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Doesn't always mean you will live with mother in law, there are ways to sort that problem out :lol:. Anyway, I like the idea of looking after each other instead of the usual picking on each other......the most important thing I believe is the foundation of trust, once that's established me thinks any relationship will work.

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Doesn't always mean you will live with mother in law, there are ways to sort that problem out :lol:. Anyway, I like the idea of looking after each other instead of the usual picking on each other......the most important thing I believe is the foundation of trust, once that's established me thinks any relationship will work.

hahah most the gurls that get married do hve to live with inlaws..theres one in a million who will actualy trest someone elses daughter as their own..i have a phabi, u can just see from that,,,,a gurl can onli live away form the inlaws if the son agrees to! lol...yeh trust is a big big thing in marraige, theres onli a point in getting married if u can impove ur jeevan 10 times more compared to what it is now,,u gain more support etc if u get married and ur jeevan gets worse or stays the same what was the point in getting married? lol anywya thas my thots again

to op, do u serioucly not ever think about marraige? ur one luky gurl if u don't! i dnt think its about excitment,,,it myt be for some but for gursikhs it myt mean sumtin else,,,,

bhuk chuk maf kurni

Vjkk Vjkf :D

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hahah most the gurls that get married do hve to live with inlaws..theres one in a million who will actualy trest someone elses daughter as their own..i have a phabi, u can just see from that,,,,a gurl can onli live away form the inlaws if the son agrees to! lol...yeh trust is a big big thing in marraige,

Vjkk Vjkf :D

It'd be cool if they could live on there own away from brothers/sisters/parents....then the mother in law has no options left hehe.

Marriage is no biggi.....as long as we're married to satguru waheguru.....I don't need anything else in life.

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hahah most the gurls that get married do hve to live with inlaws..theres one in a million who will actualy trest someone elses daughter as their own..i have a phabi, u can just see from that,,,,a gurl can onli live away form the inlaws if the son agrees to! lol...yeh trust is a big big thing in marraige,

Vjkk Vjkf :D

It'd be cool if they could live on there own away from brothers/sisters/parents....then the mother in law has no options left hehe.

Marriage is no biggi.....as long as we're married to satguru waheguru.....I don't need anything else in life.

true,,, bt its always in the bck ofur mind init...lol

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Hard 'kaur' warriors And people like me are not Sikhs if that's the way you interpret it and people like me do not deserve to be called 'people' (ppl). I forgot to add under:

'Stereotyper'

Bhul chuk maaf

The reason why I said it....maybe I should of added it back then...was cus when I read your post thats how I simply interpreted it.

P.S I'm not on anyones back, if anyone wants to be on my back then I will be all over their back....and this doesn't only go to you.

Again bhul chuk maaf jeeo

EDIT: You know what, I'm going to do a sukhmani sahib for you......maybe I have been too harsh. Forgive me.

I agree with Jag_Singh 100%. The statements in the first post really stereotype girls/women...in a negative manner.

The reason why women are so hyped up is most likely because of society. The attention is focused on the bride. In almost all cultures, the bride is the 'star of the show'. Out of all the people attending the ceremony, she is the one who stands out, therefore she's under a lot of pressure.

If society didn't show how 'normal' it is for the bride to pretty up, then all of this wouldn't even be up for discussion. Evidently, cultural notions are to blame.

It's very upsetting that a girl/woman would even suggest/hint such things, as were introduced in the first post.

Men and women are both very excited about marriages. If the bride-to-be is more excited about a marriage than the groom-to-be is, there's something very very wrong...

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