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Bujjer Kureit Or Ardaas?
by Guest Sarpanch Singh- 2 replies
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Vjkk vjkf. Something which I would like to as the Sangat. I was with a girl, we gave into kaam and started hugging each other, whilst we did not kiss or have intercourse, I suffer from pre ejaculation and thus i happened to ejaculate when she was hugging on top of me. I want to know if I have committed a kureit or just given into Kaam where I need to do ardaas? I had no physical relation with her from a sexual perspective eg intercourse or kissing.
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Death Of Conscience Is A Sure Death?
by Guest lowestofthelow- 2 replies
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This famous quote by Baba Jarnail Singh made me think, "Physical death i do not fear, death of conscience is a sure death" What did he mean when he said death of conscience is a sure death? How can a person lose his/her conscience? we are either born with it or not. You cant become a psychopath, you are either born a psychopath or not, or am I wrong? What do you guys say?
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Coffee
by Guest Sikhi101- 2 replies
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VJKK VJKF I know this has must have been asked, so apologies for this daas' ability to search for the answer. But would you consider the consumption of tea or coffee as a bujjar kurehat? Regards,
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Trying To Get Back On My Feet Need Help....
by Guest Upsetlad- 2 replies
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Not used this forum before so unexpected of reponse bt here goes... Recently been suffering from a lot of family problems, mood and self esteem has been quite low. Ive recently just ended a relationship with a person who i was helping to come into Sikhi and take amrit but due to her faith her family have stopped her seeing me. I am amritdhari myself. We were together for a year and whilst we haven't had actual sex we have unfortunately crossed that line of self restraint, something which i am quite guilty and upset about. Moving on, recently i feel my Sikhi has gone down quite a bit. I just about get my nitnem done, struggle to wake up to do Simran before my nitnem, f…
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Getting Back Up
by Guest Samosa- 2 replies
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A couple of years ago I began to really feel pyaar for Vaheguru. I felt like my Guru was, my Guru, and I'd never felt that before in my life. Things were going so well, I was learning so much, things made sense, and at times I had knowledge on certain things I didn't before (not sure how to explain it, but I didn't feel that at the time, but with hindsight I can see how different I was). I was more in touch with myself, with other people, and with emotions. I was empathetic, more compassionate, the things I'd always wanted to be. At the time, I was a happy person and felt happy, but didn't realise how different I really was to before I began feeling like this. It was as i…
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Sarbloh Shasters
by Guest Singh- 2 replies
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Vaheguru Ji, Can somebody educate me on sarbloh or iron shasters? I have seen many gurusikhs who keep steel kirpans. So is it a requirement that shasters must be sarbloh? Is it wrong to keep steel shasters or metal? Thnks
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Sins and good deeds
by Guest Singh- 2 replies
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When I was younger I stole some chewing gum and a few coins from a boys bag in school. I dont know why i did it and really regret it. Will I have a sin? If I have a sin could it be vanished if i do good deeds? Thank you
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$&& Marriage
by Guest Korr- 2 replies
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Wjkk wjkf i m 26 and done with study .my parents want me to get married now,but my parents have no contacts with amrtidhari families. As i also never have amritdhari friends in college.my parents and i r finding hard to find amritdhari boy waheguru g s knows ^^^^^^
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vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh, about myself i am searching for a Kaur to marry. I am a amritdhari singh in my mid 20s. With guru jis grace well setteled and got a good job. I am loyal, honest and caring singh with a panthic thinking. I want to live a simple joyful life. what i search for: a honest, loyal, loving and caring amritdhari singhni with a family oriented mindset, who belives in Sri Dasam Granth aswell. Preferably from Europe or Canada. IMPORTANT: I DONT BELIVE IN CASTE SYSTEM. NO RADA SOAMIES AND NO SIKH MISSONIERIES PLEASE. Dont waste your time or mine If you are interested write to me.
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Im an amritdhari and I have masturbated 3 times. I feel miserable knowing I have done this and feel like crying. When I do it I feel it relieves me of my lust and I try not to do it but my mind gives in. I feel truly sorry for this and I really want to stop. Please suggest what I should do also I am 15
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Combing beard?
by Guest Singh- 2 replies
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Sangat Ji, How do you comb your beard? When I use my kanga, too many beard hairs fall out. I want to know the proper method and proper kanga to use. Thanks
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Fighting Ego and Pride
by Guest saynotoego- 2 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. A few months ago I really started engaging myself in this spiritual journey. I grew up in a Punjabi family where Sikh was the our faith but not practised. In my adulthood I was not aware of my level of egotistical pride and holding the illusionary things we have in life to such a high standard. In fact I still do as I type this. I'm aware of just some of the areas of my egotistical pride and I see it as something that is so, so, so difficult to address. I'm talking about fighting years of personal beliefs and attitudes. I never realized how much I don't really know until I started reading, just lightly, the Sri Guru Granth…
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What has happened to us.
by Guest Harjot Singh- 2 replies
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http://www.sikh24.com/2016/10/24/uk-meeting-at-guru-nanak-gurdwara-smethwick-ends-with-walk-out-of-sangat/ The uk antics have become somewhat lughable. People are after conspiracy theories it seems. It seemed that just the elders were playing politics. Not causing controversy over anything but the true news has not been spread. Please give your opinions sangat jee. Bhul chuk maaf karne.
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Vatan Lamian te Rasta Pahar da - translation - roman/english
by Guest Vaheguruji- 2 replies
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VJKKVJKF Could someone translate the words to the following kirtan of bhai harjinder singh, i think its a really old famous dharna. It would be appreciated if someone could type it into roman script and translate it into english. Vatan Lamiya Te Rasta Pahaar Da
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40 Path Shri Sukhmani Sahib ji
by Guest SIngh- 2 replies
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Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! Waheguru pyari Sadh Snagat ji Je koi veer bhen mere question da answer de sake ta mai usda dilo dhanwadi howaga! Waheguru ji mai Shri Sukhmani Sahib JI de 40 path arabh kite c, As full time job in outside and kuj problems karke vich gap pe gya mai aje v pure karna chaunda han and I am doing my best. Mai eh janna chaunda han ke Sukhmani Sahib ji de path sanu 40 diin vich pure karne hunde ne ja 40 path karne hunde ne bina time de? Sangat da Das! Singh
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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