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Is there relevance in the order of Kaam, Krodh, Lobh, Moh, Ankaar?

Kaam: Lust

Krodh: Anger

Lobh: Greed

Moh: Worldy Attachment

Aankaar: Ego

kwm kroD ivroD lµG loB moh AhMkwr ivhwxw]

kaam karodhh virodhh la(n)gh lobh moh aha(n)kaar vihaanaa||

Resisting lust and anger he crosses the greed, infatuation and ego.

Bhai Gurdaas Ji

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In regards to Lust lets remind ourselves of what Guru Sahib says...

ibnw AnMd ibvwh qy Bugqy pr kI joie ] sux isKw gur kih Q~ky myrw isK n soie ]25]

binaa ana(n)dh bivaah thae bhugathae par kee joe || sun sikhaa gur kehi thhaakae maeraa sikh n soe ||25||

Without having Anand Karaj those who have <admin-profanity filter activated> relationships. Listen O' Sikh the Guru states, he is not my Sikh.

Rehatnama Mukhthnama

iek kwmix ihqkwrI mwieAw moih ipAwrI mnmuK soie rhy ABwgy ] nwnk shjy syvih guru Apxw sy pUry vfBwgy ]4]3]

eik kaaman hithakaaree maaeiaa mohi piaaree manamukh soe rehae abhaagae || naanak sehajae saevehi gur apanaa sae poorae vaddabhaagae ||4||3||

Some are lovers of beautiful young women; emotional attachment to Maya is very dear to them. The unfortunate self-willed manmukhs remain asleep. O Nanak, those who intuitively serve their Guru, have perfect destiny. ||4||3||

kwmvMq kwmI bhu nwrI pr igRh joh n cUkY ][/font]

kaamava(n)th kaamee bahu naaree par grih joh n chookai ||

The lustful, lecherous man desires many women, and he never stops peeking into the homes of others.

gurmuK Awp gvwie AMdr soDIAY]guramukh aap gavaae a(n)dhar sodhheeai||

Gurmukhs adopt truth and contentment and do not indulge in lust and anger.

Bhai Gurdaas jee

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HOW do we control or eliminate Lust/ Kaam?

kwm k®oD md mqsr iqRsnw ibnis jwih hir nwmu aucwrI ]

kaam krodhh madh mathasar thrisanaa binas jaahi har naam ouchaaree ||

Lust, anger, egotism, jealousy and desire are eliminated by chanting the Name of the Lord.

Guru Arjan Dev Ji

kwm kroD ivroD hr loB moh AhMkwr qjwXw]

kaam karodhh virodhh har lobh moh aha(n)kaar thajaayaa||

God (the Guru) eradicates his lust, anger and resistance and gets his greed, infatuation and ego erased.

Bhai Gurdaas jee

ieMdRI bis kir suxhu hir nwmu ]

ei(n)dhree bas kar sunahu har naam ||

Subdue the desires of your <admin-profanity filter activated> organs, and listen to the Lord's Name

Guru Arjan Dev jee

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waheguru jee ka khalsa! waheguru jee kee fateh!!

kaam does come first in a lot of bani thookhs...well i think all bani thookhs that include the five evils...

i've always seen kaam to be the easiest one to see and fight...we all know what a kaamee thought is that sorta thing...then come krodh...another one that we can physically and mentally detect...

then the other three are a bit harder to see and fight. and i may be wrong, but i've always seen kaam and krodh to be the easiest to know of because it's a specific thing whereas lobh, moh and hukaar are internal things are harder to see...(i dun know if i'm making sense...)

anyhoo...my thoughts anyways...

sandeep kaur

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Thanks for the information,

"The lustful, lecherous man desires many women, and he never stops peeking into the homes of others."

That sounds like me but I am sorting this problem with Naan.

Also how would someone leave all Worldy Attachment (Moh) in this day and age.

How would it work ?

what would you call Moh today?

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vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

VAaheguroo jee... ^_^

In my personal case I think Kaam has been the worst :@ @ and then a close 2nd is ahankaar and then krodh and then lobh and then moh.

I would think that Guru jee knows the general tendencies of all humans and also knows the way our minds and bodies work.

Therefore I'm guessing that perhaps they are a certain order because 1) Either Kaam is the first one we should start fighting, or 2) Kaam is the hardest to fight

Both theories have been presented to me, I don't know the answer - :T:

One thing is for certain,

"Gursikh har bolo maerae bhaee !!!!

Har bolath SABH PAAP LEH JAAEE !!! "

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