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Latest Amrit Sanchar
by Guest Khalsa- 0 replies
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Marriage problem
by Guest Singhb- 1 follower
- 3 replies
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Hi, I was just starting this topic for advice. I was in a marriage where my wife and I were really close and did everything together. We have split up now and has completely changed. She has lied about a lot of domestic abuse that didn’t happen and also lied that I used to hit the kids. She’s turned really manipulative towards the courts. This has resulted in a lengthy court application and now I haven’t seen my kids in nearly 3 years and might be the case I won’t see them again. I’ve prayed so many times for peace. I just don’t understand how she keeps getting away with lies. Is there any path I can recite to help lies get exposed? thanks for any a…
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Dream of visiting gurudawara and praying
by Guest Ruby D- 2 followers
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Hi can someone pls help me interpret my dream. Last night (rather I should say early morning) I had a dream of visiting a gurudawara sahib and praying there. What could this be.
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Another interfaith marriage UK 1 2
by Guest Anon- 16 replies
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WJKK WJKF It's been brought to my attention that there is an interfaith marriage that is due to take place in a well known London Gurdwara. I want to know what council or group I can report this to so they can initiate preventative action against this Gurdwara that has sold Sikh values for money. Please respond with the highest impact factor groups who can influence this from not going ahead in Gurus house. WJKK WJKF
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Caste based Gurdwaras
by Guest guest- 1 reply
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Why does the UK have so many Gurdwaras based on caste?
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Bana darji/tailor westmidlands
by Guest Guptfauj- 0 replies
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Does anyone know of a tailor in west midlands area who can make choleh/bana? if you could post their details so i can contact them, much appreciated Thanks Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh
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Job bouncer
by Guest Gupt- 5 replies
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Hi I'm wondering can I work in a club as I use to do it for a job and not the girls. I'm miss the aspect of being in dangerous situation and fighting and the entire aspect of bouncing. The girls didnt bug me I spoke to them as a normal human being. And my manager all were interested in sikhi and I told them about it and it opened there eyes.
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Bad Experiences at the Akal Academy at Baru Sahib
by Guest MobMaint6232- 5 replies
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Does anyone know any former students who went to the Akal Academy at Baru Sahib located in Himachal Pradesh? I keep on reading online reviews about the place which are full of positive feedback left by people who claims it is a top notch boarding school.
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Bored of worldly life miss amritvela simran sangat
by Guest Gupt- 8 replies
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God grace I use to go to amritvela simran with sangat daily and I was overjoyed happy just loved it. Last year I began working full time job n it was at night so I would miss amritvela simran. I feel miserable without that sangat n simran and really dont have interest in earning so much money I just need a little to survive n I don't have interest in marriage or kids. When I'm at work I'm 99 percent of the time watching sangat on YouTube during simran and participating. Kind of feel depressed without being there and life seems pointless without simran n sangat. I use to be a bouncer at a club n I would get to simran amritvela in the morning that was my…
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Amrit Sanchar USA
by Guest Singh- 4 replies
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WJKK WJKF Does know of any upcoming Amrit Sanchars in the USA?
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are we on the verge of WW3?
by Guest Guest- 3 replies
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worrying escalation in Russia v Ukraine conflict. Could this lead to global level conflict?
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Sibling issue
by Guest Gupt- 2 replies
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Hi My brother is smoking in the house constantly he doesnt listen my mom has mental issue and he stole 25k from her account and as well as sells drugs. Cops came to the house numerous times but he gets away by lying or telling on his friends however he is terrified of going to jail since he has run out of ways to get himself out. I'm sick of his actions and I already told crime stoppers without any help from them. I have the public guardian trustee involved that have taken action against him stopping him from financially abuse my mother and taking legal action to get her money back. But what can I do to stop his behavior i don't have a relationship with hi…
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To achieve higher spiritually
by Guest Gupt- 6 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji ke fateh Gods kirpa has got me to simran where I can feel it in between forehead during amritvela. I don't want compliments or I may catch ego . If I wanted to get higher spiritually would india be better then current country of Ontario Canada where everyone is on the go and samagum don't really exist except occasionally. Some enlighten das on what to do next. I don't know nitnem nor do I wear chole or shaster or dumala nor married or kids but I work I enjoy doing it but its maya fake I have inheritance where I can live in India join army and be fine with my life.
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Amritdhari & Massage
by Guest GuptSingh- 2 followers
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So I'm going to the gym and i've found my body is stiff and sore especially the shoulders. As a Amritdhari, are we allowed to have a massage? If we are, I'm confused on how they will react with the kirpan. Not sure what to do on this.
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Panj Kakkars
by Guest Singh- 3 replies
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WJKK WJKF Can someone start wearing all of their Panj Kakkars a few months before taking Amrit?
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it.
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Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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