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vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

Your saying that naam hasn't worked. That is a joke. There is more then one stage of naam. If you start doing naam simran now, you will get more into it, and hopefully you will get more kirpa from Guru Ji. Naam is power. Gurbani is power.

From what you are saying, it seems like you want to kill yourself because you are depressed. Veer, this is totally wrong. This is not the attitude of a Gursikh. Please do ardaas, as this well help.

And another thing i would like to state is that Guru Ji creates problems and everything is happening according to his will. So accept what he has brought forth into our lives, and smile. This is his will; we can not change it.

In addition, Guru Ji also says in bani:

dhukh dhaaroo sukh rog bhaeiaa jaa sukh thaam n hoee ||

Suffering is the medicine, and pleasure the disease, because where there is pleasure, there is no desire for God.

So please accept this as the will of the God, and take the challenge. Suicide is not the answer bhai

bhul chuk maaf

vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

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vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

Your saying that naam hasn't worked. That is a joke. There is more then one stage of naam. If you start doing naam simran now, you will get more into it, and hopefully you will get more kirpa from Guru Ji. Naam is power. Gurbani is power.

From what you are saying, it seems like you want to kill yourself because you are depressed. Veer, this is totally wrong. This is not the attitude of a Gursikh. Please do ardaas, as this well help.

And another thing i would like to state is that Guru Ji creates problems and everything is happening according to his will. So accept what he has brought forth into our lives, and smile. This is his will; we can not change it.

In addition, Guru Ji also says in bani:

dhukh dhaaroo sukh rog bhaeiaa jaa sukh thaam n hoee ||

Suffering is the medicine, and pleasure the disease, because where there is pleasure, there is no desire for God.

So please accept this as the will of the God, and take the challenge. Suicide is not the answer bhai

bhul chuk maaf

vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

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vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

No God loves everyone. God is our father, our mother, our everything. We are his children. Unfortunately, we are manmukhs, and we have finally obtained this precious amolak jeevan after 8.4 million life forms. This is our one and only chance to be one with God, to contemplate his name and to meditate. God loves everyone. Do not be in the galth faimi that god does not like you. God loves you of course he does

bolo satnaam sri waheguru sahib ji

bhul chuk maaf

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hmm..this is a very sensitive topic..

the sadness that we feel is just temporary, just like the worldly happiness we feel is temporary

do u think god will love those who commit suicide but are not bad people?

God's love is the only kind of love we can call unconditional..he will love you no matter what...however, this doesnt mean God will excuse you from getting your punishment or turning into a ghost or whatever. and we are not the ones to judge who is bad or who is good. God will punish/reward a person according to his/her past deeds

cyb3r_wolf, God does not make people's lives sad.

he puts us in a situation and its how we react to that situation is what makes us sad/happy. however, many people don't realize that these feelings are only temporary...

a true chardi kala person will ALWAYS accept whatever has happened in their life as God's will and will always remain happy, its like they're immune to sadness or sorrow.

Vaheguroo jee ka khalsa

vaheguroo jee kee fateh!

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vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

I know that sometimes people feel depressed, and they want to kill themselves and they pray for death, but yah eventually nothing happens. they dont die. bla bla bla.

The point is its written in our destiny. Guru has written our destiny. He has the remote control of life and death. He can kill us at any time, it is his choice. Don't think that God is being unfair, because god is fair. but we are stupid

vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

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praying for death will not make it come any faster or slower

death will only come to u when God wills it.

i dont know what happens to ghosts, but i think its one of the charasi lakh joons...i guess you would move on to the next joon and get stuck in the cycle of births and deaths...never to know when you will once again get this precious human life..

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Yes, it would be suicide. This human life is precious. Vaahiguru has kirpaa on us and gives this chance to us to meditate on him and end our separation from him. If we commit suicide, then we're throwing away that gift that he gave us and losing the chance to finally end the suffering. The only way to truly end the pain and suffering is to merge with him. I would suggest finding good sangat of singhs that you can talk to and rely on for support. Naam and banee are essential and will always payoff. Even if it seems to have no effect, just keep going. You just have to do more. It's not easy, but living with the consequences of suicide isn't either. Think about all the people who suffer when someone kills themselves. I knew a guy who committed suicide on his 19th or 20th birthday... his mom almost went crazy. And we can't escape our karms through suicide. If we have to suffer through something, we will end up going through that, either now or in a later joon. If you feel you can't take anything more, if you've lost all hope, then do an ardaas to your father. Do paat and do an ardaas for him to take care of you and to give you the strength to accept whatever bhana it is that befalls you. Guru Saahib doesn't let a heartfelt plea go unheard. We just have to do it with full faith, with no doubts or conditions in our mind. Completely submit yourself to your guru, and he'll take care of you. Gursikh sangat is also very important. Ask Guru Saahib to bless you with sangat. Don't even consider suicide to be an option.

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