Two Marriages

[00gurpreet_singh00]

given time, any oral tradition can be VASTLY flaweddd

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just play "telephone" if you dont believe shaheed

[Akaali]

Daasn Daas, This is not something that is debateable, its a clear cut answer.

All the sources you gave have no real authenticity, they are not regarded as sources in the panth because they have been altered, the only source that remains un-altered is Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji, and from Guru Sahib's teachings its concluded that one cannot have more than one wife at the same time, so how do you continue to back up your statement with all these false sources, when you fail to see the real source, Sri Guru Granth Sahib. Guru Sahib never talks about wives, but only wife, may times symbolically. Do you think a true Satguru would have children from two wives.

If you follow what's written in Mahan Kosh, and Sooraj Parkaash, and other very unknown granths, you will be misled, and I guarantee you on that.

[Akaal Purakh Di Fauj]

the real source, Sri Guru Granth Sahib.

<_<

[Ambrosia]

Hmm,

I think this is worth researching further so we got our facts straight...

make sure the sources are reliable, not telephone oral la la...

*putting critical thinking cap on* haha

But, whatever it was that happenned... God made it happen. LOL So........ sall good

[Gupt daasan daas]

where in guru granth sahib je does it say that u cant have mmore than one wife?

ive never read that

and shaheed je and khalsa je

shaheed je said oral tradition is flawed, khalsa je also seems to agree to some extent on this

so ure saying sant gurbachan singh je was flawed?

har harjan due aik hai

they arnt one?

r u saying sant baba ishar singh je knew less than u?

r u saying sant baba attar singh je knew less than u?

r u saying sant baba mitt singh je nihang knew less than u?

r u saying al historical texts such as mahaan kosh know less than u?

r u saying someoone just built an extra gurughar and NO ONE int he panth even tryed to stop this?if one of these things was flawed and everythinf else said yes, maybe i wud chamge my mind

BUT ALL EVIDENCE SAYS YES GURU JE HAD MROE THAN WIFE

bhula chuka maf

[Princess]

guru ji did not just have one wife, he had 2, one (mata Sahib kaur) was the mother in guru jis darbar, who asked for kids, and when she added patahseh to the bata guru ji promised her thousands upon thousands of kids.

ppl who think, (nooo wayyy guru ji supported poloagamy) also gotta think, guru ji was a KING, not just because of his link as a direct soruce of GOD, but he was a King in the literal sense. He formed policies, goverend lands, made aquisitions. in those timea a kings had many wives...so being kings soo did our gurus. now i have read, that all the gurus were only grist with one of the wives. but i have read GUru Gobind Singh Ji had 3 kids with Mata Sundri, and 1 with Mata Jito (vice versa im confused hehe)

ppl think our guru wouldnt do that, but if u FAITHFULLY believe the gurus had the soul of gurur nanak dev ji, and are 1 with GOd then you KNOW there is no KAAM karodh lobh moh ahankaar so, for the people who say all of us can do it have more then one wife....compare ur self to Gurus (impossible) then try it

and i garentee u those same ppl (UK nangs) who say "ya, mate we can have more then one wife" or watever, ask them if there wife can have more then one husband, and then look at there facial excpresssions......

soo plz dont doubt history cuz u dont approve of it........polyagamy and gurus doesnt match, polagamy = lust and our gurus couldnt have that in them...

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Ok i just posted a little while ago, and i duno where my post went <_<

But i was saying for the first time i have to say this is the only post i agree with (and others who said something similar)

We shouldn't deny the fact that Guru Gobind Singh Ji had more than 1 wife. I don;t know which wife had 3 children and which had 1, and then the third was known as a spiritual wife, 'mother of the khalsa'. If all 3 women are the same woman then y r Gurudwaras built in India in rememberance for them separately? that doesn't make sense. So what if Guru Ji had more than one wife, we all know it wuzn;t due to kaam or lust or nething so whats the problem with accepting this FACT. (Daasn Daas, my brother, gota disagree wit u on this topic sowie :wub: )

There is historical evidence which agrees so why question whether he did or didn;t just have faith

if we have faith in our Guru's then we shoudn't have a problem accepting the fact Guru Ji had more than one wife

If we have faith then nothing else shud matter

just accept the fact n move on

i used to think also, that "this cant b, Guru Ji having more than one wife?!?! what type of joke is this!!?"

but then someone told me something and it all made sense

All we need is to have faith and then everything will make sense

bhul chuk maaf :wub:

[navdeep kaur]

waheguroo ji ka khalsa. waheguroo ji ki fateh

i have to say this, Guru Ji had only ONE wife...Mata Sahib Kaur is the mother of the khalsa, but not truly Guru Ji's wife...i read somewhere that Mata Sahib Kaur Ji's parents had only desired for her to be married to Guru Ji, otherwise they would not marry Mata Ji anywhere else, so Guru Ji agreed, but he made it clear that he would not consider his wife, that only Mata Sundri ji was his wife.

waheguroo ji ka khalsa. waheguroo ji ki fateh