Gurdwara Scandal - Singh Sabha Uk (havelock Road, Southall)

[geo]

you may think what you like of me but please believe this, i am not posting under any different names. these are my own ideas.

this next question is for anyone and everyone.

if your son or daughter wanted to marry a hindu/muslim/christian/athiest what would you do? assuming the first method did not change their mind, how far would you go?

geo, your replys are strangely familiar to arjunsingh, who would have thought. Not once have i mentioned violence, yet you try to make out that those who are loyal to Sikhism as fundamentalists, quite a cheap tactic.

i never said you mentioned violence. i simply said that we should not use violence to prevent or protest at inter faith marriage

[Wake_Up]

Geo,

stop using these cheap tactics to get a negative reaction, which is what you crave for the stupid question you have just posed.

DO NOT CHANGE THE TOPIC!!!

[geo]

im not looking for negative or positive reaction. i dont want to insult or fight. im simply looking for an honest reply to a hypothetical question.

[Wake_Up]

Geo,

If you wish to pose that question, then create your own topic. This has nothing to do with what I posted about.

[geo]

well i have posed that question and i have posted it here. if there is anything wrong with it then that is upto the mods to deal with. until then the question is on here and remains unanswered.

[Wake_Up]

Read my post very carefully. I talked about people indirectly in relationships amongst themselves. I gave an opinion.

[+Singh_is_King+]

Guys, stop scrapping it isnt productive !

All I can say is that the Matrimonial List is another channel for someone to find a partner. The Gurdwara is providing this as a service to the Sangat. If there are Hindus, etc on the list then so be it. There is immense pressure to get married from parents. They are 'event' focused -just want to see their kid get married asap. What many families forget that marriage is 'relationship' based and that is why after a few months problems/ divorce creeps in.

Many families regard themselves to be Indian/ Punjabi/ Jatt, Ramgharia, etc and then Sikh. So the notion of Sikh marrying a Sikh doesnt apply. So when we have 'Hindu-Punjabis' they think its acceptable. These families lack grit !

Coz especially if its a Hindu-Punjabi guy marrying a Sikh girl he will always have his way (ie. Hindu customs, etc) when the child is born, etc -the Sikh girl is just thankful she has got married (not realising she has given up her heritage for this relationship).

I say 'good stock' only marry 'good stock' -let others do as they please. Its all free enterprise.

[geo]

freedom of choice must be allowed. we cannot force people into marrying or not marrying. violence should never be used

[Wake_Up]

If that's the case, would it be ok for other people from other religons to also join the list. What does it matter if a Sikh meets a Christian who is on the list. Yeah, Why Not.

There are people who are embarressed about what I am talkin about now, because they are either the helpers of the service, or those who use the service don't want to limit their chances as it were.

There he goes again, Geo's fave word. Have you been watching Sesame Street. Is the word of the day "violence"

[geo]

If that's the case, would it be ok for other people from other religons to also join the list. What does it matter if a Sikh meets a Christian who is on the list. Yeah, Why Not.

There are people who are embarressed about what I am talkin about now, because they are either the helpers of the service, or those who use the service don't want to limit their chances as it were.

There he goes again, Geo's fave word. Have you been watching Sesame Street. Is the word of the day "violence"

yes christians, muslims, buddhists, athiests, blacks, whites. people are free to marry who they wish.