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Kaur Needs Advice 1 2
by Guest KrazyKaur- 13 replies
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i met this singh (his 24 and im 23) in gurdwara and i really like him but i asked him about marriage (his views only) he said that he wants to marry someone from india because women in England only want clean shaven men..so i wanted some advice to persuade him that this is not true......his not bitter or angry person in fact his very happy individual but he said he is just being realistic...i told him that sometimes women in india marry guys just to come to England......his response was that at least he would find someone finally and she could fall in love with over time.
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i dont really know how to start this.. I have known this muslim girl for 7 years and we have become very very close. I recently began to develop feelings for her but at the same time i am into Sikhi by going to AKJ smagams, camps etc. For a while i stopped texting and phoning her but now she has started contacting me just when i had got over her... I am really scared and i dont know what to do as my parents are into Sikhi as well and my feelings would bring shame to the family.. what should i do? any advice from GurSikhs please would be very very appreciated. Bhula Chuka Dee Maaf VJKK VJKF
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Shaeedi Degh
by Guest _learner_- 0 replies
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GURFATEH sorry im still learning..can i know what is SHAEEDI DEGH? GURFATEH
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Sleeping Towards God 1 2 3
by Guest stupidness- 20 replies
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im writing this with out givng my name cos i dnt wana ofend neone.. but i have babaji photo in my room on the left hand of my bed in a wardrobe whos doors i always keeps open (can be abit dangerous seeing as thou im always walking in to the doors n bangin my head lol) but i was thinking about changing my bed so that when i lie down my feet are going to be directing towards the photo is that wrong? n anova thing i sometimes turn my bak towards the phto during the night but obviously not on purpose because im a sleep is that wrong aswell?
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Can't Think Of A Title
by Guest _...._- 5 replies
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is it just me..or...are is gurmat...unattainable?? Reading gurbani, one comes across such..pureness and truth, but is it beyond us? The qualities that are described.... being indifferent to pleasure and pain. indifferent to praise and slander. indifferent to hapiness and sadness, to popularity..to recognition.. The human mind, as a basic instinct strives for this hapiness, recognition.., to be well-known and praised by all...to be special. whereas gursikhi is the complete opposite. so we are born with these instincts, which bring us only pain in the long run...we forget that this world is a minute fraction of our lives....and become trapped in Maya... can we actu…
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History
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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what book/video/website would you recommend to learn on Guru Ji's and their times whats your favourites?
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Waheguru
by Guest call me wah u want :)- 4 replies
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does it matta how u say waheguru cuz the otha day i was waheguru propaa loud.. ndd with power agrresion nd ma mum goesL "ah koi tareeka ay rab da naa leh lai" i was lyk i dnoo does it matta? wjkk wjkfffffffff
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Did I Do Something Wrong? 1 2
by Guest -Guest-- 15 replies
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The other day i got into a fight with another guy. Initially he just started swearing at me, but then he started slaping me. I just stood there. Then finally one of the slaps almost knocked my dumalla off. After that i dont know hwat happened i just went beserk. I started punch and kicking the guy till he was on the ground crying for mercy. Now i feel bad about it. Did i do something wrong?
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Negative People 1 2
by Guest _sinner_- 11 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh, Daas wanted to ask sangat’s opinion on how they deal with negative comments towards them either it be racial or towards there personality etc. I know Gurbani says answer evil with goodness but sometimes some people need to be put in there place. My family own a newsagent and we deal with all sorts off characters and I have come close to losing my anger many times and nearly got into arguments even fights with these kinds of people. Anyway I wanted to know how the Gursikhs out there deal with negative comments from other people. Thanks Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh,
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What Instrument Shall I Learn? 1 2 3
by Guest _Moorakh_- 28 replies
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I want to start learning how to do Kirtan...I was thinking Harmonium as its widely taught or maybe dilruba, cos I like listerning to kirtan with a Dilruba in. Im from the UK so are there any people that teach dilruba in Midlands/South...otherwise its Harmonium or anything else people think I should look into.
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Eating And Speaking?
by Guest _gupt_- 5 replies
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does it say anywhere in Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj about not talking when eating food?? i can undastand it being a respectful cause, but is it actually stated anywhere?? because sometimes it is the only time the family gets to have time together but my taya ji say that we shud not speak when eating!! thank you in advance!! WJKK WJKF!
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Pictures Of Gurus Sants Etc
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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Regarding the issue of Pictures of Gurus Sants etc this has always been a problem among Sikhs (i just read this in the General Section) Once a person came to Sant Kartar Singh Jee Bhindran Wale saying Sant Jee is it okay to keep Pictures of Gurus and Sant Jee gave a fitting reply "we worship only Akaal Purakh who is Akaal Murat but when a child is small it needs some aid to walk same with people who need Pictures when the child grows up no aid needed" What pictures are for 1) Focus 2) Rememberance 3) Endure Love Whilst some pictures (like of actors) give a bad impression some people when saying 'Waheguru' have to focus on the word literally being spelled out in f…
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Organising A House Program
by Guest worthless- 1 reply
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vjkk vjkf, Sangat ji im stuck in making a decision about organising a house kirtan programme with Guru Granth Sahib Ji present. What plays on my conscious is that my family all eat meat and drink and all of that stuff is around the house. I know that it has to be cleared completley before Guru ji can enter anywhere, but what I feel bad for is what will happen after Guru ji leaves. The meat n drink will still carry on, what purpose has this Guru jis presence made? Does daas organise jus a kirtan programme, where Guru ji isnt present ( to keep respect) or what? I dont know maybe if Guru ji brought home a number of times, maybe my family will eventually but slowly stop…
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Different Believes 1 2 3
by Guest Guest- 22 replies
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i wanna marry sum1 but they gt different believes than me so what shuld i do
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Someone Needs My Bone Marrow! 1 2 3 4
by Guest Confused- 35 replies
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I had joined the Anthony Nolan Trust Bone Marrow Charity 2 years ago! however recently they contacted me saying that I was a "match" and someone needed me..however the procedure envolves shaving hair from the area they need to extract it from! What shall I do? I'm the only help and this person desperatly needs the marrow...Im gonna go ahead with it either way because I will feel guilty for not helping butttt I just wanted to know does this really break my rehit in a big bad way? I feel so bad! :sady:
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