Need Serious Advice.

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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

pyari sangat jano, please advice me after reading my situation....

Here is the thing:

Few years back, i had strong love by guru's kirpa under the influence of my mother and the amritdhari's around. I dont say the love is gone now, there is, but im very confused with myself. I'm still of young age and not an amritdhari, i was a vegetarian, use to do path in the mornings, evenings and before sleep and it was all guru's grace. And now it has been a year im consuming meat, my path is not going well. Im barely doing. I feel so guilty of myself and i understand that im doing wrong but im still not changing. At the gurudwara katha's i've been told that the ras of the tongue is all false(as in anand sahib di bani) but why am i not stopping the consumption of meat? I know its all wrong but why am i not taking actions? I do path once and barely touch the gutka sahib ever again, why is all this happening to me? Im so confused. I realise the truth but still im performing it. Im guilty and i know i am but im not taking my actions right. The force of kaljug is too strong on me sangat ji. Please please guide me and help me out...

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

[simran345]

I cant say i fully undrstand wat ur goin thru, but i was vegetarin for 10yrs or more, and then started eatin meat again, as i was gettin weaker, i was not amritdhari, nor am i now, but wat i can say is, please dont give urslf extra burden on ur mind, as u need to keep ur mind relaxed and think of other ways to deal with this calmly, rather than becoming ill or somthin from worryin too much.

There could be many reasons for this, but only u will know th real reasons if u ask urslf honestly. Maybe its a phase ur going thru, that may pass n all will be fine after.

But watever u are going thru plz dont lose ur love for god. maybe u could try to stop slowly like u do with exercise, like on certain days not eat it, and work ur way up to eatin less, then not at all.

I was going to add that its not gud if ur amritdhari, but just read that u state u are not. I'm sure if u give it time, things will fall into place n u hope u become like ur parents..

One thing from my personal experience is i would say is please dont do path after eating meat, but this is frm my own personal experience.

God is th only one that can help u here dear, please ask god for help, try to go to th gurdwara, and talk to him as ur best friend. Listen to shabads, ur doin more path than i am thts for sure. Kalyug is like this, pulls one in all directions, but dont give up, being young too its harder to get to the goal u want to. Its not easy, its very hard to be a sikh.

If it was that easy why am i not there yet? U have to keep tryin and tryin until u get wat u want.

hope all goes well.gud luck..

[TejiKaur]

WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WHAEGURU JI KI FATEH

BHANJI IS RIGHT IN ONE WAY BUT U CAN DO PATH AFTER EATING MEAT

Y ADD SIN TO SIN

DO PATH WITH EVERY BREATH

ONE DAY THE MEAT WILL STOP

BUT WE ARE SINNERS AND GOD IS BAKSHANHAR

DONT KEEP URSELF AWAY FROM BANI

ONE THING THO IF U USE A GUTKA THN TAKE CARE OF SUCHAM

BUT OTHER THN THAT

IF IT MAKES U FEEL BETTER BRUSH UR TEETH

BUT KEEP UP THE BANI AND LEARN THE MEANINGS TOO

[simran345]

Thanku bhenji Teji, u are right too, path should be with every breath, but its just somthin happen to me tht after th incident i didnt want to again after eatin meat. i also know ppl tht do path after eatin meat, but i think its coz i dont know wats rite way or wats rong as amritdhari's dont eat meat, n sombody said to me ages ago, well they didnt say they put me down, givin me a mehna tht u do path after eatin egg, etc tht affected my faith from there.

Learned another new thing from bhenji...hugs..