My Gf Is Pregnant

[Guest _sinner_]

Sangat Ji.. I'm very scared at the moment and need advice

recently my partner found out that she is pregnant, she is non-sikh and I call myself a "Sikh".

We are both at Uni and are studying... We've talked about options.. I wanted to know what Guru JI says about abortion

I know i've sinned already but i'm terrified and confused about everything.

thanks for your responses in advance

WJKK WJKF

[Guest Lohgarh Singh]

wjkk wjkf

abortion is the best out of the two evils hunna?

get the abortion now, n its al over

or hav him/her living n let him/her knowing it was a bludy mistake and nva wanted 2 b born, and knw we having this convo now

its gna get the hel bullied out of it man,

it aint fair on him/her

[H4RPAL]

Mistakes can become the best things in the world if we learn from them and face up to them. An easy option is often the wrong option for dealing with things.

Besides kids get the hell bullied out of the for all sorts of reasons, should we (for example) kill all children through abortion who are likely to be born with slight disbilities for the same reason?

You say you've talked about options, what kind of discussion was there, and what are the viable alternatives to abortion in your mind ( if at all any? )

[Guest lowest of the low singhni]

*don't go for abortion*

[Singh132]

First you made a mistake by messing around outside of marriage. Now you want to clean it all up by having an abortion and killing YOUR child that is in the womb? What mistake did that child make ? You have a duty to take care of that child. It is yours.

If you ask your gf to have an abortion I will say straight out, you are a murderer.

Please check out http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-case.html

If you make one mistake, don't follow it up with an even bigger on.

[Guest Guest]

Veer,

This is a extremely serious situation and your not going to get your answers on an internet forum. You better seriously start thinking about the future and what is best for the both of you.

[Guest Get Real]

Veer,

This is a very serious situation and your not going to get your answers on an internet forum. It's very easy for poeple to voice their opinions but you are the one's who will have to live with the consequences. You both better seriously start thinking and talking about the future, if you have one together or what is best for the both of you in the long term.

[simmal tree]

Vaaheguroojeekaakhaalsaa

Vaaheguroojeekeefatheh!!!!!

Brother,

Abortion is not the best of two evils, or any evils.

Abortion is not an option at all. Whether you call yourself a "Sikh" or you are trying to become one - make your decision.

The best option is not evil. It is righteousness. Why choose an evil option? As Singh132 said, why follow up one mistake with another bigger mistake?

The best option is to get paysh (go to the court of the Guru) in front of the punj pyare, ask for forgiveness and guidance, become Guru-vale by taking khande-ke-pahul amrit, get joined in an Anand Karaj, have the child, raise him/her as a Gursikh, and do seva of the Khalsa Panth.

And take all decisions with permission of the Guru, and permission of this girl with whom you have made this mistake. She will now be a "mother" and she has equal rights to make decisions as you do.

please forgive my mistakes

Vaaheguroojeekaakhaalsaa

Vaaheguroojeekeefathehhh !!!!!!!

[KFI]

You made a huge mistake.

Now, keep the baby

or else you'll make a mistake equal or even more worse then current one

[Heera Singh]

what if the g/f isn't willing to pursue sikhi.. and what if the g/f decides to have the abortion?... 'cause i think in the end its her call.. no?...

veerji is in a VERY difficult situation... havin pre-marital relations is one thing.. but havin them with sum1 of another vaith makes the situation that much more difficult...