Marriage In Trouble

[Guest Guest]

I was married back in 1981 and I went through so much trouble in my inlaws house but I tried to win them by being silent because I was taught by my parents not to argue with elders, respect and love them but I was wrong even though I didn't realize that at that time. My inlaws kicked me and my kids out of the house when my husband was away on business trip in america but somehow i managed everything with the help of my siblings. And later, we all moved to america and my father in law and mother in law started giving away all the money to my brother in law which didn't bother me at all because my husband was on my side even though it was my husband's hard earned money as he was the only one who was working hard in the fields. But my husband has changed now, he doesn't care about me or my kids at all. He treats us like <banned word filter activated> so I don't know what to do ? All he cares about his dad, my husband thinks if he listens to his dad then his dad will give him the land in Punjab. My father in law has already given all the money and house to my younger brother in law because there is a rumor that my sister in law and father in law are having an affair. My family hasn't taken a penny from ancestral land because everything is under my father in law's name and he's giving away all the rents and everything to my sister in law, my husband doesn't understand no matter what he does, his dad isn't going to give him anything. We will only get our share of the land after his death. Waheguru knows when he will die but he has made our lives a living hell. I want god to punish him for all his deeds because he's being so unfair toward my kids and now he's taking away my husband too. I don't know what i should do?

[sat]

This is what happens when people move away from Guru ji . Hatred, greed, slandering, disrespect for each other no family love ,etc etc.

[Guest Guest]

I wake up at 5 in the morning to do Sukhmani Sahib and Japji Sahib. I still have faith on him but he's supporting the wrong people who don't even believe in him

[kharkusingh1996]

damn that's screwed up situation. First you should arrange a family meeting between you and your husband and father in law. Try to sort everything out with a family talk and if that doesn't go well find someone else's house where you can stay for temporary until you sort everything out.