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  1. Sri Harkrishan dheeaaieh jis ditteh sab dukh jaaeeh :BOW:
  2. Taken from Sikhroots.com Vaheguru jee ka khalsa, vaheguru jee kee fateh. I was standing in Ardas with Sree Sahib in my hand to preform sevaa for Degh when someone behind me began doing Simran swaas-swaas. The breathing was really strained as if the person was in Bairaag. I couldn't look back then but when i began serving Degh I was able to indentify the mystery Naam-lover. It was the young boy, Indraj Singh" A dear brother told me thus about this young Singh. A child if you look at his age. A wise Bairaagee when you realize his spirtuality. Such as the innocent Indraj Singh. Some people had observed him crying in Bairaag during Keertan but non realized how pure and love-lorn was his state. Guru Saahib took him into the Sacchi Dargehh recently and he is no longer amidst us in the physical form but his stories and lessons of practical living continue to inspire us. There wasn't an iota of cleverness in him. Whatever he was told by his parents about Gursikhi, he took it literally and lived accordingly. The examples are amazing and have opened my eyes to the hypocrisy in my own living. "Guru Saahib says that if you come acorss a Sikh, you must greet the Sikh with a humble Gur-Fateh", his mom told him once. Indraj Singh took the lesson to heart. Ever since, he would get off his bike to say "Vaheguroo jee ka khalsa, Vaheguroo jee kee fateh!" to every passing Gursikh and "Sat Sri Akaal" to Punjabis. "Beta, Sikhs are instructed to not entertain any lustful thoughts and love and respect those of opposit sex as their own children, siblings, or parents". How the Innocent Indraj Singh implemented this in his life came to light the day some girls from his class came to offer their condonlences at his passing away. "He called all of us 'sister'. We feel like we have lost a true brother". How much better all of our lives could be if everyone could follow in Veer Indraj Singh's footsteps! "I don't recall any time when we had to repeat ourselves to Indraj Singh. He was very obedient, very quiet and dutiful," tell his father, S. Jaswinder Singh. Someone once told him to wear a mala for Simran. It just became another body part for him. Whatever may be the situation he would find a way to keep the mala on his self. Narration of his last moments by his Dad (S. Jaswinder Singh) and Mom (S. Ravinderpal Kaur) Dad: He had a minor heart defect since birth that needed surgical correction. We kept postponing it in the hope that the defect would heal on its own. However, after our trip to India earlier this year, where we had traveled the length and breadth of the country to pay obeisance at each historic Gurdwara, the doctors recommended that surgery be preformed. On my hesitance, Indraj Singh commented, "Daddy, I can handle it. Dont worry about it. Let's go through with it." We relented and the date was set. Mom: On the day of the surgery, I told him, "Beta, let me hold on to your mala, I'll give it to you later. Just keep your focus on the Shabad". Even while being wheeled into the operating room, he was murmuring the Shabad. Dad: Some time after the routine surgery, complications developed and things turned for the worse as an infection seized him. Indraj Singh's blood was clotting and the wounds were not healing. The doctors administered a blood thining agent that created new problems. A mysterious virus gripped his bruised and bleeding body. Unable to diagnose the cause of the multiple serious complications, the doctors placed Indraj Singh under a "Cold Blanket" (a procedure where the body tempreture is dropped to around 30 degrees celsius) to stall the spread of virus. Mom: Throughout the ordeal whenever Indraj Singh was conscious he never complained of any pain or discomfort. I asked him a few times one day to really tell us if he was hurting but his reply as before was in the negative. I then remarked, "Beta, too bauhut Bholla Hai". "Singh Bholey hi haundey ney Mummi" Was his reply. Dad: Gursikhs around the world were praying daily for him. One singh in Toronto would do Five Sukhmani Sahibs for Indraj Singh. Gursikhs in Vancouver preformed a Sehej Paath for him besides praying daily at Amritvelaa. Many were the Choupayee Sahib Paaths done by even young children. There were numerous others in Europe and India. Out of the blue, one day, we got a call from a Granthi Singh of Sree Darbaar Sahib, Amritsar. "Khakey da ki naam hai. Eis laiee Ardaas Karni Hai". They preformed ardaas for him both at Darbar Sahib and Akaal Takhat Sahib. Some kind soul must have prompted them. Mom: We were getting desperate. It had been more than a month of seeing our litle one in such a horrific state. Is Guru Saahib not listening to our Ardas? Litle did i know that in His own mysterious way He was paving the way for the emancipation of our son. Dad: Indraj Singh had been asking me to let him Take Amrit at every Ammrit Sanchaar that would come up since he was five. I stopped him each time as i was apprehensive of violence in schools and someone grabbing his Kirpaan to cause damage. I assured him that we would