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  1. Veer ji It has been this way from the beginning of 3HO that gorey were kept away from Punjabi Gursikhs except when paraded around for cameras in Amritsar and then they were totally chaperoned from place to place by Harbhajan's minders. Even a Friend's experience of Miri Piri Academy was negative in terms of the Gorey sikhs being brainwashed into thinking they are superior to Desi sikhs as they are more pure somehow and in on the real deal . Gursant Singh an ex3HO member has written much about what the internal politics are of the organisation and I suspect that they will not be welcoming to Gursikhs as they know that what they are doing is not Gurmat and will remove their newly impressed flock from their well-controlled bubble of 'sikh dharma' ...
  2. Having been through similar myself I think confrontational is the wrong approach as he seems too set in his anger pattern to listen in a balanced way, what has worked is making the effort to make the rest of the family mittbolardey and the home full of gurbani kirtan thus the atmosphere is calming ...and purifying
  3. also sikh2inspire on youtube the guys here are very knowledgable so just put a shout out if you want help anytime. They'll point you to the right places for answers welcome
  4. have you tried Nagra publications they produce the resources for the UKs general certificate in secondary education in Punjabi and also the advanced level course there are also test papers and listening tests. www.nagrapublications.co.uk here's a link to the resource list for one of the examination board's syllabus http://filestore.aqa.org.uk/subjects/AQA-4680-W-TRB-RL.PDF online resources elsewhere https://sites.google.com/site/soyouwanttolearnalanguage/punjabi the Academy of Punjabi of North america has loads of punjabi resources reading and watching ...literature rich of Punjab www.apnaorg.com
  5. Guru Gobind Singh ji da hukham hai dastar chun chun kar bannde...starchy topi style turbans don't fall into this . Chotte keshkian are many many times better than nak seenkana da kaparda. I propose that sikhs do sewa of dastar tying for sangat every weekend/weekday ideally in every Guru ghar so everyone has a chance to learn and pass on the knowledge, it's not just sikhs who are interested even people outside our faith wish to do things right when going to Darbar. The more common it becomes, the more natural, the more natural, the less objectionable. saw this last night , loved it Taaj is another short
  6. 3HO are not following gursikhi ...the gursikhs who had amrit in the seventies eighties from Birmingham of AKJ jatha were sabat soorat and had no special dispensations except being allowed to plait head kesh to make a joora not corn rows by the way
  7. tut tut tut... veer ji we are supposed to honour our parents even if they are the worst ... Guru Nanak Dev ji did not punish his father and his father used to beat and call him all sorts ...don't get in the krodh cycle too , break it with naam
  8. Bhen ji , it is all maya jaal , he has his path and you yours, do your ardas in front of Guru ji to lift your mind out of this chinta/judgemental frame of mind and do more naam and mool mantar abihaas . My dad was similar and it took me a long time to realise what Guru ji tells at the end of our daily Japji Sahib in Salok it is all down to Guru's kirpa whether we become nearer or further from Akal Purakh. Do your work and be successful in your life's mission and maybe your father will change in time too.
  9. plus you are handicapping your naam japna as it passes through the different stages ...gurmukh rom rom har dhiavey ...you have many lakhs of rom each becomes a jeev which vibrates har nam so your naa, abihaas increases exponentially as you progress...if you damage them then they cannot help you
  10. sure apparrently it was designed to cut down kaam , not as effective as naam but hey ho
  11. Veer ji, there are plenty of Amritdhari African descent sikhs which have coped with kesh question , use the right oils and conditioning products and it will be OK
  12. I was thinking about that , Waheguru only knows how many of our beloved sikh family lie buried, burnt or underwater all over India .
  13. Some loser veer ji ...desperate is just about what he will be when this janam is over ...pity him
  14. just down the road for me then in Ilford. I am going to take my best friend she would appreciate it immensely she is a good Christian Dad told her to jap Waheguru and she does,also my Mum my treat
  15. to straighten your hair permanently you need to destroy the strength of the protein bonds in it , so this is willfully harming your kesh ...I think Guru ji would not be down with that... however if you are using gels , sprays with hot air for a temporary straightening the hair is not harmed in the same way so I think that would be preferable to the other method however best would be to accept your kesh as is.
  16. so looking forward to the new films out this year ...can not wait to go see 'eh janam tumre lekhe' I know that Bhagat ji's janam was in Hindu pariwar but did he have kesh khilare hoe like they show after getting involved in his nishkam sewa?
  17. brother if you really are vehla then read the threads about the truth of the nankshahi calendar before saying any more ...it's a real mess paraded around like it's a solution...
  18. veer ji , they may have slowed down but I'm sure the killings are still going on so the running total must have easily topped a third of a million and still the Punjab sarkar is busy feathering its nest with blood money we all know it but when will we do something ?
  19. Agreed this is drug gangs turning the cities of Canada into the wild west. The shame of it is when arrested they will parade their 'sikhness' in the form of their names and invite politicians to tar the Sikhs as a troublemaking immigrant group .
  20. reallly Veer ji I understand what you are saying and I agree we shouldn't curse out people just cos , I did suggest someone should talk to the young guy so that perhaps he can feel comfortable in himself rather than going to extreme exhibitionism to express his inner state. the other guy it may be his profession but surely he can do his job without being filmed ... It is films like this that the vast majority of mockers make and use to denigrate Guru ji's fauj
  21. so I said he found 125,00 bodies evidence I was not trying to inflate figures but give what I was sure of and you added to that count so what is your problem , you wanted definites not guesses.
  22. bhenji 1 is too many, rehi gal lakhan di ...saboot ...kion 10,000 +(pairs) jordey in jorda ghar after blue star wasn't enough for you or the 125,000 mere piare Bhai Jaswant Singh Khalra ne saboot ditta se shaheed houn toun pehle oh shamsam ghat te sarde si, rehe gal duja states di request ke tusi sikhan di lashian di teari canala vich nah pao ji sanoo pani nahin mil rehee ohde le kinnia lashian chahida socho, sharam kar ...appa galla nahin bana re han, sachiai suc vang he kaurda hai
  23. Simple ... these wigga wannabes are only fit for lining up, giving them chittar for disrespecting their sisters and mothers , and making murgey for a couple of years . Duniya spits on the disgusting misogynistic lyrics and treatment of women by Black and white rappers and these nalaik jump headfirst in to the same rutt. Grow up and bande bann.
  24. Thanks Siran Bhenji I'm currently trialling StayStrong hair range from l'oreal it is very good no Sulphates to irritate scalp whilst strengthening hair , the conditioner is a bit minty so puts a refreshing feel to the head . looking for a good combo to use daily without making my scalp sore ...anything anybody else tried that's worth a mention...usually I shell out for litre bottles of Aveda products for family's kesh
  25. I was mistaken in my expression , all that is good belongs to Guru ji I am nothing without him ... even his Sikhi attracted my husband's mind ...where I have not had sangat of sikhs Waheguru has blessed me with sangat of like-minded souls ...and for this reason I could never leave his charan
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