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Last night I dreamt I was getting married to this white man. It was a love marriage and i was in my wedding lengha and he was in a suit. All my family were there and it felt so surreal. We were going to cut the cake when he just started cutting it himself into pieces. I tried to tell him that we have to wait and my family have to be here when we cut the cake. He wasnt listening to me  and just ignored me. The dream ended with my family talking about this guy and mw saying i think i made a mistake. Btw the whole dream was based in his house. 

I know there are many people who dont believe dreams hold any significant meaning but i do. Plus this really <banned word filter activated> me up. I dont know any white guys and I certainly never want to marry one of them. Anyone have any meanings ? 

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5 hours ago, Guest Kaur said:

Last night I dreamt I was getting married to this white man. It was a love marriage and i was in my wedding lengha and he was in a suit. All my family were there and it felt so surreal. We were going to cut the cake when he just started cutting it himself into pieces. I tried to tell him that we have to wait and my family have to be here when we cut the cake. He wasnt listening to me  and just ignored me. The dream ended with my family talking about this guy and mw saying i think i made a mistake. Btw the whole dream was based in his house. 

I know there are many people who dont believe dreams hold any significant meaning but i do. Plus this really <banned word filter activated> me up. I dont know any white guys and I certainly never want to marry one of them. Anyone have any meanings ? 

you are scared of future , that you will mess up ...don't be stressed listen to sukhmani sahib and do your bani and naam abhiyaas all will be well trust Guru ji

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1 hour ago, jkvlondon said:

you are scared of future , that you will mess up ...don't be stressed listen to sukhmani sahib and do your bani and naam abhiyaas all will be well trust Guru ji

Yeah that is true. I am worried about the future. I have a lot of things holding me back.  This world is such a scary place and there are too many people in my life that simply dont wish me well in anything. I try so hard to not let things get me down and not to worry but i really cant help feeling so crap. 

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1 hour ago, Guest Kaur said:

Yeah that is true. I am worried about the future. I have a lot of things holding me back.  This world is such a scary place and there are too many people in my life that simply dont wish me well in anything. I try so hard to not let things get me down and not to worry but i really cant help feeling so crap. 

listen and read this shabad whenever you feel that way , you born 1 in 400 thousand trillion chance , you were sent here it was no accident and your being a sikh isn't either . Rely on GurPita ji in your low times and He will see you through it:

 

Ja Tu Mere Wal Hai Ta Kya MuhChanda || When You are on my side, Almighty Waheguru, what do I need to worry about? 

Tud Sab Kich Mainu Saunpeya Ja Tera Banda || You entrusted everything to me, when I became Your slave. 

Lakhmi Tot Na Aavai Khaye Kharach Rehnda || My wealth is inexhaustible, no matter how much I spend and consume.

Lakh Chauraasih Maedani Sabh Sev Karanda || All your creation is looking after me and serving me. 

Ehe Wairi Mittar Sabh Kitia Neh Mangeh Manda || All my enemies have become my friends and no one wishes me ill. 

Lekha Koi Na Puchhai Ja Har Bakhsanda || No one calls me to account, since the Almighty is my forgiver.

Anand Bhayea Sukh Paayea Mille Guru Govinda || I have become blissful, and I have found peace, meeting with the Guru, the Lord of the Universe.

Sabhe Kaaj Sawariye Ja Tud Bhavanda || All my affairs have been resolved, since You are pleased with me.

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24 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

listen and read this shabad whenever you feel that way , you born 1 in 400 thousand trillion chance , you were sent here it was no accident and your being a sikh isn't either . Rely on GurPita ji in your low times and He will see you through it:

 

Ja Tu Mere Wal Hai Ta Kya MuhChanda || When You are on my side, Almighty Waheguru, what do I need to worry about? 

Tud Sab Kich Mainu Saunpeya Ja Tera Banda || You entrusted everything to me, when I became Your slave. 

Lakhmi Tot Na Aavai Khaye Kharach Rehnda || My wealth is inexhaustible, no matter how much I spend and consume.

Lakh Chauraasih Maedani Sabh Sev Karanda || All your creation is looking after me and serving me. 

Ehe Wairi Mittar Sabh Kitia Neh Mangeh Manda || All my enemies have become my friends and no one wishes me ill. 

Lekha Koi Na Puchhai Ja Har Bakhsanda || No one calls me to account, since the Almighty is my forgiver.

Anand Bhayea Sukh Paayea Mille Guru Govinda || I have become blissful, and I have found peace, meeting with the Guru, the Lord of the Universe.

Sabhe Kaaj Sawariye Ja Tud Bhavanda || All my affairs have been resolved, since You are pleased with me.

Thanks. You have a kind heart. 

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On 10/17/2017 at 8:19 AM, Guest Kaur said:

Yeah that is true. I am worried about the future. I have a lot of things holding me back.  This world is such a scary place and there are too many people in my life that simply dont wish me well in anything. I try so hard to not let things get me down and not to worry but i really cant help feeling so crap. 

You are precious to this world and you are extremely lucky to take a birth in Sikh religion. It is a given fact that in Gurbani it says; human takes birth alone and will depart this world alone. Nobody will go with him/her but only his/her guunn. Lead your life stress free and believe in waheguru ji and that alone stays with our soul thru 840,000 births. 

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On 17/10/2017 at 9:34 AM, Guest Kaur said:

Last night I dreamt I was getting married to this white man. It was a love marriage and i was in my wedding lengha and he was in a suit. All my family were there and it felt so surreal. We were going to cut the cake when he just started cutting it himself into pieces. I tried to tell him that we have to wait and my family have to be here when we cut the cake. He wasnt listening to me  and just ignored me. The dream ended with my family talking about this guy and mw saying i think i made a mistake. Btw the whole dream was based in his house. 

I know there are many people who dont believe dreams hold any significant meaning but i do. Plus this really <banned word filter activated> me up. I dont know any white guys and I certainly never want to marry one of them. Anyone have any meanings ? 

 

 

On 17/10/2017 at 4:19 PM, Guest Kaur said:

Yeah that is true. I am worried about the future. I have a lot of things holding me back.  This world is such a scary place and there are too many people in my life that simply dont wish me well in anything. I try so hard to not let things get me down and not to worry but i really cant help feeling so crap. 

 

 

 

 

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