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The reason why these women would feel insecure is because of society. We look around in our everyday lives and what do we see? Pick up any magazine what do you see? Turn on your tv what do you see? We see women who make us feel abnormal for not having a body like theirs, or not having a face with no facial hair like theirs. However infact, it is those women who are abnormal because im sure normal women are not anorexic women (even though sadly alot of girls have resorted to bulimia etc to become like them).

Anyway, back to my point. Women feel insecure because other women,men, and media put them down and destroy their self-esteem. Guru Ji can give us the power to overcome all of these things. I know thats a profound statement and you guyz might think 'well that's not possible in the real world', and especially coming from a non-amritdhari I'm being a hypocrit. However I'm learning :wub:: and I wish one day I will have the strength to overcome all these issues/battles of self-esteem within myself <_<

I guess for women with these types of syndromes, the best thing to do would be to take the pills and see what they do, if they do not help, and the individual wants to be an amritdhari then they will have to do ardaas and pray for the strength to overcome any obstacles they feel are coming in their way

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To help our sisters along, i think it is very important for the men not to judge a woman because she has facial hair, etc. Most women feel that if they have facial hair, no guy will like them. It is one thing for a man to say 'I don't care if my woman has facial hair' than to actually go through with what they say because of society. However i have met many men/boys, that truly do believe that, and i think if every man was like that, then women wont have a problem :TH: :e:

Also, sometimes girls themselves say cruel things to other girls because that girl has more facial hair, and that also forces the girl to go off the path of Sikhi. I think we should teach children not to disrespect others who are different because that is a huge factor these days.

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I don't have complete answers to the topic but,

<_< :wub: Nicely said. I hope you speak with that type of courage around people in life outside of the forums. The societal pressure on women seems to be 10x more and therefore takes 10x more courage to see clearly and speak up. Sikhs are so badly in need of women with courage who are not afraid to voice realities.

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woww :doh: some good stuff here which i totally didn't see before when this thread came up in the first place.

I'd have to respect the lady that lives with her facial hair and doesn't care what ppl around her think.

I'd have to respect the singh who marries her even more.

sometimes I wonder though...it might be that a singh doesn't care if his lady has facial hair...but sometimes its his mother who doesn't want to get a daughter-in-law who has facial hair?? grin.gif

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