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I also changed my id after people's threats on this forum, but the moderators never intervene to stop these threats or bullying. In fact, i have changed my id for at least three times. I am not sure if the moderators control this forum or not, I wonder.............!

It is definitely not a matha tek becose when we do a matha tek we have guru maharaj in front of us. Here we don't.

http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2015/9/10/sikh-american-man-attacked-and-called-terrorist.html http://fusion.net/story/195924/sikh-man-attacked-chicago-hate-crime/ http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2014/3/13/a-go-home-terroristasikhchildrenbulliedtwicenationalaverage.html

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It is not unsual for Indian people to have their telles on all day with bollywood songs and movies showing nonstop. They are glued to the bollywood nonensense. Even some grown ups behave as if they some bollywood heros or actors.

http://www.rense.com/general16/imm.htm http://www.threeworldwars.com/new-world-order.htm http://educate-yourself.org/nwo/ Migration is not accidental the New World Order explains it.

Well done for speaking up and sharing your very sad and painful experience with us. We are a (sikh) quame, a Panth, a huge family and you are a part of it. Why do you think Guru ji created the sikh quame/the Panth? Did he create this Panth so we could critize others when they came to us with their problems, to fight with everyone? Did he not create this family, this Panth this quame to help each other if someone needed it? It is not a kind thing to do to insult and degrade people that have suffered traumatic childhoods. You had every right to talk to us about your horrid experiences, you are only human aren't you? Sikhi teaches us to be empathetic, forgiving and patient. It teaches us to help others regardless of race, color or creed. Look at Bhai Ganyaa Ji. Bhai Ganyaa Ji should be every sikh's role model. I know he is mine. Helping doesn't only mean just plastering or bandaging the injured or offering water to the thirsty on the battlefield. It also means listening to other people's suffering with patience, kindness and without judging them. It also means feeling empathy like Bhai ji did for the wounded in the battlefield regardless of the fact some of the injured and wounded were enemies. This has got nothing to do with dirty laundry, so don't take any notice of those that are trying to humiliate you for speaking up. It is your experience, your right to speak out or air it and no one else's business to make you feel bad about your decision to come forward. Why should you have stayed silent, why? Why should you suffer in silence? Was it your fault what was done to you? No, it wasn't! You were an innocent child and the very person that was suppose to love and protect you did this to you. How shocking is that? What good is the roof over your head and the food on the table when your vulnerability is being exploited? How did that affect your young mind? Were you able to interact with other youngesters at school or elsewhere in a normal way? I wouldn't have thought so. If people stopped talking and sharing their problems with others they will never be resolved. They will continue to exist from one generation to the next. It is a cyclic thing. Why should you brush these horrible, evil, disgusting experiences under the carpet when there are people around you that you can talk to and are willing to listen to you. I really wish you all the best and am glad you came forward to speak to us. This will encourage so many youngsters in the same situation to come forward too Take refuge in the Guru and hopefully some day you will be able to put all this behind you. Sikhi doesn't teach us to blame the sufferer, instead it teaches us to help them regardless of gender, race, color, creed, caste or class. It teaches us not to judge others. It teaches us humility, kindness, seva, love and daya.. So, don't allow anyone to put you down for speaking up and exposing those that commit these horrendous crimes.

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I am just horrified.

http://dailysikhupdates.com/pakhandi-compares-himself-to-guru-nanak-dev-ji-says-im-from-the-same-light/ Has anyone seen this video before? I just came across this accidently and am not entirely sure what is it all about. It says the person is not real but a pakhandi, but he appears to be so confident and sure of himself. I don't know who he is but why is the woman in the background squealing and wailing? It kind of scared me, so I was wondering if anyone knows what is it all about. Much obliged for your help.

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Hey SheikhYoBooty, this is not how a devout sikh should treat a friend?

My commiserations to you, but you are not the only one with this kind of mindset. I would never call this a 'western' mindset, no way. It is a mindset of someone who has really dived very deep within and discovered a priceless gem, also known as 'Insight/ Awareness' etc. This wonderful awareness is absolutely priceless therefore worth sharing with others, but, there is a but. You have to pick your audience very carefully before you decide to share. You know what they say about one's BANDA? It has to be clean before receiving amrit. if it is not then this banda will not be able to contain the amrit for long. At the first instance it will just refuse to taste or even have it. You tried to share something with your audience which is far too difficult for them to handle because their bandas are not clean. They rejected what you had to share with them and this is what made you feel like an 'epic fool' which is really so sad. You have my full support. If I were you I will make sure I pick the right audience next time. I have also come across those that have decided not to share their insights, their priceless gems, their insights/awareness with others lest they should be labelled 'lunatics.' They are so scared of the daft response it will produce. I am not saying stop trying, no, this is not what I meant. I think roughly 110% of the sikhs not only from Punjab but from everywhere else can do with a proper brain transplant if not full then half will suffice. This should be done in a form of cosmetic surgery! I wonder if there is such a thing as intelligent sikh? I am so desperate to meet them. My desperation is driving me crazy. Unless we are intelligent we can never dive deeper into the ocean to look for priceless gems. Sojji can only be achieved if we are intelligent. Sojji and intelligence go hand in hand. I feel very sorry for your 'amritdhari' aunty. I wonder where she is now... hmm? Poor thing. I congratulate you on your findings, you have probably got the best brain(s) out of the whole sikh kom. I am an amritdhari sikh but I have excomunicated the kom because I cannot learn anything from them. Oh, how I wish the Lord will help me!

Is your marriage 'arranged?' He is undermining you as a woman and as an adult your ability to either handle arguments or 'fights.' The reason he is involving your elders is to show you that you are still a kid! This is a typical behavior of asian men who have no confidence in themselves. This is definitely a sign of very low self esteem on his part you both need to work on this. Has he ever told you as to why he is involving your parents? If not, ask him. I can only think of one reason and that is that they can all gang up on you and blame you for starting the fight.

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