take him to an Amrit Sanchaar the day he graduated from High School. I guess we was not prepared to wait that long. When the doctors first told us that his chances of survival were minimal, we became anxious to fuffil his wish for Amrit. It was a difficult situation. Indraj Singh was not in a shape to be taken out of the hospital and we had never heard of Punj Piyaarey going to the hospital to an Abhilakhi. I spoke with several Singhs but there didnt seem to be a soultion. I then called my father in India. Although he rarely speaks, that day my father patiently spent a long time with me on the phone. He stressed that we must get the boy Amrit. I was almost out of options when i came across a Singh who does sevaa with the DamDami Taksaal. He informed us that they have written maryadaa that allows for such exemptions. My heart lept with joy. Atleast. our son will go as Gurmukh! Amrit was our administered as per the Singhs' maryada. Dad: I was particularily tired on the night of September 21st 2005 having spent almost the entire day by Indraj Singh's bedside. Instead of heading home i just collapsed on the courtesy sofa beside his bed and fell half asleep. Around 2:00am my brother-in-law woke me up. The doctors had advised that Indraj Singh was in his last hours and we should call whoever needed to see him. I immediately sent for someone to fetch my wife. We did Simran for a few hours and then did our complete nitnem. Indraj Singh was holding on. Then a though struck me. Sukhmanee Sahib has 24 Ashtpadees. They account for each breath we take in a day making them worthwhile. Let us do Sukhmanee Sahib with Indraj Singh. None of us knew it by heart, though. I called a Singh who worked at a nearby office. He showed up about 3 mins later with a couple of Gutkey Saahib. We all did Sukhmanee Sahib. Indraj Singh was most peaceful after the Paath. Mom: I was very emotional at the time. We could hear Indraj Singh doing simran but he was beyond the stage of coming back to us. I pulled myself together for the Ardaas. Somehow, the Ardaseeyaa prayed to Guru Saahib to give Indraj Singh a place in Sach Kaand. This is usually not done for lthe living but it all came just naturally. After the Ardaas, when we said Fateh, i distinctly heard Indraj Singh reply back, "Vaheguroo jee ka khalsa, Vaheguroo jee kee fateh". As we all let out jikaare, all monitoring systems shut down. Our son had really left for his True Mother, Mata Sahib Kaur. Dad: The passing away of our son was so spirtually uplifting that no one cried much then. The following two weeks were like our home was turned into heaven. Keertan day and night and Sehej Paath all day. Finally on the day of the cremation, the scene of hundreds of Gursikhs there to give Sachiyaa Aseesaa to Indraj Singh was one to behold It felt like Gurbaani was imprinted all around us, floating, swinging to melodious tunes .We are so lucky to have had the chance to parent such a Gurmukh soul. May Satguru Ji forgive us for any mistakes that we made in caring for him and may he forever seve Satguru. Vaheguru jee ka khalsa, vaheguru jee kee fateh. :BOW:
  3. yeah man this stuff is next level...........theres so much giaan in what suleman is saying......
  4. Lol! Apprehensiveness and racial tension is born from lack of knowledge, KNow who you are, know you self and you will know God.........all religions lead to God.........but only God knows hows these paths Lead to Him Allah is Ram who is Waheguru who is God So chill...............enjoy the ride
  5. waheguru jee ka khalsa, waheguru jee kee fateh!!! :BOW:
  6. Just some thoughts...........bhul chuck maafi Realisation Read Shabad Hazaeh Patishaaee 10 and didnt understand a word of it, so i dug some English translations............i felt real bad.................Maharaj does so much for us...........and we make time for everything except learning the untam giaani of Maharajs bani, i realised that alot of my nitnem is done almost like a ritual..............i mumble and muffle through most of my bani and when im done..............i dont feel contentment............peace............because ive paid no attention to the arth............ Lessons Learned I need to take time with my nitnem, go to sleep earlier, so i can rise earlier so i have more time to spend on Nitnem...........just listening to the padd ched arth..............and the rest...........well lets just leave that to Maharaj and try and live by Maharajs bhana Bhul chuck maafi
  7. SaadSangat Ji Giani Thankur Singh Ji will be doing katha vichaar this Weekend at Smethwick Gurdwara, He sed that if the youth have any questions to write them all down and bring them with you This is an opportunity not to be missed!!! More details to comes as they become available!!
  8. i realy liked the title of this thread! bahahahahaha :lol: made me giggle for a good few seconds
  9. A bibi who is lving by her faith would not go into an inter-religion marriage, but moreso i have noticed try to use this as a justification to why the SHUD have an inter-faith marriage........as a means of convenience, to suit their needs........ NOT ALL BIBIAH, just a few ive seen and spoken to..............
