kullykhalsa

Haha jokes i just had to correct it. To OP jut breathe in and out until its second nature not to give in to kaam. Keep yourself busy and exercise exercise exercise!

i am sori (sorry) singh (Singh)... dont(don't) worry i speak for myself and alias that well(we'll) get out of your way.... but trr(try) 2 work on your kaam singh... wahegruu(Waheguru) can help u. Agree lol

remake of jackass...they arent going through hardship They are simply putting their bodies on the line for entertainment and fame simple! Not for sikhi not for anyone else just idiotic really

I dont know if anyone has noticed but a lot of the time i see a lot of young sikhs taking on some parts of the glorified gangster culture. This is from the way they dress with low jeans and the latest Yeezy 2 trainers to the way they drive s low down in there cars. But easily the most annoying is the way they speak and type "innit", "wagwan", "gwarnin". Even on this forum you see people giving advice using slang language I myself sometimes easily fall into the trap. But surely we should do something to combat this problem makes us look like a joke.

definetly not his twitter above!

DisagreeYour comparing something like a runny nose to a period should we not do seva as men then as we could potentially need to urinate at any time?The concept is flawed, and very unfair on bibia. Waheguru gave them this cycle and it seems weird to demonize it as unclean/dirty

there is a reason euthanasia isnt legalised here for some people would exploit it. All those people who think they have it bad may just go to a clinic and end their lives. However if there was a rigourous process which showed your quality of life was poor and that the chance of improvement was low then i would be for it.

yes indeed osingh is correct for he shall decide who is a gursikh and who is a manmukh? He has not idea because he lives in a sheltered world but no doubt he gives all his money away for what are materialistic possessions to him? e no doubts pends al his time in a cave away from people just reciting bani for if not he is surely wasting his life? i hope he is not married because he must be overcome by lust? The world is never as black and white as the above poster would have you believe. You obviously want to go so go experience it if its not for you dont go again simples

brilliant question, if i have understood this correctly than the flew is basically saying that the other person who views the garden doesnt suggest a gardener but once the religious person who initially stated there had to be a gardener comes up short he then "qualifies" this by adding on modifications to prove he is right. I dont think ive ever read anything in sikhi in regard to this mainly because i imagine it being an atheist argument. But in sikhi our statements are qualified to us already w have not had to make further qualifications.

Singh, Go to the ball have a dance and a good time enjoy yourself. As long as you are strong enough to not be tempted by alchohol etc(people will smuggle it in)

brilliant idea hope it kick off! Needs to be some more marketing off this idea. End of the day they are our Gurdwaras not the trustees or the committees

You sound fully indoctrinated singh. The EDL have dished out there own beatings of that im sure. What postes above are trying to get at is that not all muslims are bad and we are strong enough as a community to fight our own corner we dont need to make alliances.

Borat You seem to be jumping on a band wagon as dangerous as some muslims are putting your eggs in with he EDL is hardly clever. No sooner will you have helped them eradicate "the muslim problem" then they will turn on you. There is a reason the EDL membership is full of naive, uneducated and simple minded people...because the intelligent people can see through this facade

Haha "only five" im guessing in your opinion a gurmukh bibi wouldnt allow herself to do kirtan because of her period (something you allude to but dont actually say). Well that is ridiculous as a concept and we as singhs should allow bibia to do anything that we are allowed to do. Being equally doesnt mean that we be equal in only parts it means we should be equal fullstop.

thats terrible news that he has been released are we sure it was rape? I think one of the posters mentioned above about educating sikh girls to agreater extent tht should be our priority! Hope this doesnt cause offence but she took the decision to date a muslim by her self and now all the sikh community has rallied together based on a bf/gf problem disgusting

sometimes the best medicine is the strongest out her to her parents she like messing with peoples lives ten yo should be strong and do the same the wife and kid dont deserve it. If i was my sister and you didnt tell her the truth i would be livid you hve a duty to ALL YOUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS not just the ones you know persnally People may tell you to back away but a good sikh makes difficult and hard decisions. if this is the decision they have made let them live and die by it. Hope you have the courage to do this!

So really we are still a bit oblivious to what actually happened? From reading the above posts i have to say a number of contributors have some very innane childish views please listen to "gokesh" "dalsingh" and "fightersingh" i dont know any of these people but they are talking sense. We must abibe by the laws of the land and stay away from groups like the EDL. Luton sikhs have shown that we are not divided and can come together we dont need SP we need each other I hope that the guy is charged with rape and given the max sentence if that is the case!

