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[SunSingh]

sometimes you need to emotionally separate yourself from people. be respectfull, show pyar etc. but build up internal defences against their attacks which are nothing more than emotional manipulation designed to control you and compensate for their own weaknesses. i recommend you go to gurdwara and regularly listent to katha to get gian / inspirations. the sangat will also help you, even though you may not speak to them, to see dastar waley and feel thier energy is beneficial.

[Guest Guest]

It happens alot dude. It's the fate for alot of us who are trying to be born-again. I would say despite the initial upset carry on. After a little while if you live life properly they will see that this was a positive change.

I know many people who starting wearing the turban and everything and rather than getting into Sikhi end up in politics and end up ruining there family at home too. I've been through a similar process. Good luck.

[Bored]

Your family doesnt wanna be embarrased seen with a dude that looks like guru gobind singh ji....It will bring their "family honour" downnnnnnnn.