  10. http://www.gurbaniupdesh.org/multimedia/04...aa%20Udhaar.mp3
  11. Dhan Guru Nanak Dev Ji Sahib............Yesterday was totally mind blowing!!! GIANI THAKUR SINGH JI GONNA BE AT SMETHICK GURUWARA THIS FRIDAY AND SATURDAY!!!! AINT TOO SURE ABOUT TIMES AND STUFF BUT IT GONNA BE PRPER WICKED!!!!! HE SED IF THE YOUTH HAVE ANY QUESTIONS WRITE EM DOWN AND BRING EM!! :nishaan_sahib_right: :vaheguru:
  12. ^^^ that is so true........ The world is bound, sometimes if you stand back you can almost see maya working its magic............we are so engrossed with what is physically infront of us............the inner relm of our own being seems like an alien concept yet it is the very core of everything............ Staying in theme with the topic of "Staying Strong" i recently have come into contact with many Singhniah, who battle with the Maya demons, facial kes being the biggest factor i keep coming into contact with............there are many bibiah who have taken amirt and yet continue to remove kes from their face......... The deep rooting cause, i am beginning to notice is confidence..........(or lack of) fear, denial of ones own form.......i do not know what the answers are, i do not know what to say to encourage bibiah who have taken the oath of the double edge sword to refrain from this mahi beadbi...........all i will say is, if u fear nothing................fear this...........the minute u have doubt, paranoia about such matters..........LOOK for Guru Gobind Singh Ji............reach out, mind, body and soul to Him......plz think of the kurbani your father gave so that His daughters could live today and light up His name...........Trust me..........he WILL come and save you.............even if you need saving from yourself........... bhul chuck maafi
  13. :lol: tooooooo funny especially the third one on the top row of pics bahahahaha
  14. Yeah ive watched afew of his videos, i realy liked that one. A real man is, who in despite of having everything this world has to offer, realises that Still his has nothing............or something like that :BL: A very true and valid point!!
  15. Yeah i gotta admit, this place, especially the Sikh Sakhiah Section, were one of my biggest inspirations. The key to any relationship, especially waheguru is Love, we have to let that nurture and that is what brings us closer to Waheguru............Amrit comes at different stages in peoples spiritual journeys, the important thing is that realise everything is happening in Waheguru's bhana and also look after the "spark" that is inside you.............that is the soul crying out the the Jiv part of you, tell you to go back home.............go back to Maharaj....... lol......Your Mrs has amazing kirpa as well because she is married into a family where Sikhi is still alive, (trust me that is very rare in this day and age). She may not have much inclination towards sikhi now, but YOU have the chance to be her inspiration, like your parents were to You, I am assuming she may not have been so luckly like you wherebuy her parents taught her much about sikhi when she was young, plz forgive me if my wrong. For women it is harder to embarce the religion side on one soul becasue she is too distracted with the worldly status of a woman................... Plx forgive me but i have one benti my brother........each morning as you get up, recite mool manter...........as much as you can...........the important thing is the pyaar behind it.............and just see what happens............there is not lacking in the House of Guru Nanak! Bhul chuck Maafi
  16. Wow thats amazing pahji...........you are truly blessed, dont worry, you were born to them for a reason and you'll find your path Waheguru................cant i ask what factors are keeping you, at the this precise moment in time, following a sikhi path? or what obsticles you feel are a hinderance to you? Bhul Chuck Maafi
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  18. lol aaaaaaaaaw stop throwing your dummies out you prams and, if you wanna debate, behave live sensible adults!! :rolleyes:
  19. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Sangat ji, beggining wednesday 23rd july 2008 Santhya classes will be starting at Nanaksar Taht Isher Darbar, Wolverhampton (Mander street, off Penn Road). Classes will be by Baldeep Singh (Damdami Taksal), from 6.45pm-8.45pm. Classes are open to all ages, for both males and females. Classes will be split: -Begginer (basic alphabet) -Intermediate (Muharni) -Nitnem (beggining with Japji Sahib) -Guru Mahraj Paat Please could you disseminate the attached poster amongst your contacts and promote the class. For further information please call 07967191755. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh
  20. Gurfateh Jio i long time ago i read this sakhi on this forum about a real holy bhagat or something who was proper disabled, like his spine was bent/broken in 8 places, (and i think his name reflected on this?) But he had a realy high avasta and when he was into a royal court to do vichaar on Akaal Purakh everyone stated laughing at him, but he turned around and started laughing at them................this sakhi goes something like this? Has anyone seen it or provide a link to it please? Thank You Gurfateh
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