Dont mean to be harsh but if sh cant even hold your hand after 9 months sounds fishy? Equally shes your wife ask her about sex nothing to be embarrased about!

Or go there and tell them what you expect of parents in law equal strives by both sides should be met so much pressure is put on daughter in laws when it should be a compromise!

Posted 13 March 2012 - 08:26 PM Thats the problem with west london singh he often bats for the other (muslim) side and his Sikh loyalty and credential's become very doubtful indeed. Its good to provide a balanced point of view but when you neglect the harm that people do to your own Sikh community and you do not say anything to those who try to undermine the Sikhs then whose community do you exactly belong to? kullykhalsa, on 14 March 2012 - 01:47 PM, said: Sikh loyalties and credential are you joking? Your ability to turn a simple debate into a mockery is what should be highlighted here. People like you run our gurdwara with very introspective views of community. Always "they" and "us" last time i checked guru ji resides in all! West London Singh isnt neglecting the harm Nihal has done i agree with most of his points. A randomer who doesnt know of sikhi wouldnt be left with a bad example of it from the show but it seem Nihal is as misinformed as much of his audience...we should try and educate BBC asian network and Nihal thats the right way to go! Genie You show your foolishness by not reading my posts when I stated nihaal has form here regarding Sikhs. If this was a one off incident no one would care much. But it seems a common theme when he talks about Sikhs in his programs he tends to put his foot in it and doesn't reflect the views of Sikhs but rather gives his own assumptions on the matter in hand. And I have no desire to run a Gurdwara management committee dont know what planet your on It wasn’t your post on 2nd or 3rd post on Nihal I was referring to it was your post against a fellow member that I quoted above? Again if you had read my post I agree that Nihal is misinformed and needs educating! It was your comments about “WestLondonSingh” that I referred to, no one should undermine sikhs and I don’t believe that’s what his comments suggest. p.s the gurdwara comment wasn’t to say you had a desire to run one but such an introspective view on community is shared with people who do run our gurdwareh p.s singh there is no doubt i am young and foolish but dont really see how that comment helps in this debate? unless you are proffering the opinion that like Nihal you have nothing to learn!

Sikh loyalties and credential are you joking? Your ability to turn a simple debate into a mockery is what should be highlighted here. People like you run our gurdwara with very introspective views of community. Always "they" and "us" last time i checked guru ji resides in all! West London Singh isnt neglecting the harm Nihal has done i agree with most of his points. A randomer who doesnt know of sikhi wouldnt be left with a bad example of it from the show but it seem Nihal is as misinformed as much of his audience...we should try and educate BBC asian network and Nihal thats the right way to go!

Hi, There are loads of videos on youtube, so feel free to search and try out lots of different styles. You dastaar isnt going to be perfect to begin with so dont be afraid to just go out with on that isnt perfect To cover the top of your head just make sure you get decent length of dastaar and good luck singh!

I think it’s a given that there are false paths in this world my comment was to say that you cannot produce an argument saying that “all faiths do not lead to god” and lead out with a Islamic terrorist group. It would be the same as a Christian/muslim/jewish forum saying certain sects such as Namdharis represent sikhi? You’re making massive generalisation and that kind of inward thinking will only serve to distance Sikhs from the world we live in.

Wow @ Free Advicer i do not agree at all with your statement. The first thing you did that was totally wrong was hitting a woman/(our sister) if that has a part to play in her leaving then you will have to wait to see if she mellows. I dont believe that you should play the "bad mother" card as its vindicative and cruel and if she genuinely has fallen out of love with you then you should let her live her life. You should however maintain as much contact with your kids as possible. Research has shown that living unhappily doesnt help kids and divorce is not the end of the world. Until you are happy within yourself how can anyone be happy with you.Balait_da_sher provided a beautiful quote for you earlier you admonish your wife for not being happy with someone who rents or doesnt have much money in the bank. But i say you are an amrtidhari sikh you are in good health i presume and have 2 wonderful children time to see how good your life really is. whenever im feeling sad i stop and start feeling awesome instead

Brilliant and informative Mat Pulo Rai any chance you have the link to Baba Ishers Katha?