Dastar?!

[Sarbloh Kaur]

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

Thanks to everyone for posting their advice, I am becoming convinced that Keski is a Kakkar for women, I really have strong views regarding equality of women, and I guess by not implementing the same rules, I am contradicting myself in a way.

It's just very hard to wear one in the environment I'm in, plus it doesn't help when there is no support from family whatsoever. My parents were against me taking Amrit and that was a struggle, I know we should not worry about others opinions, but sometimes when you feel low because of the way outsiders treat you, it's nice to have support and love from home.

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

[Jkaur]

it's nice to have support and love from home.

I know what you mean here bhenjee, I am still in the same situation after 4years. But bhenjee once you start accepting waheguru as everything to you, I can assure you nothing will make you feel low ...

[DeSingh]

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa,

Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!!

It's just very hard to wear one in the environment I'm in, plus it doesn't help when there is no support from family whatsoever. My parents were against me taking Amrit and that was a struggle, I know we should not worry about others opinions, but sometimes when you feel low because of the way outsiders treat you, it's nice to have support and love from home.

Belive me, I know what you are talking about. I'm mexican and live in a city called Xalapa, and here nobody, and I mean NOBODY wears a turban except me. I wear it since 1994.

I was born as a catholic and when my mother knew that I wanted to change my whole way of living, including religion, she asked me to leave home

For a moment I got panic, but I decided to leave and told her my decission. She didn't let me go.

Now she and my catholic family respects me a lot. Let me tell you, none here know about sikhs, no sangat here, no gurdwara. I just have my nitnem, my tapes and of course, internet.

Every day I have to hear people yelling at me "bin ladin", "aladdin", "kaliman" (a super hero that wears a turban), and so many nick names. I'm used to it and just ignore them.

In that way, it would be easy if I just cut my h

air and take of my turban, nobody would yell at me, nobody would notice my beliefs. BUT I wont cut it or take my sikhi off.

Consider this things, are there any sangat around? a Gurdwara maybe? do you see more turbans in your place or near it? if you answer yes to any of this questions then YOU ARE SO LUCKY!!

Keep up!

Cherdi Kala!

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa,

Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

[GABROO KHALISTAN DAH]

much respect to de singh

[warrior*princess]

bhenji lets not make this a keski as kakkar argument.. lets stick to keski as rehat first.

veer ji, i think that statement contradicts itself

Admin Note: Lets stay away from such controversial debates as per the forum rules.

[Son of Guru Gobind Singh Ji]

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

Thanks to everyone for posting their advice, I am becoming convinced that Keski is a Kakkar for women, I really have strong views regarding equality of women, and I guess by not implementing the same rules, I am contradicting myself in a way.

It's just very hard to wear one in the environment I'm in, plus it doesn't help when there is no support from family whatsoever. My parents were against me taking Amrit and that was a struggle, I know we should not worry about others opinions, but sometimes when you feel low because of the way outsiders treat you, it's nice to have support and love from home.

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

and hence the name SARBLOH KAUR

now prove that you can stay upto the standards of your name AGAIN! hehe

[Jkaur]

keep up the spirit virji de singh ...