyaan sirf param pita paramaatma vaaheguru mein hee lagaana phir aapako kuchh dikhaee nahin dega ! sirph vaaheguru hee sarvatr dikhaee denge ... !! ..... ......... bolo ji waheguru